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Topic: Now What!!!!!!!!??????????
shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 11/30/09 11:16 AM
You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!! I met up with him last night. you emailed him 3 times since last night??? Yup. lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply... If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool. are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight? No. He said he wanted to plan a real date for us. he also KNOWS I want to see my old gf's. That being the case, I have a real reason for wanting to go there again.............aside from him. I'm confused... are you and your girlfriends going to the same place you went last night with this guy? No, no, no, Jill. I used to be friend's with these two sister's. Their dad owned a bar. Now, one of the sister's own's a bar herself. I haven't seen these two in year's. I want to go see them while they are at work at this place.

purple2people Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 129	Mon 11/30/09 11:16 AM
Do him a favor and stand him up again. This thread must be a joke or you really should stop being so mean to boys. A man would not have tolerated you standing him up twice and ask you out again. Boys will, in the off chance you may be "nice" to them after a few drinks.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 11/30/09 11:17 AM
I'm not sure how that's any of our business. I asked a valid question and she answered it. She put a question out on a public message board, she made it everyone's business when she did so. Or don't you think people have sex? of course she put it in a public forum. She answered it, it seems to defend herself. Whether not she had did or didn't have sex with the guy isn't relevant to what she was asking. I just thought it was an awfully personal question under the circumstances. I am guessing the resoning behind the question is that there is the belief that if a woman sleeps with a dude on a meet (or even first date) then the guy will not respond to any contact from the girl. Yeah, it is a personal question, but I can see why it was asked.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 11/30/09 11:17 AM
You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!! I met up with him last night. you emailed him 3 times since last night??? Yup. lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply... If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool. are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight? No. He said he wanted to plan a real date for us. he also KNOWS I want to see my old gf's. That being the case, I have a real reason for wanting to go there again.............aside from him. I'm confused... are you and your girlfriends going to the same place you went last night with this guy? No, no, no, Jill. I used to be friend's with these two sister's. Their dad owned a bar. Now, one of the sister's own's a bar herself. I haven't seen these two in year's. I want to go see them while they are at work at this place. by all means you should go out with your girlfriends. If he calls... then he calls. If he doesn't, well you didn't spoil your night waiting on him when you coulda been having fun with your girls.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Mon 11/30/09 11:17 AM Edited by Down2earthdebbie on Mon 11/30/09 12:03 PM
STOP chasing him delete & FORGET!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 11/30/09 11:18 AM
Wow you are a jerk

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 11/30/09 11:18 AM
Do him a favor and stand him up again. This thread must be a joke or you really should stop being so mean to boys. A man would not have tolerated you standing him up twice and ask you out again. Boys will, in the off chance you may be "nice" to them after a few drinks. Well, he did.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 11/30/09 11:20 AM
You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!! I met up with him last night. you emailed him 3 times since last night??? Yup. lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply... If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool. are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight? No. He said he wanted to plan a real date for us. he also KNOWS I want to see my old gf's. That being the case, I have a real reason for wanting to go there again.............aside from him. I'm confused... are you and your girlfriends going to the same place you went last night with this guy? No, no, no, Jill. I used to be friend's with these two sister's. Their dad owned a bar. Now, one of the sister's own's a bar herself. I haven't seen these two in year's. I want to go see them while they are at work at this place. by all means you should go out with your girlfriends. If he calls... then he calls. If he doesn't, well you didn't spoil your night waiting on him when you coulda been having fun with your girls. I am not going out with these sister's. I want to see them. I haven't in year's. They both work at the same place. One sister own's the joint.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/30/09 11:20 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 11/30/09 11:22 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something I asked if he was messing with me. Couldn't blame him if he was. lol

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/30/09 11:24 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something I asked if he was messing with me. Couldn't blame him if he was. lol I think he is probably confused,or thinks you are playing games with him

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 11/30/09 11:28 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something I asked if he was messing with me. Couldn't blame him if he was. lol I think he is probably confused,or thinks you are playing games with him He isn't the only one I've stood up. I told him so. Sometimes.....I just get disheartened......is that a word????lol Anyway, sometimes, I just can't follow through. Dating get's very tiresome at time's.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 11/30/09 11:30 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something I asked if he was messing with me. Couldn't blame him if he was. lol I think he is probably confused,or thinks you are playing games with him He isn't the only one I've stood up. I told him so. Sometimes.....I just get disheartened......is that a word????lol Anyway, sometimes, I just can't follow through. Dating get's very tiresome at time's. That's understandable

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 11/30/09 12:26 PM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something Well, you're very unusual.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21864	Mon 11/30/09 01:09 PM
You stand the guy up TWICE, call him stupid, then start a stalking campaign with e-mails and visiting old friends who just happen to be at a bar that he hangs out at, and you wonder what's wrong? Okay now I'm confused.

Just41Night Joined Mon 11/30/09 Posts: 1676	Mon 11/30/09 01:24 PM
Maybe the guy did not think it would get as far as it did... Got cold feet... Maybe it was not anything you did wrong! It happens everyday!!!!

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Mon 11/30/09 02:20 PM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned. I dont think that when a girl emails me a lot. Unless she starts actually saying crazy stuff about suicide or cussing me out or something I asked if he was messing with me. Couldn't blame him if he was. lol I think he is probably confused,or thinks you are playing games with him He isn't the only one I've stood up. I told him so. Sometimes.....I just get disheartened......is that a word????lol Anyway, sometimes, I just can't follow through. Dating get's very tiresome at time's. That's understandable Do you think you should be dating at all? honey... If you stood me up once your a@@ would be grass. If you suddenly started showing up at places I hang out while over texting me.... restraining order! Get my drift?

purple2people Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 129	Sat 01/23/10 12:28 AM
Do you think you should be dating at all? Ditto...

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 01/23/10 06:56 AM
"As the Bar Turns"...................................

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21864	Sat 01/23/10 04:15 PM
The OPs post is over two months old. They could be married by now. Or both in the nut house.