Topic: Dating older women
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Thu 10/29/09 07:21 PM

I don't care if a younger adult guy wants to date and older woman any more than a younger adult woman dating and older guy if that is their thing; go for it.

What peeves me is when a younger guy approaches and you politely and clearly say you are not interested. Rarely will they take no for and answer and just keep chaseing.

When you ask them why it is usually that they assume men that are age appropriate are bad in bed and or compleately disfunctional (not true in my experience). Or that older women are more exotic or "grateful". The whole women "peak" at such and such and age is baloney.

Then when you continue to refuse you are up for a tantrum and suggestions that you are uptight, sexually frusterated or fridgid, too picky, biotch, and it is no wonder I am single. Couldn't possible be that I don't want to put up with that kind of juvinile behavior any more than the age approoriate peers they call names also.


Weird, that's never happened to me.....

Foreignsubstance's photo
Thu 10/29/09 08:46 PM
im 29 and my last gf was 36. Its not much difference. But im game for another mature lady if she is game. just hit me up.

lulu24's photo
Thu 10/29/09 08:51 PM
i've never had a relationship with an older woman.

nope, sure haven't.

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Thu 10/29/09 08:52 PM

i've never had a relationship with an older woman.

nope, sure haven't.


Me neither. I don't think I'd be very good at it.laugh laugh

Samoia's photo
Sat 10/31/09 11:23 AM
I've been the older woman... Yep, wasn't looking to be a Cougar but 16 year difference between our ages, and it was great passionately, but the maturity was not there... It caused major problems.

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Sat 10/31/09 11:31 AM
Had a 16 year difference with one special lady,than had a 12 year difference before that...oh yes,women with maturity are quite an experience.Both times we got along well....i think young or old it just depends who u are,an unstable person at 21 will still be unstable at 48.A relationship is always based on mental maturity,not age:)

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Sat 10/31/09 11:34 AM
I'm very encouraged by this thread. I already thought something was wrong with me but now I see other 'elderly' ladies are pestered with the same thing :)

Jtevans's photo
Sat 10/31/09 11:49 AM
cougars are the best! love love love

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 10/31/09 12:00 PM
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Older woman in want and need of a date, maybe more.bigsmile

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 10/31/09 03:49 PM
Hey little boy..it's halloween, want some candy...laugh

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/31/09 03:50 PM
sugarmamas ruledrinker :banana:

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 10/31/09 04:15 PM
You mean like older than 25? who wants an old broadwhat






















rofl

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 10/31/09 04:21 PM

You mean like older than 25? who wants an old broadwhat






















rofl


tears tears tears

chillywillow's photo
Sat 10/31/09 05:31 PM
hey now, dont be picking on us older broads, im 51 and have 20 somethings asking me out alot, would never date them , cuz id feel like i was with a kid, but old broads are ppl too!! :wink:

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Mon 11/02/09 01:49 AM

hey now, dont be picking on us older broads, im 51 and have 20 somethings asking me out alot, would never date them , cuz id feel like i was with a kid, but old broads are ppl too!! :wink:
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of course. and the 'young' could learn from us (I mean those with some morality in them) - but like you I wouldn't ever date a younger guy. It's like dating a friend of your son.

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Sat 11/07/09 01:16 PM
im 35 and im friends with a female just shy of double my age.shes alot of fun and a wonderful lady.and she always dowses me with complimentsblushing

jukebox001's photo
Sun 11/08/09 12:10 PM
Edited by jukebox001 on Sun 11/08/09 12:12 PM
Hasn't anyone heard of the phrase
Age is a matter of mind.
If you don't mind, it don't matter. ;-)

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Sun 11/08/09 01:08 PM


I get tired of em calling me "sonny boy"

and what's the deal with the tennis balls on the feet of the walker?


Oh please, you didn't...tell me you didn't date a walker lady..


Poor things with the walker. The last thing they want is a hard male! Pain meds for them, poor gals.

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Wed 11/11/09 05:10 PM

Hasn't anyone heard of the phrase
Age is a matter of mind.
If you don't mind, it don't matter. ;-)

*smiles and blushes* Exactly..... unless one is 56 and the other is 14.... then there's a problem.

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Thu 11/12/09 08:31 PM

i've never had a relationship with an older woman.

nope, sure haven't.

nope, me neither..not my thing