Topic: rate me
Smileycoll's photo
Sun 12/06/09 07:30 PM
Kinda new here...tell me the truth!

tanyaann's photo
Sun 12/06/09 07:32 PM
It looks good! Welcome to the site! And post often on the forums, it helps! :smile:

sun_devil_92's photo
Sun 12/06/09 07:44 PM
OP, overall I really think your profile is stellar.

However, there is something that does give me pause: when you noted what you are looking for in a guy, the first statement that I read is, "I am looking for someone that I can trust and is honest."

Thus, as a guy, I start asking myself, "Does she have trust issues? Am I going to spend half of my time with her on egg shells having to convince her that I'm trustworthy, or is she going to bolt like a rabbit when it hears lightning at the first sight of tension in the relationship?" A serious red flag with a guy.

What I would recommend is changing the following sentence:
"Someone that I can go out and have a great time with doing anything."

to:
"Someone that I can go out and have a great time with doing anything since I trust his honesty and is fun to be with."

You see, you're able to still note that it is a quality that you like (and need), but don't put it out there like some sort of red flag for guys.

I wish for you the best.

Smileycoll's photo
Sun 12/06/09 07:58 PM

OP, overall I really think your profile is stellar.

However, there is something that does give me pause: when you noted what you are looking for in a guy, the first statement that I read is, "I am looking for someone that I can trust and is honest."

Thus, as a guy, I start asking myself, "Does she have trust issues? Am I going to spend half of my time with her on egg shells having to convince her that I'm trustworthy, or is she going to bolt like a rabbit when it hears lightning at the first sight of tension in the relationship?" A serious red flag with a guy.

What I would recommend is changing the following sentence:
"Someone that I can go out and have a great time with doing anything."

to:
"Someone that I can go out and have a great time with doing anything since I trust his honesty and is fun to be with."

You see, you're able to still note that it is a quality that you like (and need), but don't put it out there like some sort of red flag for guys.

I wish for you the best.
Thanks ....good to know. I changed it although I am really only looking for friends on here.

Etrain's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:04 PM
Very erotic indeed...welcome:banana: :banana: :banana:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:09 PM

Kinda new here...tell me the truth!
love

sun_devil_92's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:11 PM
Thanks ....good to know. I changed it although I am really only looking for friends on here.


Oops, missed that part. blushing

Seriously, even for friendship you don't want to have someone that has trust issues either. You want them to not just give trust out willingly, but you don't want to have that eggshell walking feeling around them either. It is kind of hard to describe I guess, so if what I wrote doesn't make sense, I empathize.

Smileycoll's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:15 PM

Thanks ....good to know. I changed it although I am really only looking for friends on here.


Oops, missed that part. blushing

Seriously, even for friendship you don't want to have someone that has trust issues either. You want them to not just give trust out willingly, but you don't want to have that eggshell walking feeling around them either. It is kind of hard to describe I guess, so if what I wrote doesn't make sense, I empathize.
It makes sense and thats why I changed what I wrote. Glad to hear your input flowerforyou

Smileycoll's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:17 PM


Kinda new here...tell me the truth!
love
LOL Haven't even been on here a month.

Ted14621's photo
Sun 12/06/09 08:34 PM
Hey little girl...want some candy? Wanna go for a ride?devil

Oh, stop! I'm teasing

Jtevans's photo
Mon 12/07/09 01:55 AM
10!flowerforyou love drool

Smileycoll's photo
Mon 12/07/09 09:08 AM

10!flowerforyou love drool
Awe thanks Jt winking

jazzz123's photo
Mon 12/07/09 01:49 PM
Hi everyone, I am new to this and would like some guidance with my profile, would appreciate the feedbackflowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:19 PM


Very erotic indeed...welcome:banana: :banana: :banana:


Etrain..is there anything you DON'T find erotic?

Nopebigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

Celticfc1888's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:33 PM
Hi and welcome

GG2's photo
Sat 12/12/09 07:25 AM
Smiley you're too pretty to do the pic-in-front-of-the-mirror shot!!