Topic: Would you leave this place????
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Thu 10/15/09 05:35 AM
Edited by Alzeimer on Thu 10/15/09 05:35 AM
Thinking about it, even if I wanted to I could not since you can't delete your account you can only deactivate it.

So you can never leave this place we are stuck here for everscared scared Help me I'M trying to leave but they won't let mesad sad tears tears

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Thu 10/15/09 05:46 AM
I would not leave...but I'd be spending so much time with him...I'd just gradually fade away...

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Thu 10/15/09 05:48 AM
devil I'm staying w/ my peeps. drinker laugh

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Thu 10/15/09 05:49 AM
Yes, but my man likes this place more than I do...so no worries there.

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Thu 10/15/09 05:58 AM



Why would there be a choice...

You mean being giving an ultimatum?


if someone i met on here and i wanted to be with but yet gave me a ultimatum on having my friends. you know there is more fish in the sea.. he would get his *** kick. im sorry. no man is going to interfer with my friends or family, and tell me who i can or can not talk to, if there is no trust then whats the point on having a relationship


drinker drinker


Hey Queene. Very well said

The man who asks you to leave must have some kind of insecurity about you being here. Whatever it is

You can find a balance. That's not very hard to do

You hope the man. At his age has a life of his own and didn't need ya 24/7. That would be creepy to me

I have my thing. My online freinds that I chat with here and on the phone my SO has no problem with it

He's mature enough to understand. He has his things going. Ok mature enough to understand
We always meet in the middle!

And what a middle it is!!!!bigsmile

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Thu 10/15/09 06:21 AM
Stuff is only supposed to go one direction, and then it's gone forever, lost to the formidable clutches of gravity in a bizarre distortion of space and time.

Just passing through............................

Bob Out

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Thu 10/15/09 07:17 AM

If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


First of all I'm not here in the wee hours of the night well not all of the time.... second of all if they were the one I really wanted to be with then I would have no desire to be online unless they were gone somewhere and I got on here for a bit.... In reality would I leave this site due to someone gave me the choice them or the site I would honestly have to say see ya.........

One thing I'm not is a piece of property to be controlled by anyone but myself. Now if I did not want to be here then that would be a different story.....

But as far as the OP question if it came down to I could be on this site or find the one would be there for the rest of my life the perfect match then I would leave and not turn back.......

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Thu 10/15/09 12:07 PM
I would be on here chatting with all my friends that I have made on this site.

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Thu 10/15/09 12:10 PM

I would be on here chatting with all my friends that I have made on this site.


drinker

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Thu 10/15/09 02:08 PM

Suppose you had to decide to leave this place never having contact with any of the people and friends you have met on here..... Or give up the one you want to be with forever. Would there even be a question? Would you leave this place?


There isn't anybody I'd want to be with forever, at least not so far, so I'd stick around!

Rule of thumb is I can put up with someone for about 3 months before it all goes to hell....

shades

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Thu 10/15/09 02:10 PM
sure...

I leave the site everydayshades

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Thu 10/15/09 02:16 PM
no, never. i'd introduce them all to her, and travel around the country, and world!.....travelling with her to have coffee with everyone here, and ask them to show us around their favorite special spots at where they live.....and learn tons! and have a very socially rich life indeed!

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Thu 10/15/09 02:18 PM
ohwell I do whatever women tell me to doohwell

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Thu 10/15/09 02:21 PM
well this place aint going to drop its drawers and put out for me at the end of the day so i guess i`d have to leave for the one person who is...lol


anyway, a friend in need is a pain in the azz. i dont want to be a pain in the azz...lol

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Thu 10/15/09 02:23 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Thu 10/15/09 02:34 PM

If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought



I see alot of friendships on this site.. pretty cool ones.


If he couldnt sleep in the middle of the night, I would only be with a man I could trust on any site.

It goes without saying all questionable, or sexualy oriented relationships should stop if a relationship becomes serious.

This should be done, because it is conterproductive to monogomy, and a detriment to a relationship of seriousness.

BUT, if my man wanted to do whatever, it would be his business, hes not a child. You cant go around controlling people.

AND I see alot of guys talking to guys, and women talking to women.

I talk to my girls on here, and I have an awesome time.

Nooo.. I wouldnt trade my friends for anyone, thats absurd.


I have male friends all around the country, and world Ive known for 10 years or more.

They all know they take a back seat when I have a man, and thats just normal, but we dont loose touch, and we speak regularly, as with my female friends.

People just need to conduct themselves as adults, thats all.


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Thu 10/15/09 02:39 PM
Your MY girlfreind now?

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Thu 10/15/09 02:42 PM
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Thu 10/15/09 02:45 PM

Your MY girlfreind now?



Yeah, now forget those jerks. laugh jk

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Thu 10/15/09 03:08 PM
internet porn + mingle2= alot of effin BS:banana: laugh jk.......i don't know maybe i guess

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Thu 10/15/09 09:02 PM
If I were to meet the one, here or in the real world, I'm gone.
And she wouldn't have to ask.

Internet friends are just that... Internet friends.

I have both feet firmly planted in the real world.
But then again, I take pride in showing her that I respect and value her.