Well come here big boy I got something that will hold ya moobs up hehehehehe

they r mean an i think it makes them fill better about there self

shallow world, my friend. people may deny it but we are only human.

It's called preference, and everyone has one whether they want to admit it or not. Everyone has something they find attractive or unattractive, it could be size, race, age, whatever, but we all have one. I have several preferences:

I don't date men who are old, fat, ugly, stupid, illiterate, have children/want children, racist, ignorant, bald or balding, religious, arrogant, highly educated, extremely close to their families, loud, puts their friends' opinions before their own, obnoxious, tacky, boring, dumb, unambitious, annoying, promiscuous, or close-minded.

Yes, it's a very long list, yes I'm very picky, and yes it is attainable.

I wouldn't say no one. There are plenty of people that will and do. You just have to be more careful and not fall so quickly until you know about them.

It's all about preferences.

The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Skinny people have dating problems, as well. So do the fit people or "barbies" because some people judge them by their looks as well.

Apparently there's alot who prefer 'large' people. Why else would there be people making a killing with certain porn?

Seriously though, it's not about size. As Rose said, I'm one on the opposite side of the spectrum and have a hard time. It's tough out there!

I only date midgets.

I think you have the right idea!

Some people are insensetive to other peoples feelings, but not everyone. Just be patient and be yourself, good luck.

I like guys on the heavy side. Beauty in on the inside not in the size of a person. You just haven't found the right girl for you yet. She's around you'll see.

Most women I know prefer a bigger man, not my preference, but to each her own. I think the OP might be going after the wrong women.

I happen to be 6'3" 250 lbs...but I work construction during the day and am a bouncer at night, so mine is more muscle than fat. I haven't had a problem finding women.

But you give up too easily. I work around people all the time and especially at the nightclubs, I see more big, FAT, dudes with fine women.

Part of the reason is that they realize that looks are superficial and they work to develop their REAL attractive qualities.

Such as their charm, wit, sense of humor....

Kindness, caring, selflessness....

Loyalty, trust, security, commitment.

and love, communication, and respect.

I wold suggest spending time building these qualities, trying them out, then come back and tell us how tired you are.

This simply comes down to attraction. Some women are not attracted to fat men. Just like others may not be attracted to thin men, bald men, short men etc.

Exactly. Some men aren't attracted to me because I'm tall or because I'm too thin / not curvy enough for them.

As thebig guy in this thread it's all attitude. I love being big, I play every sport there is and kick skinny a$$ all the time. Not too bigg though. Woman luv to feel protectedand that's what these arms are for. Some woman don't like some don't know what they like until they give it a try, don't give up bro it's really all preference

wow, i'm almost weight twice..I'm 205, yeah and I'm self conscious about my weight to a point

But for the topic starter, i think you're too self conscious about it. I have seen also a lot of good looking skinny girls with big guys. Confidence is the key (i'm also saying this to myself).

Their plain ignorant and too judgemental. I'm thin but i stayed with a large guy for 10 year. I didn't care if he woz fat. U WILL get wot u want sooner or later. Luv comes around wen u do not search for it. Strange but true.

charm is deceitful!
Beauty is vain!

Some have alot of hurt inside of their souls and manifest that in various ways by projecting it on others.

Remember they are but just a bean in your pocket of aquaintances and move it to the other pocket.

Goof approves of you!

I know...like it matters.