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If you have to ask either you already know or you're paranoid, and either way that means the relationship is over. 
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 How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument?  Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Tell her you just turned gay, and if she could recommend some guys for you from her collection. |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Point at the pile of mail on the table and non-challantly say that there is a questionnaire from your church she needs to fill out, it's a survey on extramarital affairs. |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something If she's a good investment strategist, then don't. Suck it up and pretend you haven't noticed anything. The guys may come and go, but you're permanent. |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Tell her you just turned gay, and if she could recommend some guys for you from her collection. 
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Point at the pile of mail on the table and non-challantly say that there is a questionnaire from your church she needs to fill out, it's a survey on extramarital affairs. 
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something If you have to ask, either you already know, or if it's the same in every relationship, the problem is with you. So why ask? |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something If she's a good investment strategist, then don't. Suck it up and pretend you haven't noticed anything. The guys may come and go, but you're permanent.
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something If you have to ask, either you already know, or if it's the same in every relationship, the problem is with you. So why ask? 
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Well point blank and there will be an argument there is no getting around that one. |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something It depends upon the relationship. If the adultery is not blatant or there is no other mistreatment going on, I would just state that I felt that there was something that he wasnt telling me and that I dont want him to feel he has to hide anything from me. Id explain that my goal was for both of us to be happy and if he wasnt, I really would like us to try to work on it by starting clean. |
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Edited by
sagacious22
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Fri 12/04/09 04:18 PM
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If you have to ask either you already know or you're paranoid, and either way that means the relationship is over. I think if there is love established and they weren't cheating then they would want to talk about it, not get defensive. |
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something Well point blank and there will be an argument there is no getting around that one.
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something It depends upon the relationship. If the adultery is not blatant or there is no other mistreatment going on, I would just state that I felt that there was something that he wasnt telling me and that I dont want him to feel he has to hide anything from me. Id explain that my goal was for both of us to be happy and if he wasnt, I really would like us to try to work on it by starting clean.
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something I think for me before I ask this I am going to have a pretty good idea or proof. So by that time I really don't care if they get angry or defensive. |
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"Honey I want you to be honest and please don't lie to me. I want to know if your cheating. If your not then I will take your word for it because I love you and trust you with all my heart. If you are cheating then I will have to kill you."
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I was just wondering if that stale taste in my mouth is some other dude?
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How do you ask someone if they are having an affair or cheating on you without starting an argument? Because you know defenses automatically go up as soon as someone is accused of something I think for me before I ask this I am going to have a pretty good idea or proof. So by that time I really don't care if they get angry or defensive.
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 track their azz
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been there done that...theres really no correct way to go about it ...just go with the flow.
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