Topic: Who do you want to be?
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Mon 11/02/09 01:40 PM
I just want to be a successful writer who can hopefully one day find someone who is a little more substantial than a cardboard cutout.


MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:40 PM
I secretly want to be all the ladies I know from Texas. Maybe if I move there it will rub off on me.flowerforyou

Hopeful Romantic 's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:41 PM
I too am trying to find myself again. After 10 years of being with the same person, i lost the fun, confident part of me. Eventually with some serious searching i will find pre marriage me. LOL

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:41 PM

I secretly want to be all the ladies I know from Texas. Maybe if I move there it will rub off on me.flowerforyou




So you want someone to "rub off" on youdevil

MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:41 PM



No, no your a jerk!



Hey I'm emotionally unstable remember.laugh Be nice.:tongue:












(kidding)rofl

well i've gotten that before too. but some people can't take a joke.


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That was for Chrissydrinker

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:41 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Mon 11/02/09 01:43 PM
It took me a long time to find me!

I was always considered "his" wife or mom

That's where I lost myself

When he was gone and the kids grown I just sat there crying wondering where the hell did tammy go?

It took awhile. But one day it all came flooding back

I hooked up with girlfreinds. Started going out. Taking care of myself. Volunteer work. And my true self surfaced again!

Keep your chin up

Cry a little

The you that you always were will surface again!!:heart:

TxsSun's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:42 PM

I secretly want to be all the ladies I know from Texas. Maybe if I move there it will rub off on me.flowerforyou


Well come on down. You would be greatly welcomed bigsmile

74Drew's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:42 PM



No, no your a jerk!
















(kidding)rofl

well i've gotten that before too. but some people can't take a joke.


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That was for Chrissydrinker
oops, my bad. i thought that guys were jerks and girls were b!tches?


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Hopeful Romantic 's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:44 PM
Woof Woof

74Drew's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:44 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Mon 11/02/09 01:45 PM
i want to be the guy that the women i'm attracted to want to be with without having to be a rude, arrogant, a$$hole in the meantime.



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cassieflames's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:47 PM
Just out of a relationship i decided to find myself. What a found was a person who is caring, honest and compassionate and who stay in a relationship where she was miserable for too long. I want to be healthy, happy, loved, and stable.

MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:48 PM

Just out of a relationship i decided to find myself. What a found was a person who is caring, honest and compassionate and who stay in a relationship where she was miserable for too long. I want to be healthy, happy, loved, and stable.


Good luck Cassie.

74Drew's photo
Mon 11/02/09 01:53 PM
i don't want to be anything other than what i've been trying to be





baby.



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PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/02/09 02:26 PM
I want to be the kind of person that I can look in the mirror each morning and think is a good person.

A fun person who is honest and fair and uses common sense in trying to make decisions. Not to please everyone but to be responsible and dependable but happy and playful.

A woman with self worth and courage to be a feminine lady that is lovinging and passionate when it is deserved and needed.

A mother and grandmother that leads by example and careing and does what is needed rather than what is easy or makes me their friend.

A daughter that is tolerant and respectful and gives my parent the grace he deserves in his golden years.

A friend that is loyal and considerate and a help when they have been a friend to me.

A steward of the earth. Living in it with as little harm as is realistic. Leaving it a garden and a peaceful place for others.

lilott's photo
Mon 11/02/09 02:26 PM
Perfectly happy with who I am.

MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 11/02/09 02:50 PM

I want to be the kind of person that I can look in the mirror each morning and think is a good person.

A fun person who is honest and fair and uses common sense in trying to make decisions. Not to please everyone but to be responsible and dependable but happy and playful.

A woman with self worth and courage to be a feminine lady that is lovinging and passionate when it is deserved and needed.

A mother and grandmother that leads by example and careing and does what is needed rather than what is easy or makes me their friend.

A daughter that is tolerant and respectful and gives my parent the grace he deserves in his golden years.

A friend that is loyal and considerate and a help when they have been a friend to me.

A steward of the earth. Living in it with as little harm as is realistic. Leaving it a garden and a peaceful place for others.


PS, are you that woman or a work in progress? And if you are, how did you get there?

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Mon 11/02/09 03:10 PM
Token Brad Pitt response -

"I say, may I never be content. I say, may I never be content. I say - evolve - and let the chips fall where they may."

Gator76's photo
Mon 11/02/09 03:24 PM
I am fortunate in so many ways. Indeed, many things I thought would be difficult ended up being relatively easy. But finding that special woman...the love of my life...well...I'm confident it will happen but I thought it might be easier. :wink: I have always used visualization techniques...projecting success and then realizing it. It is more complex that just saying it...but it works. I wish you great success in your endeavors. Carpe Diem! flowerforyou

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Mon 11/02/09 03:26 PM
I want to be the person my dog thinks I am.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 11/02/09 03:29 PM
There is an old story about a man who rows people across a river in a small boat. I've always wanted to be that man.