Should chemistry be important in a relationship?

If so, which type of chemistry should you focus on more?

Physical
Emotional
Mental
Or a shared common bond interests?

I just can't do it without the whole package!!

Equal parts of each

emotional

Physical
Emotional
Mental
Or a shared common bond interests!!!

YES YES YES!!!

Very important question..... to put it quite simple..its chemistry from the start that we should be after. Love grows so thats how we nourture it from the start... CHEMISTRY very important..at the core

I always thought "chemistry" was the combination of all of those things...

I think all are important but I don't know if I would say equally.

me too, hence, equal parts of each

A mixture of all, but i think physical is very important, its a first impression.

I would, none is more important than the other. Example: Would you be content with more physical than emotional, or vice versa?...........wait women are emotional creatures, don't answer that.

true, but it becomes less important later.....ok I will say each is more important than the other at different times in the relationship.

Physical and emotional...than work on the rest from the base of the other 2

York

Since chemistry is all about reactions and their subsequent outcomes...I think that all of the parts are important, but depending on how much of each component you have at any given time your product will vary.

Meaning, therefore, that let's say your first physical attraction to someone is strong, but your emotional attraction isn't, and your mental attraction is really low...then you might have lust.

But if you have a strong physical attraction, and a stronger emotional and mental attraction...you might have love.

I know we've all seen couples and wondered what he's doing with her or what she's doing with him...it's about the reaction and the product.

Let's say you have perfect chemistry with two different people...now let's say you have a really rotten day...so now you have your original chemical equation but with a new variable...both chemical equations will react different when the variable is introduced. Meaning now the chemical equations either come out balanced and therefore unchanged...or the chemical equations will become unstable and thus unbalanced causing the chemistry of the whole to be different.

If you were to look at love like the components of water...H2O (forgive the bad nomenclature)...when you enforce a new outside change...cold or heat...the H2O remains relatively unchanged chemically, however it does change it's form. It boils, it feezes, it becomes a gas.

I'd say this question is hard to answer taking into consideration only these three variables...chemistry is constantly changing depending on what kinds of outside forces are action upon it.

The perfect chemistry with someone will be able to withstand any of those outside forces to always be balanced and harmonious.

I love the way you write!

It massages my brain

Makes me think!

Moi?

Thanks!

I sort of feel like I went all around the mulberry bush on that one...but it makes sense somewhere in brain, I'm glad someone else got it too!

Sorry, I'm an ex editor. You could have used the last two paragraphs to say what you wanted and struck-out the rest. But even though it was verbose, it was good. I liked the chemistry metaphors as well.

All of it.