BECAUSE,,,,,,,,ITS the American WAY!!!!






Well,,,,,,,thats what THEY say------->


although THEY,,,have been wrong before

i approve. not only is it hot, but it also fixes overpopulation.

I understand what you're saying. I think a lot of guys when they are rejected are really hurt and they need someone to be angry at and all of a sudden the woman that rejected him is branded with cruel labels...I don't think it's right...A confident man would not act this way. I think girls have to be careful about who they associate with. Lots of insecure, freaky guys out there..and if they don't get their way they will act out.

*clears throat to awkwardly explain something*

There's this French director, Noe, who explains in his movie "Seul contre tous" that a man feels only as powerful as his penis, and that there are all sorts of Freudian accusations to be made, but most men are insecure about it.

Hehe. Straight up, kids.

It's double whammy with the online dating scene:

Typically you'll get guys that are horn dogs and just want sex with no strings attached. It's very easy for them to express themselves this way on the internet.

Then there are the girls who are just saying that they are looking for friendship. Maybe that's what they are really looking for, maybe it isn't. Sometimes it's difficult to tell.

In the end, we are stuck with guys getting few if any replies to emails and girls who's inboxes are clogged with messages. This leads to the false generalization that all guys think about is sex and that women either don't like it as much or use it as a form of control. Neither of which I think is true at all. I think that it's really just a problem with misconceptions and ill-communication.

This would only hold true if we assume that there are more men who frequent these sites than women. In which case the men experience more rejection out of the fact of low supply and high demand for females. This is all artificial.

I'm not sure what the outcome would be for same-sex dating but it would be interesting to model.

-just my 2 cents.

And to reinforce not being able to tell what the women really are looking for when they say 'just friendship.' I meant that it's difficult to tell when they take pictures of themselves in the bathroom mirror wearing barely any clothing and making a suggestive face.

To a guy, it's really confusing. I mean these are dating sites. It's pretty clear what most of the intentions are.

WOW,,the OP must of had some replies
they didn't like as their,,gone..deactivated//?

DO we all SEE now what SEX DOES,,,,,,it destroys, confuses, hurts,
MAKES people stay UP all night long,,,,ITS SO TAKING OF TWO....

Ok,,,I have to stop,,,,,as I don't have a partner to review this
matter any further,,,,,,



Excuse me,,,but I was wondering if there might be a lady here who would like to experiment with this subject matter as to
identify if SEX alone can and will cause one to deactivate?

Anyone????

that is very interesting

To me sexual contact is important in a relationship. Yes and many hot bloodied males think about sex all the time but falling in love with someone and then the sex = more importanc. Its all about building a successful relationship that is fresh and long term.

IMO, 90% of the time its about sex because that's what our media makes important. I was raised with morals and values pounded into my head, so society in general has a very minute effect on me, but for the majority of people they watch movies on TV, listen to mainstream music, etc... so much that subconsciously they begin to believe that's how they must live their life to be "accepted". It boils down to peer pressure, not only from friends but from everyone's surroundings, everywhere. Going out on a limb with this one, it's like smoking. At first it's not a problem, but everybody else does, so why not. Then it becomes habitual.

Sex???

Sex????

Hmmm

yes we all LOVE it!!! But to stuffy and ashamed to admit it!!!




Yep

ill amit it. i love it.

(takes notes)

hi my names gerry...and boy do i have something to show you

*giggle*

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ha at least your honest

I want alot a f.u.c.k too Friends .you .can .keep

It's not all about sex, it just has to be about sex sometimes.

I recently met a great girl online two months ago, but I screwed it up because I made it about sex. Everybody has different ideas about which "base" you are supposed to get to on which numbered date, and whatever, but after two months I asked her flat out for sex and basically gave her an ultimatum, she refused, and that was it. It ended horribly.

It was totally my fault, I understand that, and if I could turn back time I would in order to preserve our friendship, but on the other hand we met on a DATING site. Men, for better or worse, need sex in order to survive.

You just have to see the world through each gender's point of view. Women wonder why it's all about sex, and men wonder why it's never about sex. Relationships are all about compromise.

It's ridiculous for any man to think that he can actually find a no-strings-attached, sex-every-day relationship, but it's equally crazy for a woman to think she can find an out-on-the-town-adventure-buddy, home-on-the-couch-cuddle-buddy that is totally platonic with no sex.

It's all about give and take.

Anyway, I might be the only person to actually honestly answer the question that started this topic, ha ha :-)

Philip