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hi.. I am still married.. living with my husband. We agreed to separate
as he admitted to me he cannot stay monogomous. We have had an up and down relationship andthought he could control himself by being married to me. He won't as he is finding women online and having affairs of sorts with them. it is an addiction of which he won't find help as he states he wants his cake and eat it to. Enough of that. I am just looking to make new friends. and to say hello.. |
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Seperated is still married, I think ?
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welcome to JSH. You'll meet lots of cool people here and make great
friends. 
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hi..you are right.. still married.. so.. yes.. still married.
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Welcome to the JSH family. Lots of nice people here. Sorry for your
delema, but you life will go on. Ever need to chat, drop me a note. |
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yep it is manwich
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Thank you..
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want a Pepsi??????
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Hi Evanlia,
my heart goes out to you. Hang in their. Just know you do have worth and are a beautiful person. Keep moving towards the divorce if you feel it's not working. Don't stay in a relationship that degrades your worth. You're bigger and better than that. God bless |
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no.. I prefer coke... thanks..
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thank you so much.. I know that.. he says he is sorry over and over and
you know? he goes right back to his laptop.. hides his IM's from me. I have put up with it long enough. anyway.. one step at a time.. |
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been there and done that....I don't go for the "cake and eat it too"
routine. It's hard but life does go on. |
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sounds like he needs help..and for you to move on..i personally couldnt
be with someone like that at least until he gets help.. and welcome to the site..a great place for making friends Enjoy  
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like cat and sweet said move on. No one wants to be in a relationship
with someone who doesn't appreciate them |
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hey..thanks...he refuses to go to counseling for his addiction..so
therefore... he chose his way of living. but thanks for the welcome.. I love to meet new people |
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All I can say is the internet is one of the worst yet best inventions
ever. I was married to guy that picked women up at bars brought them home to rub my nose in and then take them home & spend the night with them. I also meet a new tennant whos husband met another woman on line and left her & their daughter. But the good part of the internet is you got a chance to find someone better. |
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that is true.. I just know.. I will have a hard time trusting a man in
my future. I have been told every lie in the book.. I am now soo hypervigilent on liars. I know there are some good men out there... |
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IMHO chronic philanderers don't change unless they really want to and it
doesn't sound to me like he does. I have been involved with a few guys like this in the past, so my advice to you is to walk away and don't look back. Any man who can't be 100% faithful to the woman he claims to love is not much of a man or truly capable of loving anyone. |
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Cheers to you and well said SheNerd
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spoken like a knowlegable person. I know he won't change.. he lays low
at times.. but the addiction is still there. he has not hit rock bottom.. maybe he won't ever. I have to think of my own sanity. I have a great job... great kids... great parents and sister. |
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