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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me.  Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! woohoo but Goof's booty is all mine 
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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me. Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! woohoo but Goof's booty is all mine He'll be so pleased. 
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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me. Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! woohoo but Goof's booty is all mine What no sharing?? 
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Edited by
franshade
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Thu 12/03/09 01:10 PM
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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me. Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! woohoo but Goof's booty is all mine (see page 1) What no sharing?? NO!!! I'm greedy!!!! |
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Like it or not I really thingk your actions speak louder than words.
You can tell a woman straight to her face that you are not interested in anything serious but if you push for sex she is going to think you are interested in more. Why? Because generally women equate giving sex as a meaning more than just temporary relief. It is just a cultural norm. Your plan of action is out of order. Fair sex is not without responsibilities and allowing for feelings. Yours and your partners. That you feel guilty later is you telling yourself to do better. Holding off for sex with someone you care about will not kill you. Not like you are going to forget how or damage the equipment by reserving it for something meaningful. I don't believe you are incapable of love. If you look for someone you like first rather than just want to bone you may be surprized how your feelings will develope. |
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So OP, is that why your profile says you are looking for friendship??? You might want to change it over to IE if you want to talk about honesty. You actually sound from this thread very selfish. If bedding women is as callous as this your post, then I'd not be surprised if they were the ones that didn't want anything further from you than a one night romp. Anyway, good luck to you.
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Sounds a bit like horn tooting here.
"All women who sleep with me fall in love with me ". Hog wash. Stick to booty calls or fwb, just be honest and get tested regularly. Don't spread the "love"or "friendship" so to speak.
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Wow, I think someone needs to stand up for ronny
It's obvious he already feels guilty, because he feels responsible for the broken hearts he leaves in his wake, and the best advice he can find here is to do booty calls? It's been said that, "women have sex with the men they love, while men love the women they have sex with". Ronny may be non-committal, but he seems to be interested in more than a 1 night stand, and he shouldn't be held responsible for the women who chose to use sex as a means to win his heart. It would be like a woman who sits near her phone waiting for a call from a guy she's pining away for, blaming the guy for making her fall for him. Question for the women: Would it make you feel better if he never called you back in the first place? Ronny, as to your original questions. 1. It's not your fault if after getting into a relationship, you find that - once those romantic feelings fade - you're just not that into her, as she is you. You don't have to feel responsible for someone else's feelings, especially when you're intentions were good. 2. If a grown woman makes the decision to pursue a relationship with a non-commital guy, she only has herself to blame, in the end. |
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Look thats why i asked the question! Should i have a disclaimer before sex???? Is it my responsibilty to protect their feelings even though they wont??? ummm yes it is the 60's are over. the old "love em and leave em" mentality is no longer acceptable behavior if you're not interested in a women beyond getting in her pants you would do better on something like adult friend finder Wow, in the 60s, that's how things were going? Damn..I was born too late or too early. |
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Wow, I think someone needs to stand up for ronny It's obvious he already feels guilty, because he feels responsible for the broken hearts he leaves in his wake, and the best advice he can find here is to do booty calls? It's been said that, "women have sex with the men they love, while men love the women they have sex with". Ronny may be non-committal, but he seems to be interested in more than a 1 night stand, and he shouldn't be held responsible for the women who chose to use sex as a means to win his heart. It would be like a woman who sits near her phone waiting for a call from a guy she's pining away for, blaming the guy for making her fall for him. Question for the women: Would it make you feel better if he never called you back in the first place? Ronny, as to your original questions. 1. It's not your fault if after getting into a relationship, you find that - once those romantic feelings fade - you're just not that into her, as she is you. You don't have to feel responsible for someone else's feelings, especially when you're intentions were good. 2. If a grown woman makes the decision to pursue a relationship with a non-commital guy, she only has herself to blame, in the end. Um, I did stand up for Ronny, re-read my posts up there. I see nothing wrong with what he's doing, because he never lied. I don't feel sorry for anyone- man or woman- who lets themselves fall for someone who was upfront about not wanting anything more than sex. That's teenage behavior, adults are supposed to be in control of themselves and if someone doesn't want a relationship with you, all you have to do is walk away. I let myself get involved with a guy who just wanted friends with benefits years ago, and yes I got hurt in the end, but it was my own damned fault for staying with him. No sympathy here. |
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Wow, I think someone needs to stand up for ronny It's obvious he already feels guilty, because he feels responsible for the broken hearts he leaves in his wake, and the best advice he can find here is to do booty calls? It's been said that, "women have sex with the men they love, while men love the women they have sex with". Ronny may be non-committal, but he seems to be interested in more than a 1 night stand, and he shouldn't be held responsible for the women who chose to use sex as a means to win his heart. It would be like a woman who sits near her phone waiting for a call from a guy she's pining away for, blaming the guy for making her fall for him. Question for the women: Would it make you feel better if he never called you back in the first place? Ronny, as to your original questions. 1. It's not your fault if after getting into a relationship, you find that - once those romantic feelings fade - you're just not that into her, as she is you. You don't have to feel responsible for someone else's feelings, especially when you're intentions were good. 2. If a grown woman makes the decision to pursue a relationship with a non-commital guy, she only has herself to blame, in the end. Um, I did stand up for Ronny, re-read my posts up there. I see nothing wrong with what he's doing, because he never lied. I don't feel sorry for anyone- man or woman- who lets themselves fall for someone who was upfront about not wanting anything more than sex. That's teenage behavior, adults are supposed to be in control of themselves and if someone doesn't want a relationship with you, all you have to do is walk away. I let myself get involved with a guy who just wanted friends with benefits years ago, and yes I got hurt in the end, but it was my own damned fault for staying with him. No sympathy here. And so you did... we're on the same side of this one then I also tried the FWB thing, and got burned. I don't recommend it. Take care |
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