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Topic: Would..... YOU
Up2Us Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 3926	Wed 12/02/09 09:48 AM
Would you..... Give up being close to family & friends. Leave your job.... All, for a long distance relationship.

aladytoo Joined Tue 02/03/09 Posts: 833	Wed 12/02/09 09:58 AM
Yes I would, if both was on same page, and was a progressive relationship.BUT!! I would expect the same from my partner.The point being which move is in the best intrest for both.You have to weigh out both sides.This is not just a one sided desision.One does have to look for a job that moves..so a lot of research has to be one who's more flexable?Who rent who owns...there is so much that has to be done,before you make that move.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 12/02/09 10:01 AM
Not unless I won the lotto. I have three houses that I couldn't sell in this economy.

ronica Joined Sun 11/08/09 Posts: 22	Wed 12/02/09 10:08 AM
It depends on how long I've known the person and if they were compatible with me or not. You also have to take in consideration what the living conditions would be like too. If you are leaving your job and family for a place that is in the middle of no where and the other person doesn't have a good job or no job at all, I would say that is asking for trouble. Weigh out the pros and cons. If it really does make a positive change in your life, then go for it. If it would make things harder and more difficult, then don't.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 12/02/09 10:08 AM Edited by Jill298 on Wed 12/02/09 10:15 AM
Nope. Relationships don't always last. I worked to hard for my job to give it up. My family has always been there for me and I have always been there for them. It's to big of a gamble with to much to lose to give everything, my whole life up. Also, I have a child that is VERY close with my family. I don't have the right to take that away from her just so I can have a man. There is nothing any man can offer me that can replace my daughter's relationship with her grandparents, aunts, uncle, cousins...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 12/02/09 10:11 AM
Absolutely Not!

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Wed 12/02/09 10:17 AM
Nope.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76432	Wed 12/02/09 10:17 AM
Even though there is no job to give up my family is the one thing in my life that has always been there for me. At one time I thought I would move if the opportunity was to arise but through the years it seems my *** is planted pretty deep right here where it belongs. So guess my answer is no......... The only way I would move if it was close enough for me to still be able to come see my family so it must be within driving distance.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Wed 12/02/09 10:23 AM
Did it once an will never do it again. I am not leaving my family an friends again!! Screw that!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 12/02/09 10:24 AM
Did it once an will never do it again. I am not leaving my family an friends again!! Screw that! I knew you had left... I never heard that it didn't work out. Sorry sweety

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Wed 12/02/09 10:34 AM
Did it once an will never do it again. I am not leaving my family an friends again!! Screw that! I knew you had left... I never heard that it didn't work out. Sorry sweety oh yeah it ended in Aug. blah!

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Wed 12/02/09 10:36 AM
Would you..... Give up being close to family & friends. Leave your job.... All, for a long distance relationship. Nope

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Wed 12/02/09 10:39 AM
Nope.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 12/02/09 10:40 AM
Did it once an will never do it again. I am not leaving my family an friends again!! Screw that! I knew you had left... I never heard that it didn't work out. Sorry sweety oh yeah it ended in Aug. blah! how long were you there?

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 12/02/09 10:47 AM
Would you..... Give up being close to family & friends. Leave your job.... All, for a long distance relationship. Yes in a NY second I would.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 12/02/09 11:09 AM
no I wouldn't.I would probably be so miserable without my family around that I would ruin the relationship anyway. I would miss my kids way too much!!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 12/02/09 12:14 PM
I did, and even though it didn't work out, I have no regrets about it. Nor do I feel that if I did meet someone who lived far away that I wouldn't do it again. Would I do it right now? No. But, within two years? Yup. By then, I will be in my new career and I will be open to all possibilities.

catseyes1 Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 1459	Wed 12/02/09 01:36 PM
Not at all, should be meet in the middle.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Wed 12/02/09 01:42 PM
Yes I would, if both was on same page, and was a progressive relationship.BUT!! I would expect the same from my partner.The point being which move is in the best intrest for both.You have to weigh out both sides.This is not just a one sided desision.One does have to look for a job that moves..so a lot of research has to be one who's more flexable?Who rent who owns...there is so much that has to be done,before you make that move. I totally agree with this..

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Wed 12/02/09 01:44 PM
Yes I would, if both was on same page, and was a progressive relationship.BUT!! I would expect the same from my partner.The point being which move is in the best intrest for both.You have to weigh out both sides.This is not just a one sided desision.One does have to look for a job that moves..so a lot of research has to be one who's more flexable?Who rent who owns...there is so much that has to be done,before you make that move. I agree with this 100%!