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What you are going through is just a Rehearsal of what Marriage will be.!!
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What you are going through is just a Rehearsal of what Marriage will be.!! I've had a rehearsal of a marriage, living with someone, all that fun stuff. this is NOTHING like that was. I didnt have to work for that relationship, he came after me, i didnt go after him.... Maybe thats the problem? |
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I am a fairly shy guy so I never approach women for fear of being rejected. I say to you today that you need to tell him how you feel. If he does not reciprocate verbally or physically (by either telling or actually showing you how he feels), then move on. Let him come after you if he wishes. But by then, it may be too late. Not for you ..... but for him.
There are too many good guys out here looking for a good woman like yourself for you to be wasting your time with triviality. Move on, babe. Gain strength and just move on!! |
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Here is what I think. So, you say you guys hang out, there has been some smooching, cute stuff like that. And that you like him and he's fun to be around, and that you talk while you're hanging out, but not much when you're not together. Do I have the gist of it? I think so.
If he's kissing you and not pressing to go further, he probably likes you. If he is the one to ask if you want to hang out, it usually means he's thinking about you and wants to see you. I have a lot of guy friends, so sometimes I do get small amounts of insight. Guys usually aren't fans of talking on the phone. They'd rather be watching tv, playing a video game, what have you. So I'm gonna guess you guys text. It might just be a simple matter of him not knowing what to talk about. Sometimes its easier to carry a conversation in person than it is through text message. If you text him and he almost always texts you back, it's a good thing. If he sometimes ignores you for a while, I'd be a little curious myself. If I were you I'd just tell him that you're starting to like him, and you'd like to talk to him more when you guys aren't together. Men can't read minds and they can very rarely read signals, so be blunt about it. Explain where you're coming from and most likely, if he has feelings for you, he'll understand and put forth more of an effort. Best of luck, lady. 
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P.S. Let me know how it goes.
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Men are simple they don't like chatting it up like we do. If you guys do great together then ask him out more. Don't go all girly on him wanting all this attention. You might just lose him.
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tell him about it!
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Here is what I think. So, you say you guys hang out, there has been some smooching, cute stuff like that. And that you like him and he's fun to be around, and that you talk while you're hanging out, but not much when you're not together. Do I have the gist of it? I think so. If he's kissing you and not pressing to go further, he probably likes you. If he is the one to ask if you want to hang out, it usually means he's thinking about you and wants to see you. I have a lot of guy friends, so sometimes I do get small amounts of insight. Guys usually aren't fans of talking on the phone. They'd rather be watching tv, playing a video game, what have you. So I'm gonna guess you guys text. It might just be a simple matter of him not knowing what to talk about. Sometimes its easier to carry a conversation in person than it is through text message. If you text him and he almost always texts you back, it's a good thing. If he sometimes ignores you for a while, I'd be a little curious myself. If I were you I'd just tell him that you're starting to like him, and you'd like to talk to him more when you guys aren't together. Men can't read minds and they can very rarely read signals, so be blunt about it. Explain where you're coming from and most likely, if he has feelings for you, he'll understand and put forth more of an effort. Best of luck, lady.
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Wed 11/25/09 07:29 AM
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guys are mostly stupid in their own way
they are worrying about the big report to the supervisor or how they are gonna get the fuel pump on the car fixed or watching the big game on Sunday they need a woman to tell em what's in front of their faces if you don't tell him how is he spose to know? |
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I've been hanging out with a guy for awhile now, hes really sweet, fun to talk to and funny, but only when I'm with him. When we're not together he doesnt have a lot to say, and we can go days without saying a word to eachother. Its really frustrating, and I dont know what to do about it. Should I tell him hes not giving me the attention I want or would that make him even more distant? I need help. Some people, me included, are just not real chatty. |
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 This sounds like a good crush,wink,,so now if you want him to see you better,,or get closer,,if you want to try the bold approach, just ask him if he'd like to do something out? The most he could say,,,was nah,,,,so nothing lost, and then you would know he's not into you that away. Then the other more skilled tatic, lol, would be for you to be around where he goes out at,,,and pay little attention of his presents,,,,maening speak to him,,,but act like YOU feel no crush on him,,,,if HE likes you,,,he will move in to you closer as he feels YOUR not liking him,,,in a close way... But if he doesn't try to speak closer to you,,,then you might have to go to the above and just speak your mind,,, Good luck and if he's not into you,,I think some above mite be,,,wink,lol
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I've been hanging out with a guy for awhile now, hes really sweet, fun to talk to and funny, but only when I'm with him. When we're not together he doesnt have a lot to say, and we can go days without saying a word to eachother. Its really frustrating, and I dont know what to do about it. Should I tell him hes not giving me the attention I want or would that make him even more distant? I need help. I think you should talk to him about it,if he is a good friend he should be able to talk to u too. |
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I have to agree with JAG on this...
I'm not saying I havnt been shot down. I know what it feels like, I'm still here too. But, I just feel like it would sting a little more with him for some reason I don't really agree with this being shot down by anyone is hurtful. Ask yourself would it be better to go on as you are and get shot down in a month or so. I dont' think so since your feelings are going to continue to grow. I see a major miscommunication here since both seem to enjoy being together and yet no one has stepped up to the plate and verbalized it. I am a strong believer in talking without that there is nothing. Good luck hope it works out for you. |
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