You are beautiful. I hope that you find what you are looking for, and if you do want to have your honest, faithful and true, just lemme know, and we can talk if you want to.

Same thing happened to me. My wife (now ex) cheated on me. It killed all my esteem for the longest time. It has been an uphill struggle to regain it...and some very nice ladies here on mingle (although I have not met any in person yet) have helped me in that struggle.
I will be very honest with you...I think you are very attractive and it was not your fault that your hubby is a selfish pig!

they were'nt takin,, it sucks but im sure not all 15 yrs were bad..some good times in there somewhere..yes cheaters are as6es..i hate em..but if they do that its not about you,,its about them and they're lack of respect,consideration,morals,integrity and real love,......
for themselves

baby your fine, just pick your head up and realize your own self worth. Realize that your x cheated himself not you

Presumpuous arent you? Not if you were the last immigrant worker on earth, HONEY!

I would just eat you up...dammit, sorry, I'm off today...probably something I ate last night...oh Goddammit, I'm done...

I told you that was a bad idea, bitter people don't make a good dinner.....

Yeah, yeah...and curiosity killed the cat...

who's boobies? What does that have to do with anything?

I was replying to the OP, and I used your quote as a jumping board to seguay into the topic.

I meant the OP's boobies, since that's all I can see on her picture. If she asks if she's attractive, I can only judge by what I see, and that's exactly what I did.

I did not mean to offend you, ArtGurl, and I wasn't talking about your breasts.

If this still doesn't make sense, please ask.

I am very glad you asked, because everything I say these days gets misinterpreted, and my intended points are way off target. I don't blame others -- it must be that there are lots of intermediary points in my flight of thought that others need to see in order to get my messages. My mistake, I admit, I suck at communication, but I proudly trudge on with it.

Thats a very long-winded way to say you like boobies.

Ah well, at least he died happy and fulfilled.

the person has no picture and never even returned to reply. Or maybe i'm blind and stuck in a weird orange bubble universe?

Now the profile doesn't show a pic I can't say one way or the other about your looks.

But one thing I can say with no reservation is this is the best thing to happen to you because you found out he is a cheat and got him out of your life before something much worse happened.

Believe me he will get his in time. Especially if you dumped him. He might end up stuck with the skank he cheated with. Talk about just punishment. They usually do a real good job of making their lives miserable. So laugh it off and move on.

Best years of your life? Come on who are you kidding? That is like saying you only have worth 15 out of 90+ years? Go tell someone else that baloney.

Go have a good cry and get the boo hoos out of your system, yea this is probably worth a good cry, but then go wash your face and get on with it. Don't through good life after "bad". Success is the best revenge anyway...Good Luck Mingeler's are living proof life goes on.

she did have a pic up originally...don't know where it went.