It is hard looking at yourself the way the opposite sex will. My comments are generic and not specific to you because I don't know you. I do think what I say is pretty accurate if what I have seen over the last thirty years means much.

Now days men have seen there Mamma's work and they are not likely to buy into the idea of too many women as a "catch" to be spoiled or pampered. You have to make yourself something they want. Which is quite a bit. They are convinced they can get it.

They see young women able to take on the responsibility of asking for and paying for dates as easily as they do. So setting around and playing Princess is not going to go real far.

They see sex as something women want as much as they do so over rateing the value of the honey pot that is readily available doesn't mean much if you don't have something substantial to go with it.

With looks wearing out eventually I would suggest having some kind of skill for a career and being smart about your money; protecting your credit and your reputation. Young men will party with a gal but they marry a lady that hasn't made and addict out of themself.

You might, and that's even doubtful, catch a man having a baby but it won't keep him. Once you have them it is a lot harder to get another.

for the most part i agree.


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The days of the spoiled little princess are over. Lording sex at her discretion to get what she wants doesn't fly with a lot of guys anymore. Financial responsibility should be equal or close to it. Sexual intimacy should be equal or close to it, and not used for head-games and favors. Personality is very important as well, if you're level-headed and she's an angry b***h, it's never going to work. Like they say, hindsight is 20/20.

thats another thing, most guys are never completely honest about what they're looking for.