okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends.

i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers.

he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own.

any advice ???????

If you can never be together, I don't see the point of trying to pursue a relationship. All you can ever be is penpals. If you want more than that, I suggest you find someone closer to home. Good luck to you.

Someone will have to give in or just remain friends. Not alot of choices for you it seems

no not a lot of choice but i have never meet a man like him nobody makes me feel the way he dose.

and yes we meet on mingle if your wondering wish it was posibal for him and i to be together

$.02

..i know how you feel..i feel the same way about christina aguilera,but alas she has a career and family and i ..well i.. chtiiiiistiiina... ...genie in a bottle.. jk

Hey hottie!!

From reading a lot of your threads

Maybe

You should just concentrate on the kids and being mommy

Save men for later!! JMO

I agree

I was totally gonna say the same. Mend your own life and feel good about loving yourself before you look for someone else to love you.

i was not looking i was just on here to meet new people i did not want to date anyone right now it just happens that this man and i have gotten close over the last 2 months and we talk every day almost and we make each other happy but i do have so much going on in my life i dont know were i stand right now well i guess just see what happens thanks to you all i have made some good friends on mingle.

The words and feelings seem so real, but until meeting you can never be certain. Sometimes the online lovey dovey part is easy because you get to still live your own life here. When it comes down to actually being able to do it in real life, there's the potential for it to all come undone. Sometimes it's easy for people to envision a life with someone else from afar. When it comes to the reality, obstacles and time and obligations all weigh in...and it would probably never be what you thought from the beginning.

So very, very true!!!

Oh FFS!


Hello, you have not met him. You have maybe talked to him through emails/IMs. It is not the same thing! And how long has Prince Charming been emailing you?

Do yourself a favor and be very careful cause Cassanova will be asking you for cash to come visit any minute now cause you are ripe for a scam. You are a young, single mom with kids and your profile screams needy and abused with low self esteem. You are a great target.

Again, talking to someone on the internet is not the same as meeting in person. We do not fall in love with screennames, ummkay?

But, I know this will go on deaf ears.

If you have a towel, throw it in. It's futile.

I agree that this sounds like it could be the makings of a scam. I think I would cut out now. It never has a chance of making it anyhow, even if it is real......your circumstances just don't make it possible. Time to focus on things closer to home.

I still say

So when I first returned to the dating world I 'met' a very nice lady. We emailed 4-5 times a day, just chat in general. This goes on for 2 months. When my divorce is finally final we meet for coffee.......................................

"A few extra lbs". was about 100 more than me.

Still a sweet person and I would have gone out with her again, but no romantic connection.

Across the ocean and all the other stuff, stay home and take care of self and kids first.

Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto.

Life sucks, buy a dog.