Topic: I met a lady last night....
daniel48706's photo
Sun 11/08/09 02:15 PM

Was it mE? laugh :wink:


lol sowwy babe, twasnt you

peachiegirl28's photo
Sun 11/08/09 02:23 PM


happy for u hopefully the distance wont matter after to longflowerforyou


Well IF things go well, as I have saidw e just met last night lol, I still have a lease here until next June so...



hang in there if its worth it absence only makes the heart grow fonderflowerforyou

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Sun 11/08/09 02:33 PM
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MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 11/08/09 02:39 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 11/08/09 02:41 PM

Distance shouldnt matter... You could be like me and meet a girl in Iraq and then get shipped back home and never get to see or talk to her again.....


I agree that distance shouldn't matter. I dated a guy in Tenn for a year before he moved to Cali. It was the easiest transition and we stayed together for 6 years. flowerforyou

The right person is worth the effort. winking

Good luck in your possible new romance. drinker

silly's photo
Sun 11/08/09 02:53 PM
Should never let the distance come between two ppl.u just might be given up the right one.

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Sun 11/08/09 02:53 PM
I also met a fine lady here on Mingle2 who also lives many miles away. For now that thrill and knowing when I leave out my front door I'm really going somewhere my visit would be well recieved...., Enjoy the moments now and hope that they stay that way when and if you two become one in union..., Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!

Boobella's photo
Sun 11/08/09 03:47 PM

New lady on mingle, she is intelligent, beautiful, and my age. Why does she have to be over 14 hours away by car?!


Well you can always fly ! I can't help myself but your arms would be real tried lolo ...rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Gator76's photo
Sun 11/08/09 03:51 PM

New lady on mingle, she is intelligent, beautiful, and my age. Why does she have to be over 14 hours away by car?!


Well, the way I look at it..if it gets to the stage where you're dying to see her...and vice versa...it's a seven-hour trip. 14 hours divided by two! That's why they call it a relationship! Good luck!
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tanyaann's photo
Sun 11/08/09 03:52 PM
Distance does suck, but can work, if both are willing to make it work!

msdestinbooty's photo
Sun 11/08/09 03:56 PM
That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!

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Sun 11/08/09 04:09 PM

That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


I love to fly, to be honest. I would love to be able to fly everywhere I went. But it can add up fast in expenses lol, especially when you add in having to rent a car, and hotel costs.

No, the way I look at it, by the time my lease is up, I should have a good feeling on whether or not it is worth pursuing, and I have always been interested in the state she lives in, so I would not be adverse to moving closer to her. I may well have to move around then anyway to attend college, and I know there are colleges that offer the degree in ministry that I want to pursue in her state.

Meanwhile I am going to enjoy getting to know her better, and becoming good friends with her. As I have said many times int he past, and firmly believe, you can't have a relationship if it isn't built on friendship first, because int he end, friendship is what will be left ;-)

Annet's photo
Sun 11/08/09 04:13 PM

New lady on mingle, she is intelligent, beautiful, and my age. Why does she have to be over 14 hours away by car?!

She must be nice. She liked that clown nosed picture you posted. Looking beyond that, fourteen hours is too far. Miraculous things have happened, however, clown nose and all.

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Sun 11/08/09 04:27 PM


That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


I love to fly, to be honest. I would love to be able to fly everywhere I went. But it can add up fast in expenses lol, especially when you add in having to rent a car, and hotel costs.

No, the way I look at it, by the time my lease is up, I should have a good feeling on whether or not it is worth pursuing, and I have always been interested in the state she lives in, so I would not be adverse to moving closer to her. I may well have to move around then anyway to attend college, and I know there are colleges that offer the degree in ministry that I want to pursue in her state.

Meanwhile I am going to enjoy getting to know her better, and becoming good friends with her. As I have said many times int he past, and firmly believe, you can't have a relationship if it isn't built on friendship first, because int he end, friendship is what will be left ;-)



Im even willing to move as well. I mean if we really like each other then yeah Im willing to move!! Heck if I flew one time who knows I may will want to fly again.

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Sun 11/08/09 04:29 PM

That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


If you're afraid of heights and claustrophobic- as I am- it can suck huge.

Holly4459's photo
Sun 11/08/09 04:34 PM
Everyone's gotta be somewhere....:smile:

daniel48706's photo
Sun 11/08/09 04:38 PM
That's the funny thing; I have a mild case of claustrophobia; for example, I can not go underneath my trailer anymore, and if I twist and turn in my sleep, pinning my arms, I will wake up in a panic, FIGHTING to free my arms, that type of thing. But flying completely relaxes me. Even in the aftermath of 9/11, flying from Hawaii to Chicago to Fort Wayne, the entire flight relaxed me big time.




That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


If you're afraid of heights and claustrophobic- as I am- it can suck huge.

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Sun 11/08/09 04:56 PM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Sun 11/08/09 04:57 PM

That's the funny thing; I have a mild case of claustrophobia; for example, I can not go underneath my trailer anymore, and if I twist and turn in my sleep, pinning my arms, I will wake up in a panic, FIGHTING to free my arms, that type of thing. But flying completely relaxes me. Even in the aftermath of 9/11, flying from Hawaii to Chicago to Fort Wayne, the entire flight relaxed me big time.


That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


If you're afraid of heights and claustrophobic- as I am- it can suck huge.



I guess it probably didn't help that I had an 11 hour layover, was sick from meds withdrawals and hungover. Maybe if I try it under different conditions Ii'll do better.laugh

daniel48706's photo
Sun 11/08/09 04:59 PM
lol, yeah those might be very good reasons as to why you didnt enjoy it last time lol




That's the funny thing; I have a mild case of claustrophobia; for example, I can not go underneath my trailer anymore, and if I twist and turn in my sleep, pinning my arms, I will wake up in a panic, FIGHTING to free my arms, that type of thing. But flying completely relaxes me. Even in the aftermath of 9/11, flying from Hawaii to Chicago to Fort Wayne, the entire flight relaxed me big time.


That always happens to me. I like someone but they are hours away by car. And I have never flown either not sure if I would enjoy flying or not!!


If you're afraid of heights and claustrophobic- as I am- it can suck huge.



I guess it probably didn't help that I had an 11 hour layover, was sick from meds withdrawals and hungover. Maybe if I try it under different conditions Ii'll do better.laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 11/08/09 05:01 PM
Daniel


If ya really like her

Go after her!!!!

Just do it!!!

Forget the distance man!!!:heart:

Socratease's photo
Sun 11/08/09 05:15 PM
Distance is a strain,if there is more care than say a normal relation in close proximity would have,than its a possiblity but highly difficult.Frustration sets in on both sides after a while,takes 2 calm and caring people to work that one out....but gl