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"Let them go..If they don't come back they werent yours to begin with"..I've always heard that saying..anybody think its actually true?  no
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i think it's more about free will than it is about just letting them go without making any attempt to woo them.
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If I let go, then why would I want her to come back? Oh I bet lady has been reading t-shirts again. No Peccs,I didn't read it off of a T-shirt  ,I've heard it before and I've been thinking about so I thought I'd post it here..gawd knows I post everything else..lol..But I don't think its true either cuz seems to me if you're meant to be you wouldnt have parted to begin with.
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In my experience when you love someone and let them go AND THEY COME BACK.....they will do it again and again over time. I don't want that and deep down I don't think most people do either.
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"Let them go..If they don't come back they werent yours to begin with"..I've always heard that saying..anybody think its actually true? No. If they loved you to start with they wouldn't have a reason to leave. |
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In my experience when you love someone and let them go AND THEY COME BACK.....they will do it again and again over time. I don't want that and deep down I don't think most people do either. ...  ... Touché, GOOD one!
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"Let them go..If they don't come back they werent yours to begin with"..I've always heard that saying..anybody think its actually true? Yes I do believe this. I think sometimes the timing just isn't right. So it is better to let them fly solo for awhile. If later on you can get it together in a healthy way why not go for it. Life is too short. |
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"Let them go..If they don't come back they werent yours to begin with"..I've always heard that saying..anybody think its actually true? No. |
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Yup....and my pet rat Fifi has never returned.....that b*tch!!
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Every guy I ever let go, I was glad to see him leave, no way in hell do I want any of them to come back again!
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It depends upon the definition of 'come back' and 'let go'. I loved my first husband with all my heart and was completely devoted to him,,but when the trust left(after his infidelity) I couldnt remain in an intimate relationship with him. We wont get back together, most likely(its been fifteen years) but he is still the love of my life.
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It depends upon the definition of 'come back' and 'let go'. I loved my first husband with all my heart and was completely devoted to him,,but when the trust left(after his infidelity) I couldnt remain in an intimate relationship with him. We wont get back together, most likely(its been fifteen years) but he is still the love of my life. Totally true, and this has happened to me. Now one thing though, if you love them, and you know absolutely you didn't cheat on them, and they didn't cheat on you, and they are feeling stressed out from any problems in the relationship, I would say reluctantly, let the butterfly fly free, if they want to go, and if you both remained true during the separation, you can let them back, otherwise you were probably better off not together. |
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But if they chose to leave...good bye cause I was not important enough in their life. It goes both ways darlin no kiddin sherlock.... but if my b/f screws up....and I want to leave because of said screw up....and he lets me walk.... or whatever the reason is....i understand its a two way street....the point of the question is if you love someone do you let them go to see if they will return... IMO....absolutely not. Hold on to what you love. |
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But if they chose to leave...good bye cause I was not important enough in their life. It goes both ways darlin |
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Edited by
FETTS61
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Sun 12/13/09 02:15 AM
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ive gotton some insight reading some of these posts.although, im still hopeful that the saying is true
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It depends upon the definition of 'come back' and 'let go'. I loved my first husband with all my heart and was completely devoted to him,,but when the trust left(after his infidelity) I couldnt remain in an intimate relationship with him. We wont get back together, most likely(its been fifteen years) but he is still the love of my life. Totally true, and this has happened to me. Now one thing though, if you love them, and you know absolutely you didn't cheat on them, and they didn't cheat on you, and they are feeling stressed out from any problems in the relationship, I would say reluctantly, let the butterfly fly free, if they want to go, and if you both remained true during the separation, you can let them back, otherwise you were probably better off not together. Happen to me too...When a relationship is so onesided it's better to let go.Sometimes it better to let the other regroup.I'm sure we all at one time had someone tell you, your the love of my life,you know they mean it, but then again empty words with no action to back it. |
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