Topic: What would you say?
TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 12/02/09 11:10 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


Humm most likely what I said last time it happen. Due to it happen way too soon within less then 4 dates even though we had talked a lot.

I told them that was very sweet & thank you even though I cared for them that was not something I could say that quick and when and if I did it would be from the heart.....................I feel that one should acknowledge when one tells you something like that and it should not be ignored but to me it is best to be honest with them and not beat around the bush....


And no it did not last for I never had those feelings towards them which I was honest and told them. I've never been one to play one or just keep them around in order to have someone.


Gator76's photo
Wed 12/02/09 11:22 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I like you...not like, like you...but like you very much...now mind you...that doesn't mean I'll like, like you in the future, necessarily...but it doesn't mean I wouldn't ever say I like, like you (by this time she is walking, verily, running the other way! laugh

Seriously, say "thank you, that is very special..."

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 12/02/09 11:44 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten

This has happened to me, I have smiled said thank you and told them I love the time we have shared.

If and when I am questioned I let them know when and if I say those words I will mean with every part of my body, heart and mind.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/02/09 12:09 PM




:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I like you...not like, like you...but like you very much...now mind you...that doesn't mean I'll like, like you in the future, necessarily...but it doesn't mean I wouldn't ever say I like, like you (by this time she is walking, verily, running the other way! laugh

Seriously, say "thank you, that is very special..."


I am writing this down in my handbook of knowledge.


Dragoness's photo
Wed 12/02/09 12:09 PM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


Exactly what you said. I am not sure and do not want to lie.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/03/09 05:58 AM





:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I like you...not like, like you...but like you very much...now mind you...that doesn't mean I'll like, like you in the future, necessarily...but it doesn't mean I wouldn't ever say I like, like you (by this time she is walking, verily, running the other way! laugh

Seriously, say "thank you, that is very special..."


I am writing this down in my handbook of knowledge.


:thumbsup:

no photo
Thu 12/03/09 08:03 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


what you talking about willis

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Thu 12/03/09 08:13 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I would look at my watch and say "Now how long before you decide you have to change me....?"


no photo
Thu 12/03/09 08:42 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


Love is a vague term that people use loosely which has a different meaning as there are people that use it

because a person say they love you may not mean they are in love with you

so it may be best to reply with a non-sexual response to deflect the topic off yourself ...such as ...if more people had love in their heart this would be a better world...then grab their hand and sing

WE ARE THE WORLD
WE ARE THE CHILDREN
meow meow meow meow meowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
meow meow moewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/03/09 06:47 PM




:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


Humm most likely what I said last time it happen. Due to it happen way too soon within less then 4 dates even though we had talked a lot.

I told them that was very sweet & thank you even though I cared for them that was not something I could say that quick and when and if I did it would be from the heart.....................I feel that one should acknowledge when one tells you something like that and it should not be ignored but to me it is best to be honest with them and not beat around the bush....


And no it did not last for I never had those feelings towards them which I was honest and told them. I've never been one to play one or just keep them around in order to have someone.


flowerforyou

cherie091279's photo
Thu 12/03/09 07:05 PM
I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. If he said it and I wasn't ready to I would just say thank you.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/04/09 12:39 AM

I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. If he said it and I wasn't ready to I would just say thank you.
flowerforyou

ujGearhead's photo
Fri 12/04/09 12:44 AM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I'd say "Prove it" then hand her the toilet brush.

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/04/09 01:06 AM
I once asked the fella what he meant by that("I Love you"). I then proceded to explain that there was no obligation for him to claim to feel something if he didnt,,,,,never did say I love you back,,,,


relationship ended pretty quickly...lol

LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 12/04/09 01:22 AM
I figured out very early in life that its best to just bite my tongue if I feel anything before a guy tells me that he does..That way if he never says it I don't come off looking like a doof..lol.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 12/05/09 01:01 AM

I once asked the fella what he meant by that("I Love you"). I then proceded to explain that there was no obligation for him to claim to feel something if he didnt,,,,,never did say I love you back,,,,


relationship ended pretty quickly...lol
flowerforyou

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Sat 12/05/09 01:56 AM
You know it really depends on the situation! I have had one say it before i met her and i let her know you need help with that! I have in other cases had feelings but not love and wasn't sure what to say and said i dont know what to say???? It's a crappy feeling though and it almost always ends right there!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/06/09 01:35 PM

You know it really depends on the situation! I have had one say it before i met her and i let her know you need help with that! I have in other cases had feelings but not love and wasn't sure what to say and said i dont know what to say???? It's a crappy feeling though and it almost always ends right there!
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dolphin14's photo
Sun 12/06/09 01:36 PM



:heart:What if the other person says "I love you" first,but you can't say it back because you are not sure?:heart:


smitten What would you say?smitten


I have just said thank you and changed the subject. If i don't feel i sure am not going to say it just cuz the other did.

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Sun 12/06/09 01:41 PM
Couldn't tell you, don't see that happening for me.