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Topic: Single Fathers
YourDaddyDerek's photo
Sat 12/12/09 06:49 PM

This a great thing man...I wish I could have had this opportunity for my kids..Any woman in thier right mine can see through that you are responsible. I wouldn't think this would create any problems. Good luck out there:smile:


THANK YOU! Its nice to have support of the brotherhood

msharmony's photo
Sat 12/12/09 10:34 PM


Well I will be honest the words luggage or baggage to me is de-meaning big time. If a man ever referred his kids or his life as baggage or luggage to me they need to take the time out and deal with life and take a stronger look within.

So I can see were others do not like their kids referred to in that sense. I assure you a man would only refer to my kids one time as luggage or baggage for he would not get a second chance to call them that again.

Even though I don't feel the OP meant anything by those words or meant it the way some of us sees those words. For I have seen others refer to kids and issue in another's life with those same words.

At times the words we pick and choose makes a big difference of how we come across to others.




Obviously, if i felt my kids were a negative influence then do you think i would have taken them? their mother still wanted them but she is a drug addict and i couldnt let that happen. I dont understand why people decide to focus on the wrong things. seriously. I just wanted to know about dating as a single parent and now it has turned into a discussion that i used a word that rubs people the wrong way. jeezus.



I agree, how many abusers talk to other people about their little 'angels'? Its all about perception. Someone that is taking care of children on their own is certainly a bit more weighted than if they only had to care for themself.

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