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Since you ladies got it nailed down about how men can't handle the strong women....(keep telling yourselves that's what the problem is)
What the hell are we supposed to do when we meet the bi-polar, schizophrenic basket cases that apparently every guy who has posted here has hooked up with? Don't get mean now.....most of you gals are convinced that we can't handle you.....you may be right....clue us in on how to handle the ones who ain't got thier act together. |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 10/04/09 04:07 PM
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Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!
I just luuuurve how the superiority complexes of 'strong' women get in the way of being honest with themselves. Strong woman? WTF is a strong woman? Someone who breaks men's psyche's and balls with a single flick of their wrist? Hmmmm... sounds more like an angry frightened little girl to me....not a strong woman at all. Strong women? A woman who can love with honesty, trust with a sense of security within themselves, and be capable of admitting their flaws? A person who has above all else, integrity....and walks their talk....is a strong of character person...in my books. The rest is so much chest (or breast) beating bravado..... 
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Why is it that so many self described "strong women" choose to blame their lack of luck with the opposite sex on their "strength" and not on their weakness?
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Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! I just luuuurve how the superiority complexes of 'strong' women get in the way of being honest with themselves. Strong woman? WTF is a strong woman? Someone who breaks men's psyche's and balls with a single flick of their wrist? Nope, not at all. There is no pleasure in doing this. Hmmmm... sounds more like an angry frightened little girl to me....not a strong woman at all. Strong women? A woman who can love with honesty, trust with a sense of security within themselves, and be capable of admitting their flaws? A person who has above all else, integrity....and walks their talk....is a strong of character person...in my books. Yup. That pretty much describes me and most of my girlfriends. The rest is so much chest (or breast) beating bravado..... Yup again. There is a big difference between being strong and pretending to be. Everybody has their own definition of strength.
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Why is it that so many self described "strong women" choose to blame their lack of luck with the opposite sex on their "strength" and not on their weakness? Exactly! it's delusional! And a complete hangover from the crazy feminist era! Women get to be women...there is more strength in quietly getting on with whatever it is a woman chooses to do in her life, than out there denigrating men who don't meet her standards. Men get to be men...whomever they choose to be in his life....and if a woman does not find his choices suitable...so be it....doesn't make either of them 'stronger' than the other. |
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 Sorry, screwed up here. My responses follow some of your statements.
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Sorry, screwed up here. My responses follow some of your statements.
It's all good, lovely....I like your quiet comments imbedded in the quoted posts... and yes there's a silent strength of character than can be spotted a mile away...huh?  
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Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! I just luuuurve how the superiority complexes of 'strong' women get in the way of being honest with themselves. Strong woman? WTF is a strong woman? Someone who breaks men's psyche's and balls with a single flick of their wrist? Hmmmm... sounds more like an angry frightened little girl to me....not a strong woman at all. Strong women? A woman who can love with honesty, trust with a sense of security within themselves, and be capable of admitting their flaws? A person who has above all else, integrity....and walks their talk....is a strong of character person...in my books. The rest is so much chest (or breast) beating bravado.....
BRAVO, Jess!! 
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Since you ladies got it nailed down about how men can't handle the strong women....(keep telling yourselves that's what the problem is) What the hell are we supposed to do when we meet the bi-polar, schizophrenic basket cases that apparently every guy who has posted here has hooked up with? Don't get mean now.....most of you gals are convinced that we can't handle you.....you may be right....clue us in on how to handle the ones who ain't got thier act together. I'm tired of the battle of the sexes. Been going on for a long time. I say, let a man do his man thing, appreciate and acknowledge it. I gets you a lot further in the long run. |
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Jess.....I think I love you.....now, get me a beer woman! hehehehehehe
Oh crap! Stop hitting me!!!!!! Sorry darling...I couldn't resist. There is one fact here that applies to absolutely EVERYONE on this site.... No matter how good looking.... No matter how well educated or successful... No matter how strong and self sufficient.... there is someone out there that is sick and tired of your sh&t. The easy way out is to just shove the blame off onto someone else. but, it takes two to tango. Sure, I have had my share of failed relationships.....never abused, cheated on, lied to or abandoned any woman that I have built a relationship with. Even so...I know damn well, that I bear at least part of the responsibility when it all goes south. So, step back...take a breath...good.... now feel free to let me know how wrong I am. |
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Ah, you're a strong man Krup.
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No disagreeing with you here. All very good points. And true.
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Jess.....I think I love you.....now, get me a beer woman! hehehehehehe Oh crap! Stop hitting me!!!!!! Sorry darling...I couldn't resist. There is one fact here that applies to absolutely EVERYONE on this site.... No matter how good looking.... No matter how well educated or successful... No matter how strong and self sufficient.... there is someone out there that is sick and tired of your sh&t. The easy way out is to just shove the blame off onto someone else. but, it takes two to tango. Sure, I have had my share of failed relationships.....never abused, cheated on, lied to or abandoned any woman that I have built a relationship with. Even so...I know damn well, that I bear at least part of the responsibility when it all goes south. So, step back...take a breath...good.... now feel free to let me know how wrong I am. What kind of beer do you want? And while I am there, want me to feed the dogs, rattle up a meal for you, and run a nice hot bath for you? 
I learnt a long time ago...that I get more of what I require, by being more of what is required. It costs nothing to be kind... and the rewards are endless. I am a hard arsed woman....with a marshmallow heart....and it's taken most of my life to admit that...and be appreciated for that. I like being FEMALE. I like being my fella's mate. His strengths compensate for my weaknesses, and vica versa. The reason we parted last time was because I was too busy being a 'strong' woman....and not being REAL. And he was too busy being a 'strong' man, and not being REAL. |
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What kind of beer do you want? And while I am there, want me to feed the dogs, rattle up a meal for you, and run a nice hot bath for you?
I learnt a long time ago...that I get more of what I require, by being more of what is required. It costs nothing to be kind... and the rewards are endless. I am a hard arsed woman....with a marshmallow heart....and it's taken most of my life to admit that...and be appreciated for that. I like being FEMALE. I like being my fella's mate. His strengths compensate for my weaknesses, and vica versa. The reason we parted last time was because I was too busy being a 'strong' woman....and not being REAL. And he was too busy being a 'strong' man, and not being REAL. Actually....I was just hoping for cheap and meaningless sex....but, if I can wrangle up a beer, dog feeding, and a Krupa feeding too...JACKPOT!....don't worry about the bath darling...I just have the dogs lick me clean every other Tuesday. Anyhoo...this has been fun....in a sado/masochistic sort of way...now, I gotta go work on a painting then hit the books for yet another work related liscence. You cat's and dolls have a great evening.... Jess....I wanna have your baby!!!! |
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when we meet the bi-polar, schizophrenic basket cases
 You know me so well Anna x
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Strong characters are really hard to discover.
I admit my flaws, but I do struggle to learn from my mistakes. Therefore I don't think of myself as strong. I do lack a level of self-esteem, unless i'm in an environment within which im known (for me, a karaoke pub with a certain DJ or an open mic set with familiar faces), making me feel i'm not standing alone like a lemon. I perceive strong people as those that can be themselves, rarely alter someone else's character, and get by with acceptance and a smile. Ok, we're all different, and no-one is going to be liked/known by everybody they meet, but they also understand why people come to conclusions that they do. G. |
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Why is it that so many self described "strong women" choose to blame their lack of luck with the opposite sex on their "strength" and not on their weakness? Hey!! Very good!! |
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Edited by
TxsGal3333
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Sun 10/04/09 04:45 PM
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Ohhhh hell I'm glad I only brought the popcorn in on this one shshhs think I need to add some beer to go with that popcorn..... hehehehehhe
Anyone for popcorn........ 
Think I will just sit in my corner and watch it's much more fun then downing the opposite sex. 
Myself hell we are all fickle about something no one is perfect....and if you fall in love with them then just deal with their quirks they have or move on.......
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Ohhhh hell I'm glad I only brought the popcorn in on this one shshhs think I need to add some beer to go with that popcorn..... hehehehehhe
Anyone for popcorn........
Think I will just sit in my corner and watch it's much more fun then downing the opposite sex.
ME, ME, ME!!!! 
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 10/04/09 04:44 PM
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Ohhhh hell I'm glad I only brought the popcorn in on this one shshhs think I need to add some beer to go with that popcorn..... hehehehehhe
Anyone for popcorn........
Hahahah!!!! I wanna see Krups give birth....how many women's babies is he up to now? He must have a fine brood of children going on... Pass me a beer Kristi....or easier still, I'll get us one out of Krup's fridge, while I get his...
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