Do you want kids?

I have a health issues that causes me to possible not have kids...it is sooo hard to find a guy who can accept the fact the if things went well an we got married we may or may not be able to have kids.

Doesn't really have a bearing on me as to whom I would or wouldn't date. I am older than you of course, but if a woman can't have kids, but she also just floats my boat, then why wouldn't I take a chance on her? Plus...we can adopt like Brad and Angelina do.

I would hope not... I mean, they should love YOU, not your ability to have children. If you cannot have children of your own, you could always adopt...

Would not sway me away from being with someone that I cared about...



$.02

I do not want kids

I actually do not want kids, and I am sure SOME men would be alright with that

I've made it clear for a very long time that I have no interest in having kids, or in dating anyone who does.

That makes me some sort of pariah to about 99.99% of women on dating sites!

Kids taste like chicken

i dont want kids either. it does seem harder to find someone though. seems like a lot of people want kids. im fine with neices and nephews.

I'm undecided on having kids. If it would happen, then fine, but if not, so be it. However, deciding to date a woman who doesn't want/can't have kids may be a factor.

I have kids and I don't want them anymore...

I don't think so. It's the guys who want kids are more out of luck. Count the number of women on dating sites who has kids and do not want kids. They largely overwhelm those who doesn't have kids and want kids.

I don't even know the last time I was able to talk to a woman with no kids and wanting kids.. It's like trying to find an albino elephant in the North Pole.

I do not want children of my own nor do I date men with kids.

Brit, I wish you love and hugs with your health!

Yeah right

As of now, you are unsure/uncertain if you'll ever be able to reproduce. If this is important to YOU, get yourself checked out. Do recommend you be honest w/boyfriend (potential husband) if he can't accept it, at least you found out before the wedding, and it'll be his loss.

Good luck

Meh, I've never wanted kids. The only reason I would ever contemplate having a child is because it is legal slavery. You make them do all the menial things that you don't feel like doing for free!!! But it's hard for a toddler to get liquor without a bunch of questions.

Anywhoo...Since we have people with clown car wombs to take up the slack (octomom and the plus 8s and 25 and counting or whatever), the human population will still go on.

Worse case scenario if you want rugrats so bad is to adopt. Sure it's fun to have a mini me around, but I use my dog for that.

See, I'm finding the complete opposite. I NEVER run across any profiles of women who don't have kids and don't want kids.

95% of them have kids, the other 5% don't have them but want them.

I must of missed the memo then. I don't have kids, nor do I want any. I must be in the 0% group that doesn't exist.

Try looking at men's profiles. It floors me how many men over the age of 40 are undecided and don't have kids. At what point are you going to decide? What were you doing for the last 20 years?? Did you not find one person to have kids with? Did you just forget and had a lightbulb moment and say "hey, I knew there was something i forgot to do...better get on that to carry on my legacy??? I think by a certain age, you should be damned sure if you want kids or not. It's not an "undecided" question IMO.

I always wanted kids and couldnt have em

all the males on my mom's side have kidney failure. and none of em ever had kids. I look at it as god's way of terminating the faulty gene


because of that I'm kinda short tempered and impatient with people who don't take care of or neglect their kids

I didn't say they don't exist, I said I'm not finding them.



I decided when I was about 22. I can't speak for anybody else.

during cuddle up movie time just slip in one of those "children of the corn" or "village of the damn" movies ...that should ease any desire of wanting kids