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Do you think that there is such a time in your life, that even though you feel alone and you wish you'd have someone, but your current situation makes any sort of relationship impossible?
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yes
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Yes, sometimes we just have too much life to deal with.
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nope..the only thing making it difficult for me to have a relationship is the lack of the right man.
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prison can do that to a person
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Nope......
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Can there be a self-implied prison? It doesn't necessary have to be bars around you , you can make yourself to be in a prison that it's you being the prisoner and the prison guard at the same time.
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Can there be a self-implied prison? It doesn't necessary have to be bars around you , you can make yourself to be in a prison that it's you being the prisoner and the prison guard at the same time. yes, and at that point, its usually a time of reflection that sets the pace for your thoughts to become structured in your endevours and goals....a time of settling with yourself...JMO |
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Can there be a self-implied prison? It doesn't necessary have to be bars around you , you can make yourself to be in a prison that it's you being the prisoner and the prison guard at the same time. yes, and at that point, its usually a time of reflection that sets the pace for your thoughts to become structured in your endevours and goals....a time of settling with yourself...JMO I think you nailed it, because that's exactly how I feel. |
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Going through that now,sometimes we just have to much of life to deal with
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Do you think that there is such a time in your life, that even though you feel alone and you wish you'd have someone, but your current situation makes any sort of relationship impossible? Yeah, right now. |
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Yeah, for about the last year now....
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About 2 years now...Yes
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It seems like a long time to me.........
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maybe sometimes the longer you are alone, the more you adapt to the situation?
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But at the same time, if you really think of it, there is no such a thing as "the wrong time" to make a relationship and being worried about not having enough time or not having space for someone. It's an illusion. We got priorities in our lives, but did you ever realize that you feel like you are "waiting for something" and hopeful something to happen in the future? That's an illusion too, because we live in the present which is right now.
You can plan ahead for the future, but that doesn't mean you should suffer in the present. |
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You can plan ahead for the future, but that doesn't mean you should suffer in the present. That's the main reason I'm not trying to get into any more relationships! |
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I plan on nothing..I keep my heart open and let the universe roll me along.
Things happen as they should... |
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Do you think that there is such a time in your life, that even though you feel alone and you wish you'd have someone, but your current situation makes any sort of relationship impossible? No, because if you really WANT a relationship you will work out the problems. Now if you are feeling over whelmed or for some reason don't really want a relationship every thing can be peachy keen and you will find and excuse not to have a relationship or screw it up. |
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maybe sometimes the longer you are alone, the more you adapt to the situation? |
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