I have noticed at various sporting events, especially the more violent types of sports such as football, hockey boxing matches etc... that the woman in the stands and audiences are at times some of the most vocal spectators now it may be that these woman are simply sports fans or maybe something more then being a fan of sports.

We have all heard of the alpha male syndrome which occurs in quite a few females a number of woman will openly admit there is something extremely sexual watching men beat each others brains out, have even seen woman strip topless at these events especially boxing and wrestling.

The reason I brought up this particular subject, a few days ago while talking to some of my former high school classmates and teammates we had been discussing a particular football game we had played in that had been a very brutal one against a high school team we didn't like a whole lot as they were known for playing hard and dirty.

The evening didn't exactly have a good start as it had recently stopped raining which made the field quite slick. My team had won a victory that evening, but at a very high price, 3 of are best players were finished for the season, as I myself had been inflicted with 2 injuries my position was running back by the way so I had seen a lot of action that evening

The thing that I most remember about that game was all the amount of blood on the field and quite a bit of it on myself had 2 lacerations on my face a bloody nose a few minor cuts on arms and around elbows I was in other words muddy bloody and sweaty not exactly looking my best. oh found out after xray I also had a fractured rib, that one really hurt.

Anyway as I was leaving the field all sweaty bloody and muddy I was approached by 3 teenage girls all 3 girls wanted to assist me with my injuries and helping me off the field I guess you might say I was the star player that night, these same 3 girls kept calling me for several days after the game by the way I could also tell they were in a very high state of arousal I won't get into the intimate details have always prided myself on being a gentleman, I suppose what I am asking is this type of behavior prevalent in most females maybe on a primitive level of their subconscious, I realize that men and woman are opposites and it is these very opposites that attract us to one another.

Well for me

It's a primal thing...

Seeing men bloody , sweaty, kicking azz...

Gets me in a "cave woman" mood!

the few times i got to watch bob probert and wendyl clark take the gloves off, i admit to getting rather into it.

however, i'd say there was absolutely nothing sexual about it all, for me anyway. it was just exciting to watch them kick the crap out of each other.

Ok...being a sports fan myself...I just love sports and the competition of it all.

Now...may I ask why 3 teenage girls have your phone number? And WHY you were entertaining them if they were in a high state of sexual arousal?

That gives me the creeps more than women who get excited by watching football players slap each other on the bums.

I had mentioned in my post that we were in a high school football game my age at that time was 16yrs old and I had given the 3 girls my phone number upon request this was in the 1970's sexual revolution and all that, and I was also quite popular with the teenage girls in those days.

Not always does a person's "creep alert" generally target on the right reason but never the less I would never ignore it.

I really resent being called a creep I was in high school a teenager and yes i at that time dated girls my own age teenagers back then were as today having sex with one another now that i am older i don't think we should have been having those type of relationships as we were to young to understand the implications of having this type of relationship i had known a number of teen fathers and mothers going to school thankfully that never happened to me, I look back to those times and some of the things we did not with any sort of pride or even as always good times more like stupidity for my actions as all people do we grow and we learn as we get older and hopefully a little bit wiser.

Another thing i have been a member on this for almost 2 years it use to be a lot of fun until certain female members have joined. My man hater alert has been activated.

Your opening line;"I really resent being called a creep" is too funny.

Well, I thought the same thing Shadows did, until I saw this comment, so I went back and re-read it. You might want to tweak your tale a bit, so readers have a better understanding of it. Being a good communicator, especially a good writer, involves explaining things and giving accurate details so everyone understands and they don't have to draw their own (sometimes false) conclusions.

As for your man hater alert, I've seen far more woman-bashing on these threads than man-hating, so perhaps it's something you're doing that's attracting them to you? Often we draw to us what we expect. Just a thought.

Oh and to reply to your post, I don't get turned on violence, blood or sweaty men. All of that revolts me, but to each his, or in this case, her own.

Thanks Calleigh always get in a bit of a rush when typing afraid to loose my train of thought my ex use to warn me about my mouth and my temper always getting me into trouble.

I don't know it seems to me that the man bashing vs woman bashing threads ratio is about one to one.

Ya women like that stuff----3 girls!! Hope ya boynked em all!! Whats a little pain right.

Yep i did boink them and by the way they were seniors and i was a softmore meaning i was 16 and the 3 girls were 18 so if anyone was taken advantage of it was i it really damaged me ha ha....

I hate it when they call me a creep too

by the way, here is a handful of periods. just sprinkle em around anywhere in there and it'll make it easier to read

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Yeah folks sorry about my punctuation, will attempt to be more accurate in my future post, 1st time that I have typed like this since I have been on Mingle.

My wife left because i can't spell or punctuate!--not such a bad thing.

In high school I was thirty-seven years old. And they did not call me the creep, though all the girls were sixteen and gorgeous. And pure. Until they met me.

They used to call me... the man.

Yeah, I used to get upset when I read in the paper about the rampant use of teen-age prostitutes. Until my mother told me that 19 is also teen-age.

But I agree, that three teenage girls should not have had this guy's phone number. He sounds like a real mensch, so fifty-seven teen-age girls should have had his phone number. At minimum. This is what I find so upsetting.

And what the hell is he supposed to do, instead of entertaining them? Slap them on the face? Feed them grubs? Sue them for common indecency? This is nonsensical. All of a sudden entertaining a human being is a sexual affront to all womenkind everywhere.

I can safely agree with that. In grade seven I had to fight the two O'Grady brothers, in the park, at seven, with almost everyone watching us fight. The punches hurt, the spit in my face hurt, and I also did not find anything sexual about it.

Probably because we're past the age when women have to hide their aggressive views behind prim, proper and dainty.

I'm all for a good azz-kicking, though I like the more interesting martial arts type of thing. There's a beauty there.

My parents (dad) taught us basic fighting techniques, and slapping and giggling wasn't one of them. Fists, knock-down fights and stomp them till they can't get up and hurt you.