Topic: your head or your heart...
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Fri 10/02/09 08:26 AM
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AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:28 AM

:heart:


blushing flowerforyou

silly's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:30 AM
I always listen to my heart,:cry: but I'm going to start listening to my brain.I think that way I will be better off.frustrated

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:40 AM

I always listen to my heart,:cry: but I'm going to start listening to my brain.I think that way I will be better off.frustrated


:cry: brokenheart drinker flowerforyou

meanmarthajean's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:43 AM

if you are here on a dating site, then you should have a clear and concise picture of why the head must be used.......the heart is too compasionate and forgetting!!!!!


:thumbsup:

* So true*...with age comes wisdom.

Bigheaded's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:50 AM
It's very hard for me to identify my emotions weather their from my core or (heart or mind)surface. In particular my obsession and love get twisted... Like my obsession will builds a fantacy around a pretty woman. I will fill in every blank possile till Shes perfect and that's insaine like,like,like my obsession is what I want something to be my love is accepting people for who they are. I'm heart all the way I love love love compassion but I have a hard time weak (emotional instability but I better stop cuz i'm sonding like a hipercrit) I guess i see flaws in other people that i have in my self( wow I'm off on a tangent lol)person for a
friend it may be a little ridged one or the other but Im workin on the brain and thus the balence... Peace

Bigheaded's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:55 AM
I just prof read the blog I just sent and it's "all mixed up" I will try to remember to do it before I hit the send button next time anyway hope yall could understand a lil bit any way so sorry lol ok I'm done embarasing myself as
well yes I'm a
horrible
speller soo soo sorry

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:59 AM

I just prof read the blog I just sent and it's "all mixed up" I will try to remember to do it before I hit the send button next time anyway hope yall could understand a lil bit any way so sorry lol ok I'm done embarasing myself as
well yes I'm a
horrible
speller soo soo sorry


dude -- heart felt and real, thank you for sharing! - :thumbsup:

smokin flowerforyou drinker

Jess642's photo
Fri 10/02/09 02:54 PM
Ummm....neither....both....instinct...a resonance...a remembrance...


hahahaha.....sheesh...no wonder his lordship has such a hard time understanding me! slaphead :laughing:

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Fri 10/02/09 03:04 PM
When I'm not dating, I tell myself that next time, my head will rule, but once my emotions get stirred up after meeting that special one, I have been guilty of stupidly letting my heart rule. It's easy to make a wrong decision to be with someone solely based on what your heart is telling you. The harder part is being realistic about whether or not they are truly the one for you.

writer_gurl's photo
Fri 10/02/09 03:32 PM
This is Deja Vu
laugh laugh laugh

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 10/02/09 03:34 PM
My heart seems to have a mind of it's own.

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Fri 10/02/09 03:39 PM
Definitely brain for me.... I can teach my heart later...laugh laugh laugh laugh

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 10/02/09 03:59 PM

When I'm not dating, I tell myself that next time, my head will rule, but once my emotions get stirred up after meeting that special one, I have been guilty of stupidly letting my heart rule. It's easy to make a wrong decision to be with someone solely based on what your heart is telling you. The harder part is being realistic about whether or not they are truly the one for you.
So, soooooooooooooo true! Love suck's.

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 10/02/09 04:25 PM
complete system malfunction

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 10/02/09 04:29 PM
my heart..always use my heart in ALL decisions, and gut reaction. I'm an emotional thinker, I use intuition...
much more effective than a pro's and con's list. Never leads me astray!

Gator76's photo
Fri 10/02/09 04:44 PM

my heart..always use my heart in ALL decisions, and gut reaction. I'm an emotional thinker, I use intuition...
much more effective than a pro's and con's list. Never leads me astray!


I tend to agree...BTW...Happy Birthday! Though I have been led stray sometimes...the mere thought of putting the mind in complete control of matters of the heart goes against my nature. Perhaps the Italian in me! :wink: We probably use both. I'll always turn to my heart for the final decision. Relationships aren't science...even imperfect science. happy

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Fri 10/02/09 04:46 PM
heart, head, heart, head....lol

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 10/02/09 04:49 PM
My heart just takes me away...:heart:

Englishrose2's photo
Fri 10/02/09 04:54 PM
Both no wonder i am confused!!laugh laugh Anna x