Wow!

To the OP: have YOU emailed them? It's a two-way street. If you mutually clicked "yes" to another member, why are you waiting for her to make the first move? Maybe she hasn't logged in for a while; maybe she is shy and needs encouragement; maybe she is old fashioned and wishes to be courted and asked out from a gentleman?

I hope things get better for you but if you are not more proactive in online dating then you will not be happy.

Good luck

Learn tolerance boys and girls or we'll send people over to kick your a$$es.

I dont doubt it at all

What's the big deal, there are other fish in the sea.

nope cats keep eating them all

Back when I still used Mutual Match, I noticed the weirdest guys in the world were the ones actually emailed after matching....

yes I did email them first. I'm sorry if I seem short tempered but it's just that if this is real dating site fine. I have been on here for a long time and not met one person. Now I have been on other dating sites and filled out my profile briefly and put one picture on just to check it out. Well wouldn't you know within in the first few days I get at a couple messages a day but in order to read them of course you have to upgrade. So I do. Well it doesn't take long to figure out that it was some ******** message to make you give them your credit card number. I just want to know if I'm wasting my time and if these women are not just employees of this site.

Maybe online dating just isn't for you. You can't expect a reply just because you send a message...it doesn't even work like that in real life. Best of luck anyway though.

Im gonna be honest with ya and say I dont understand it either. The mutual match option goes through a LONG line of possibles that someone must either say they like (yes) or dont (no). I dont understand why , after being picked from this long list of no's to be one of the few yes's, the female would not respond to you. I have the similar situation that I mutual match with people but then I dont hear anything further from them,,,,

maybe I am mutual matching with males who arent initiators and maybe you are mutual matching with females who dont LIKE initiators?....who knows

Attack of "The Thread From The Dead."

not just women.............men are just as rude

wait ...wait....i hear violins playin... maybe the waiter will come along and you can order some good cheese to go with that fabulous whine