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| Topic: Why do so many women flirt back, but don't wanna talk? | |
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just keep on keeping on 
thanks rose, I will |
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I have flirted, nudged emailed. Women flirt back, then I go to chat or email, nothing!! why bother flirting back when you're not interested? Are the women playing by "The rules"? ya know, wait til the guy calls you 3 times before you answer him--you know, the reason why so many women who go by the rules are single. And I thought I was analytical...why does it matter? I'm serious here, so what if some play by these so-called "rules"? There are surely some that don't care about these "rules", I mean, with a population figure of roughly 150 billion you would think there is at least 100 million. Logic is fun, I think, it just isn't fun when it is twisted into some sort of pity party for someone or when you form such ridiculous rules in your own head to validate why something isn't happening to you without considering that perhaps...just maybe...you are in fact doing it wrong. Cheers. 
f*** you 
actually, you're right. i wasn't asking for a pity party though, I was asking for why. and I believe I got some answers. your answer is a non-answer, as in, there is no reason. but I don't know how you can do flirts wrong, or a nudge wrong? an email, yes, you could say something that just completely turns the other person off, but a nudge, or I like your photo or something? but, in any case, thank you for putting this into perspective Well, it is a question that really doesn't have a 'fit' answer in the first place. With so many different people gathered in one place there isn't one person that can say 'this' or 'that' about the issue. There are multitudes of reasons someone doesn't answer back or responds oddly to a flirt attempt, and of course you have to take into account that possibly the way you are flirting just doesn't tick right for someone else. Keep doing whatever it is that you are comfortable doing, and sooner or later (more than likely later, but this is the internet) it will hit. Like I said, there has to be at least 100 million women out there that aren't bothered by it...or it could be a million, but even then there is still somebody, somewhere, that it will hit right with. Probably in India, but you might get lucky and hit one near you.
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I have flirted, nudged emailed. Women flirt back, then I go to chat or email, nothing!! why bother flirting back when you're not interested? Are the women playing by "The rules"? ya know, wait til the guy calls you 3 times before you answer him--you know, the reason why so many women who go by the rules are single. If I am interested I am interested period. |
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 my thoughts are that when a guy blows a kiss hes waiting to see if i return the kiss if i did he might mail me
I think nudges are just a way to say hi, thinking of you if from someone you know, or interested if from a stranger - either way I think they are the easiest, least threatening way (for the threatened or timid) to just say HI. No matter which nudge they use. |
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I have flirted, nudged emailed. Women flirt back, then I go to chat or email, nothing!! why bother flirting back when you're not interested? Are the women playing by "The rules"? ya know, wait til the guy calls you 3 times before you answer him--you know, the reason why so many women who go by the rules are single. And I thought I was analytical...why does it matter? I'm serious here, so what if some play by these so-called "rules"? There are surely some that don't care about these "rules", I mean, with a population figure of roughly 150 billion you would think there is at least 100 million. Logic is fun, I think, it just isn't fun when it is twisted into some sort of pity party for someone or when you form such ridiculous rules in your own head to validate why something isn't happening to you without considering that perhaps...just maybe...you are in fact doing it wrong. Cheers.
f*** you
actually, you're right. i wasn't asking for a pity party though, I was asking for why. and I believe I got some answers. your answer is a non-answer, as in, there is no reason. but I don't know how you can do flirts wrong, or a nudge wrong? an email, yes, you could say something that just completely turns the other person off, but a nudge, or I like your photo or something? but, in any case, thank you for putting this into perspective Well, it is a question that really doesn't have a 'fit' answer in the first place. With so many different people gathered in one place there isn't one person that can say 'this' or 'that' about the issue. There are multitudes of reasons someone doesn't answer back or responds oddly to a flirt attempt, and of course you have to take into account that possibly the way you are flirting just doesn't tick right for someone else. Keep doing whatever it is that you are comfortable doing, and sooner or later (more than likely later, but this is the internet) it will hit. Like I said, there has to be at least 100 million women out there that aren't bothered by it...or it could be a million, but even then there is still somebody, somewhere, that it will hit right with. Probably in India, but you might get lucky and hit one near you.
That "I like your photo" thing just rubs me the wrong way. Say you liked what I had to say about myself or we live close to each other or anything but that you are emailing me simply because I look good in a pic!!! Looks are so superficial and fleeting....how good do you look upon waking? Or after an 11 hour day at a crappy job? Or after the baby has had you up all night???? Looks are the last reason I want someone to email me, especially someone not on the forums - someone I have no sense about...my profile says looking for friendship...not to be hit on by guys who like my pic! Whew, probably just pi_ _ed off a bunch of folks - sorry! Guess I just needed to get this off my chest! |
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ummmm hello? dont u think men dont do that as well.... and i am not one of those women u speak of lol! yes, but I think most men, if they actually reply to a flirt, would probably email or IM. If a man sees a woman he doesn't want, he wouldn't flirt back (normally, why bother?). So, as long as you flirt back, you might as well be interested? This assumes people are actually serious about meeting someone, though. |
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Edited by
funguymd
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Mon 12/21/09 03:00 PM
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Well, it is a question that really doesn't have a 'fit' answer in the first place. With so many different people gathered in one place there isn't one person that can say 'this' or 'that' about the issue. There are multitudes of reasons someone doesn't answer back or responds oddly to a flirt attempt, and of course you have to take into account that possibly the way you are flirting just doesn't tick right for someone else. Keep doing whatever it is that you are comfortable doing, and sooner or later (more than likely later, but this is the internet) it will hit. Like I said, there has to be at least 100 million women out there that aren't bothered by it...or it could be a million, but even then there is still somebody, somewhere, that it will hit right with. Probably in India, but you might get lucky and hit one near you.
I hope I don't have to go all the way to India to meet someone
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We set this account up for our freind and shes too cute to be single but we can't seem to find one good guy. The pic and profile get nudges and they get responded to almost immediately but they turn out to be too young or too old. What in the world is this world coming too? Blind dates? She wont even agree to those no matter how much we force her. Where in the world do you meet someone? She doesnt do nightclubs and bars.? Please we need the help! *Lillian *Rosa *Laury *Laylani 
Well, I am 44, probably too old for her. That's the problem, the guys her age are all getting it, cause they're young!!  So, the only ones who are still single are either the total rejects, or the older guys, like me! oh well? But in the end, does age really matter??
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I was asking for why. This is a question you will NEVER get an answer to. There really is no reason to ask it. |
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Did I say that? I've lost the stream of thought on this topic.
But, in any case, I think that you are right. Sometimes a flirt works, sometimes it doesn't. no answer, no reason. just is. I think I finally have the answer, thanks |
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