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Topic: Married Men
Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 10/09/09 08:46 PM
i'm still trying to figure out why people get married,cause if they didn't these threads wouldn't exsist....f god cause santa can kick his butt....wait neither one exsist like a lifetime of being with the one you have to marry They didn't HAVE to get married, but my great grandparents were together form the ages of 14 and 16 to the time they died at 94 and 98....raised 15 children together....it isn't always a dream...simply depends upon how much BOTH people are willing to fight for what they have Same here with my granparents..good old times when materialism wasn't the driving force behind why a couple should get together.

biggerdee Joined Tue 09/22/09 Posts: 4	Fri 10/09/09 08:46 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 10/09/09 08:47 PM
i'm still trying to figure out why people get married,cause if they didn't these threads wouldn't exsist....f god cause santa can kick his butt....wait neither one exsist like a lifetime of being with the one you have to marry They didn't HAVE to get married, but my great grandparents were together form the ages of 14 and 16 to the time they died at 94 and 98....raised 15 children together....it isn't always a dream...simply depends upon how much BOTH people are willing to fight for what they have Yep, that's true. My parents have been married for 51 years.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 08:47 PM
i'm still trying to figure out why people get married,cause if they didn't these threads wouldn't exsist....f god cause santa can kick his butt....wait neither one exsist like a lifetime of being with the one you have to marry They didn't HAVE to get married, but my great grandparents were together form the ages of 14 and 16 to the time they died at 94 and 98....raised 15 children together....it isn't always a dream...simply depends upon how much BOTH people are willing to fight for what they have Same here with my granparents..good old times when materialism wasn't the driving force behind why a couple should get together. Hey... hey...hey... Am not materialistic...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 08:47 PM
You obviously have no clue who?

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 08:48 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce I think any psychologist will agree with you.

Amylorena Joined Thu 01/01/09 Posts: 26	Fri 10/09/09 08:49 PM
I am not into attention and actually have not been on a date in almost a year nor had any sex with anyone. I was lied to a year and a half ago. I love you I want to spend the rest of my life with you ********. Well he was married,And now I am skeptical of every man and can't trust

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 10/09/09 08:49 PM
i'm still trying to figure out why people get married,cause if they didn't these threads wouldn't exsist....f god cause santa can kick his butt....wait neither one exsist like a lifetime of being with the one you have to marry They didn't HAVE to get married, but my great grandparents were together form the ages of 14 and 16 to the time they died at 94 and 98....raised 15 children together....it isn't always a dream...simply depends upon how much BOTH people are willing to fight for what they have Same here with my granparents..good old times when materialism wasn't the driving force behind why a couple should get together. Hey... hey...hey... Am not materialistic... I know! Now..will you stop kickin my butt in nudges..miss non materialistic Modela?

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 08:49 PM
You obviously have no clue who? [/quote Watch out... the monkey is a lil confused....

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 10/09/09 08:50 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce Its why SOME people divorce. When people have kids they should BOTH be building a bond with the kids AND continuing to maintain their own relationship. I think many men wouldnt feel so left out if they would take more part in the bonding with the kids. That is something they can do WITh their wife instead of competing for the attention she gives the kids. IT takes work, but I think when its real, its worth it.

Amylorena Joined Thu 01/01/09 Posts: 26	Fri 10/09/09 08:50 PM
You obviously have no clue who? Riskit guy?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 08:52 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her"

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 08:53 PM
You obviously have no clue who? Riskit guy?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 08:54 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 10/09/09 08:55 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" I dont know why any guy would want to have kids I never have understood that

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 08:55 PM
You obviously have no clue who? Riskit guy? i get it married men hit on you and its wrong from a christain point of view...being an atheist i really don't care "what would jesus do" actually i know what he would do ..get a hummer from mary mag

biggerdee Joined Tue 09/22/09 Posts: 4	Fri 10/09/09 08:55 PM
do you think in today society any body can commit to being with some one forever you can go online and find some one then you realize if your married that your trapped and sometimes you can leave your wife but you need real love someone to hold you to listen to you

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 10/09/09 08:56 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce Only if they allow it to happen

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 08:57 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" You mean when wife/SO says: "I will take you to the cleaner you SOB?"

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Fri 10/09/09 08:57 PM
Block their married @$$eS...Obviously, these men have guilt of their actions and morals

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 08:58 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" I dont know why any guy would want to have kids I never have understood that i'm a single father and have full custody of my son.i'm simply stating marriage is a joke and the OP is right i don't get it..meaning marriage