thanks for the positive feed back...was a serious question actually.....i have been married to my high school sweet heart and recently divorced after dating her for 6 years and married for 22.....so i am looking for real answers

The best you can do is be honest and specific about what you are looking for, via profile, and take part in forums so others can observe your social skills (so to speak). If the right person is here,, they will find you,, if not, u shouldnt want to waste your time anyhow

Randy, you have to take time and go one day at a time... Nothing will happen right away... I've been single for almost 3 yrs, dated a few in between but nothing that I stayed in for more than a coule of months.. I've been here for 2 yrs and nothing worth spending time on... It will happen when it happens and it may not be anything long term for a while...


You can also take darin's advice, he's making that place sound great!

sure have...but you seem to know better than me i guesss!

ok....will tidy up... and mop up....sorry you got caught in the crossfire of some inhouse jokes...


and try to give an enlightened answer to your question....



...aw sh *t what was the question?

something about decent dates here?


Yes.....there are incredibly and profoundly intelligent people who used to post here....

and some are still around...

jump into the forums, show people who you are, what you think...show the bright side of you...


and you will find the opportunity of a date may appear.



Oh and dont forget mutual match!

I think they are trying to answer you my brother. Relax. I feel for you. I have been in a similar boat. Theres some good people in the threads.........

well it's definately not me


I'm evil



most people just run

Walks through whistling...Me...and my Shaaaaaadoww!

Participate in the forums. Let your personality shine. Get to know some people, and let us get to know you.

Have several conversation (emails, IM ... telephone - each medium gives you more information) with someone before deciding if you want to take it to an in person meeting.

Recognize that your brain is filling in a lot of the details when you don't have the benefit of in person communication and it is filling them in ... in a way you like. So don't let your mind run away with you.

Then when you meet, go with no expectations other that perhaps meeting a new friend. Even if she isn't 'your type', enjoy the conversation and get to know about another human being. Don't put pressure on yourself. If there is something beyond friendship to be explored, believe me, it will make itself known.

That being said ...

a man named Murphy did set this system up so chances are that the ones you like the most are going to be 2000 miles away ... don't shoot the messenger ... I didn't make the rules.

Good luck and enjoy the journey.

The real answers are here you just have to look for them, I have seen some that says it takes time and patience to find someone. You have been here for a couple of weeks and close to 70 posts, internet dating does not happen overnight. And don't go to datehook up it's a waste of time and a big joke, you never get serious answers over there. Plus lighten up, there is no need to take everything so seriously. Just join the forums get to know people and just have patience, when the timing is right you will find a date.

wasnt a waste of time for me......hahahahaha