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Topic: Ever been used sexually?
catseyes1's photo
Fri 10/09/09 06:25 AM

Wow right now I feel how females do after this situation. I was really liking this girl, and it turns out she liked me back. I was trying to take it slow, but long story short she seduced me lol. I was thinking ok a little bit rushed, but maybe it can still work. We were talking about dating and all, but she never had time for me, and would only text me from then on. Mostly when she wanted me to do a favor, which I did like a fool. She said the sex was great and wanted to be with me, but everynight she said she'd come over she never did and always had an excuse. Come to find out she had a dude who was cheating on her, & I was just a form of revenge. I haven't heard from her in a while now.

I never been in a situation like this before, and more disappointed I let my self fall into it, instead of seeing through the motives. I mean being used for money is one thing, but I feel like I was mentally screwed with this deal.

I want to know how you all feel about these type of situations and what you did after you found out...


I always hate being played as a fool, happened once. I just moved on and just make sure this next one wants to be with you for who you are.

WisdomsChild's photo
Fri 10/09/09 07:32 AM
yeah,,, and really it sucks unless it's a drunken one night stand or something then use me!!!laugh

Ryan_S's photo
Fri 10/09/09 08:43 AM
Edited by Ryan_S on Fri 10/09/09 08:48 AM
Is it just me or does it seem like the roles switched here at some point? Rofl, c'mon bro quit crying and grow a sack! drinks

Gator76's photo
Fri 10/09/09 08:52 AM
Men and women can perpetrate all kinds of games...sexual and otherwise...but move on and try not to let bitterness replace the willingness to put ourself out there. We're all vulnerable to an extent. Anyone who says otherwise probably hasn't spun around the sun enough times! Still, the risks are always less than the reward of finding someone special. And it's simply not fair to judge the next person on the basis of the last. Good luck...you'll be fine if you keep a positive attitude. :wink: :wink:

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Fri 10/09/09 09:06 AM

drinker


People do use there sexuality in many ways like the damsel in distress scenario but to use it in order to play on the emotions of an individual and play him or her along is horrid.
I think you know the answer you have already put it down in words your being used as obviousley you have a soft heart and you deserve better,move on there are plenty more fish in the sea.Anna xflowerforyou


I know what you mean I just didn't think she was like that. She used to tell me she was so into church and my sis told her I was a good dude. Making like she was looking for something serious and real, then pulling this had me like wow. I guess when you really like some one you just want what they tell you to be true.


I feel for ya man... just one observation - just because someone goes to chruch it does not make them a good and moral person...

chock it up as experience... good luck to you!




Exactly, I find it funny that people think religious people are somehow morally superior, I've often found the opposite to be true, therefore, every guy I'm interested in is either agnostic or atheist....

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 10/09/09 09:08 AM
sad When will it stopsad

lilith401's photo
Fri 10/09/09 09:13 AM
Ummm, I'm confused. If she was using you for sex then she would have come over like she said, had sex with you, then left.


TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:20 PM
I was used by a 30 year old redhead just last night. It was great!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:20 PM
Have I ever been used sexually? rofl



Silly little man.

4974's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:21 PM
lol welcome to a womans world....really that sucks..i feel for ya

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Fri 10/09/09 05:24 PM
Dont think so....

But im definitly open to it!!!!

bigsmile

greeneyedlady42's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:27 PM
people who go to church are no more perfect than anyone else. Everyone holds us to a higher standard and it seems harder to allow that we are human and make mistakes also- It never excuses the behavior, religious or not mind you,

If you peel off everyone of our coverings, our masks and our "religions, traditions or whatever you call them" we are all the same.
We hurt, we love, we have fears, as different as we are- we are all alike in many ways.





darkowl1's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:41 PM
a guy? used sexually? Really? wow. if the girl was a good Dom, maybe. never heard of a virile guy ever getting enough, or used. Guys that have trouble with too much sex that are devastatingly good looking, and are tired of it, i can see, but the more wanton of us, and less good-looking of us never ever get enough, never have, and never will. Bad diseases, and overt pickiness out-weigh the free love of the past, and probably a good thing, for the diseases coming down the pike will probably make your genitals explode, they'll be so potent.....

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 10/09/09 05:53 PM

What is all this strange talk? You can be used? Sexually? That dont happen....Right?


....I volunteer to allow myself to be used sexually so some poor guy doesnt have to. I do it for FREEDOM!!!! I'm such a patriot!:wink:



laugh



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Fri 10/09/09 06:10 PM
Me, me, use me

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Fri 10/09/09 06:37 PM
... I should hope so ... I'm USE~FULL ... Reciprocity, baby ... reciprocity ... bigsmile ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTxzA8iph6w&feature=fvw ... :banana: :banana: ...


... smokin smokin ...

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