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Topic: initernet dating and replies
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Sun 11/29/09 02:52 PM
Why is it that when you write a lady a message with honest intention she does not even respond?? From eveything I can see on my end it appears that they read the message and then decide to do nothing. Is it that they want you to persue them?? Or is it that they are so scared cause they are not sure who is on the other end?? And of course yes there are some that are nice enough to answer back...but very few...I am interested to hear other guys experiences with this site and others and well as a womens point of view...Have fun with this one all...:smile:

Jim519's photo
Sun 11/29/09 02:53 PM
It's the internet...

Lower your expectations and dot stress it

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/29/09 02:56 PM
I always answer when someone messages me- i will ignore a nudge if i don't know you but i wouldn't worry about it all so much

some people respond some people don't- they might be too busy or might be talking to someone they are interested in- there are so many reasons- just move on to the next one- its no big dealflowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Sun 11/29/09 02:57 PM
More than likely...they aren't interested...move on to the next onedrinks drinks drinks

Thomas27's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:02 PM
You'll usually get laid by the ones that respond... That's a little scary too though... Don't think it's supposed to be that easy.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again with the honest intention approach.

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Sun 11/29/09 03:03 PM
Because it's the internet, there are some desperate people...key word "some". If a person responds to their message, they think that the person is interested in them. Sometimes, being friendly can be misleading. Trust me...I know!

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Sun 11/29/09 03:05 PM

Because it's the internet, there are some desperate people...key word "some". If a person responds to their message, they think that the person is interested in them. Sometimes, being friendly can be misleading. Trust me...I know!
Ty for your insite...it is the internet is it not??!!

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Sun 11/29/09 03:05 PM
'usually' ?? laugh laugh

Note to all that care, laugh , just cause I answer an email it doesn't mean i'm gonna sleep with ya laugh


You'll usually get laid by the ones that respond... That's a little scary too though... Don't think it's supposed to be that easy.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again with the honest intention approach.

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Sun 11/29/09 03:07 PM

'usually' ?? laugh laugh

Note to all that care, laugh , just cause I answer an email it doesn't mean i'm gonna sleep with ya laugh


You'll usually get laid by the ones that respond... That's a little scary too though... Don't think it's supposed to be that easy.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again with the honest intention approach.

even if we say pleaseflowerforyou laugh

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Sun 11/29/09 03:13 PM

Why is it that when you write a lady a message with honest intention she does not even respond?? From eveything I can see on my end it appears that they read the message and then decide to do nothing. Is it that they want you to persue them?? Or is it that they are so scared cause they are not sure who is on the other end?? And of course yes there are some that are nice enough to answer back...but very few...I am interested to hear other guys experiences with this site and others and well as a womens point of view...Have fun with this one all...:smile:
With MOST,,,,,honestly,,,,,its what you look like in your pics,,,,or your age to theirs, or habits, or locations, or They
don't give a damn about who writes them ever,,,,they might not even read your email for aweek or two,,,or never,,,
But lets face-it,,,,,whats the FIRST thing YOU DO,,,if you get an email from a lady?
You read it,,,,right,,,,then,,,other you respond then look at her pic and age,,,,or you do THAT before you respond to it...

SO DO THEY!

So,,,,your pic's can make a big difference to many here as they
think hurried and shallow,,,like most of the guys do here,,,lol,lol,l0l

But there are MANY reasons,,,,,,drinker Good luck...

Thomas27's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:14 PM
Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:15 PM

Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em



scared surprised shocked

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Sun 11/29/09 03:17 PM


Why is it that when you write a lady a message with honest intention she does not even respond?? From eveything I can see on my end it appears that they read the message and then decide to do nothing. Is it that they want you to persue them?? Or is it that they are so scared cause they are not sure who is on the other end?? And of course yes there are some that are nice enough to answer back...but very few...I am interested to hear other guys experiences with this site and others and well as a womens point of view...Have fun with this one all...:smile:
With MOST,,,,,honestly,,,,,its what you look like in your pics,,,,or your age to theirs, or habits, or locations, or They
don't give a damn about who writes them ever,,,,they might not even read your email for aweek or two,,,or never,,,
But lets face-it,,,,,whats the FIRST thing YOU DO,,,if you get an email from a lady?
You read it,,,,right,,,,then,,,other you respond then look at her pic and age,,,,or you do THAT before you respond to it...LADIES READ THIS RESPONSE TELL ME IF YOUR AGREE....???

SO DO THEY!

So,,,,your pic's can make a big difference to many here as they
think hurried and shallow,,,like most of the guys do here,,,lol,lol,l0l

But there are MANY reasons,,,,,,drinker Good luck...

Thomas27's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:18 PM


Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em



scared surprised shocked



Heard it from a High Schooler... Thought some could relate...:angel:

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Sun 11/29/09 03:18 PM


Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em



scared surprised shocked
Is this something that you do...laugh

Thomas27's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:20 PM



Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em



scared surprised shocked
Is this something that you do...laugh



In my head all day long....

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Sun 11/29/09 03:22 PM

Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em
THATS,,,just NOT funny to me!

catseyes1's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:24 PM
You can say maybe they are "Not interested". Don't let that discourage you just be who you are and have fun.

Thomas27's photo
Sun 11/29/09 03:27 PM


Use the three F's


Find em
**** em
Forget em
THATS,,,just NOT funny to me!



It's hilarious to me!!!!rofl


Try it sometime....smokin

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Sun 11/29/09 03:30 PM

You can say maybe they are "Not interested". Don't let that discourage you just be who you are and have fun.
I am having fun...and I do not let it discourage me...I just like to hear what luck others are having with this scenario...

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