Topic: Would you leave this place????
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Wed 10/14/09 11:45 PM



:cry: thats why Peachiegirl28 broke up with me:cry:


really?
brokenheart yeah. brokenheart we met and everything.she came up here and visited me but she got jealous of stuff I was saying to other girls on Mingle in the forums and broke up with me:cry: it was about a year ago:cry:


How odd, I never take anything you say seriously on here, you're just a cute little monkey.flowerforyou

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Wed 10/14/09 11:45 PM

If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


The last guy I dated just recently did not leave the dating sites, so I left him...

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Wed 10/14/09 11:45 PM



:cry: thats why Peachiegirl28 broke up with me:cry:


really?
brokenheart yeah. brokenheart we met and everything.she came up here and visited me but she got jealous of stuff I was saying to other girls on Mingle in the forums and broke up with me:cry: it was about a year ago:cry:


jealousy all it does it chases the other away. but her problem was there was no trust on her end she lost out on a good guy

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Wed 10/14/09 11:48 PM

If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


If fate is going to bring them away from me, they surely don't need a website to do it, that can happen anywhere, anytime, anyplace not just on a a dating site, but it sure would be aggravating to find your loved one is on the web at 2;00 in the morning, what could be more frustrating>?

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Wed 10/14/09 11:49 PM



:cry: thats why Peachiegirl28 broke up with me:cry:


really?
brokenheart yeah. brokenheart we met and everything.she came up here and visited me but she got jealous of stuff I was saying to other girls on Mingle in the forums and broke up with me:cry: it was about a year ago:cry:


hummmm, interesting, I didn't think anyone took you serious on here... :wink:

Now when ever I feel a flirt from you I'll become aroused drool

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Wed 10/14/09 11:50 PM


Why would there be a choice...

You mean being giving an ultimatum?


if someone i met on here and i wanted to be with but yet gave me a ultimatum on having my friends. you know there is more fish in the sea.. he would get his *** kick. im sorry. no man is going to interfer with my friends or family, and tell me who i can or can not talk to, if there is no trust then whats the point on having a relationship


Amen to that one. !!!

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Wed 10/14/09 11:53 PM


If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


If fate is going to bring them away from me, they surely don't need a website to do it, that can happen anywhere, anytime, anyplace not just on a a dating site, but it sure would be aggravating to find your loved one is on the web at 2;00 in the morning, what could be more frustrating>?


I'd prefer my loved one- if I had one- be on the web at 2 am rather than out carousing at 2 am. At least then I'd know where he was. Kinda hard to stick your wee wee into someone through a screen...drinker

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Wed 10/14/09 11:54 PM



If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


If fate is going to bring them away from me, they surely don't need a website to do it, that can happen anywhere, anytime, anyplace not just on a a dating site, but it sure would be aggravating to find your loved one is on the web at 2;00 in the morning, what could be more frustrating>?


I'd prefer my loved one- if I had one- be on the web at 2 am rather than out carousing at 2 am. At least then I'd know where he was. Kinda hard to stick your wee wee into someone through a screen...drinker


ya think...laugh laugh

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Wed 10/14/09 11:54 PM
I love this site. I may not post all the time but I still love this site. So NO I dont think I could leave this site permaently

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Wed 10/14/09 11:55 PM




If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want them spending time on a dating site in the wee hours of the night? Just a thought


If fate is going to bring them away from me, they surely don't need a website to do it, that can happen anywhere, anytime, anyplace not just on a a dating site, but it sure would be aggravating to find your loved one is on the web at 2;00 in the morning, what could be more frustrating>?


I'd prefer my loved one- if I had one- be on the web at 2 am rather than out carousing at 2 am. At least then I'd know where he was. Kinda hard to stick your wee wee into someone through a screen...drinker


ya think...laugh laugh


Unless he's "extra special" and then he can keep it to himself.laugh laugh

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Thu 10/15/09 02:36 AM
You actually have to ask?? rofl rofl rofl

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Thu 10/15/09 03:03 AM
sometimes doing things for your partner, even if you don't really want to do them, is part of loving them.

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it really would depend on the manner in which it was asked. if it was in ultimatum form, or if i saw other examples of his controlling behaviour, then, no, i wouldn't allow myself to lay that sort of foundation for our relationship.

however, if my boyfriend lived in the same house as me (heck, even in the same city!) i can't imagine that i'd spend anywhere near the amount of time here that i do. for us, or me at least, it's a cheap way with which to stay in touch with him. i'm sure between work, kids, and us, we probably wouldn't have much time for online stuff anyway.

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Thu 10/15/09 03:05 AM

sometimes doing things for your partner, even if you don't really want to do them, is part of loving them.

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it really would depend on the manner in which it was asked. if it was in ultimatum form, or if i saw other examples of his controlling behaviour, then, no, i wouldn't allow myself to lay that sort of foundation for our relationship.

however, if my boyfriend lived in the same house as me (heck, even in the same city!) i can't imagine that i'd spend anywhere near the amount of time here that i do. for us, or me at least, it's a cheap way with which to stay in touch with him. i'm sure between work, kids, and us, we probably wouldn't have much time for online stuff anyway.


You Would think that!!! I've long made that argument about people yakking on line with an S.O. right there. "oh he's watching tv" . I find that just strange.

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Thu 10/15/09 03:21 AM
haha, i've noticed that too.

while i wouldn't ever NOT get online when my partner was with me, i doubt i'd be spending THAT much time posting.

if i were, i'd wonder why he wasn't getting impatient with me; maybe he doesn't WANT my attention and presence and prefers to have me otherwise occupied. laugh

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Thu 10/15/09 04:46 AM

Suppose you had to decide to leave this place never having contact with any of the people and friends you have met on here..... Or give up the one you want to be with forever. Would there even be a question? Would you leave this place?


In a heartbeat...haha, nah, I'm kidding. Would take an awfully good offer to get me to change my ways, besides this site is like an extension to my ever-so obvious lacking soul.smokin

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Thu 10/15/09 04:51 AM
Do I have somewhere else to go to?


huh


:wink: laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 10/15/09 04:56 AM
If they were that special, sure I'd give this place up.

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Thu 10/15/09 05:14 AM
For Mac???


Heck yea!!!

But he knows better to ask!!!

He's not that type. I'm free to be me!!!

But I would:heart:

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Thu 10/15/09 05:22 AM
I'll know if ever the situation arise, I'm not here to date or even make friends just here to rant and say my point of view.

If she asks me to leave here she better have a good reason and then I'll think about it.

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Thu 10/15/09 05:30 AM
I would definitely leave this site for the woman i loved if she felt uncomfortable with me being on here. =/ especially since this really is just like a side thing for a date in the first place haha and if it didn't work out just come back