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Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? |
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Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? I find you to be attractive. I have some advice that someone gave me a few years ago. It goes something like this: "the only power and effect that someone can have over us is that which we grant them". Meaning, you are naturally indignant and resent what your husband did. But, dwelling on the negative aspects of your past relationships condemns you to a bitter existence. Life is a learning experience. We only fail when we fail to learn from our experiences. If your husband is out of your life, that should be the end of his effect on you. You know what they say, "out of sight, out of mind". By the way, if I fulfilled your e-mail parameters, I would be tempted to message you. |
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You're attractive. I'm mainly into guys, but I'd definitely have sex with you.
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His loss, ul find someone much better
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Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? I think you're beauuuuuutiful!!    
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you're beautiful, darlin'! find a couple of your single friends and have a girl's night. the attention you'll get will have you in a fantastic mood for weeks
 it's always our pick me up when we're feeling down!
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You are beautiful!!
BEAUTIFUL !!!!!!! Damn cheaters. !!! $'hfshj I say!!!! |
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You may want to post a pic that shows your face, It takes time just be patient and don't rush into anything. Put a little bit more about yourself in your profile so if someone emails you they know what you like so they can start a conversation. Good Luck and join the forums.
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can`t quote on your face i can only see your chest. I would`nt worry about one man though. you`ve got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. rivet.
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My best years started at 39, so relax....you have plenty of years left to throw away before you get to the best ones. Lose the loser, find some one who is worthy!
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yep, your beautiful...so hold your head high, smile till your cheeks hurt, and enjoy life.
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I'm boycotting single women from Texas.
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Your self esteem just got a big kick in the butt!!! don't worry- there is life after cheating and after divorce- been there done that- got the t-shirt ripped off me- but i survived and really enjoyed it!!
now don't think im a vindictive person but i wished something bad would happen to him- and it did- im serious- he has cancer- but now i feel sorry for him- but never doubt karma!!! Now- stop feeling sorry for yourself! you are a beautiful woman- you have the best years of your life ahead of you- your past is just a training period for the real stuff!! it is going to be great!! You will find a man that loves and appreciates you and you will be happy- but right now take some time to heal- gather your family and friends close and enjoy their support. Best to you!! |
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Thu 10/15/09 04:49 PM
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Hubby of 15 1/2 years cheated On me and I just dont know.. Am I even attractive to anyone anymore? He took my best years away from me, Can I ever find someone else?? I like to blame myself, weigh myself repeatedly, stare in the mirror, lay in fetal position, stay in the house.. cry.. and basicly insist apon the belief that a person in their 30s is old, and useless, and is unworthy with baggage, you know damaged goods. My favorite book is: "There is no God." I base my self worth on what I was when I was 18, and am hell bent on the idea, that I am only good for raising kids, and being in a relationship for self confidence, justification, validation, and will to live. Is there life for me after being married to someone that wasnt right for me? How is that possible? Everyone is meant to marry, and have kids, and stay together for all of eternity. This is just purgatory.. life is meaningless. |
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If you ever get to Oregon I'll make you feel attractive all night long and we can send loser boy the pics!
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welcome to my world...14years for me...i asked the same question...and guess what...iam iam...you have nothing to do with his choice...your perfect, hes an a$$
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I'm not sure if earthytauras was trying to cheer you up but I was in a good mood now I'm in a fetal position sobbing uncontrollably. Rethink that counseling career.
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Edited by
Up2Us
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Thu 10/15/09 05:10 PM
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Well, what do your emotions truly look like?
Are you loving or hateful in general? Give me a plain Jane with a beautiful heart, then a hateful barbie any day of the week. Tomorrow will come irregardless. How you view it, or live it is up to you. Be beautiful within....
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Thu 10/15/09 05:10 PM
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I'm not sure if earthytauras was trying to cheer you up but I was in a good mood now I'm in a fetal position sobbing uncontrollably. Rethink that counseling career.  absurdity sometimes motivates me. *shrugg*
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