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Topic: would women rather wait on a guy or be waited on
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Tue 09/29/09 11:25 AM
I think that if u enjoy waiting on someone that u care about on hand and foot then that is fine. Do what makes u feel good

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Tue 09/29/09 11:27 AM
Whatever works, as long as both people are happy, who cares what others think?

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Tue 09/29/09 11:28 AM

take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around??


If it works for both of you, that's your answer.

If it makes you happy and they don't have a problem with it, woohooo.

flowerforyou

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Tue 09/29/09 11:30 AM

take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around??


Its all based upon the individual right? Some women prefer to be waited on, some women want to wait on the man, and some want a healthy balance between the two. There is no WRONG there is only what is right for you....


hope that helps...

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Tue 09/29/09 12:06 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Tue 09/29/09 12:07 PM
if she's cheating on you, she's taken you for granted, resented you on top of it, and justified her means of doing so while she's taking advantage of you.

there are girls who like this treatment that you give, but they are few and far between, for there is no mystery or excitement, and they know what to expect....basically you have become a "keeper" of women, and more client based,....a sugar daddy of sorts......and there's no respect any more...sad, but chivalry's not dead, but under-rated in these times......you are just as good as anyone else, and deserve a 50-50 relationship.......i'm speaking from experience, not to give advice....if you need to talk about how to improve your odds, i'm here.

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Tue 09/29/09 12:14 PM





take for example i was with a girl and i did everything cooked,cleaned,worked,got everything for her and all she had to do was ask am i wrong in wanting to wait on the women i am with or should it be the other way around??
NO I THINK IT SHOULD WORK BOTH WAYS ...... A RELATIONSHIP IS A PARTNERSHIP TOO........

i mean i understand the meet in the middle concept but what im saying is does it make the relationship better if the guys shows more effort in the relationship or not
It's not a competition.

i dont mean to make acompetition of it i am just wondering for every relaionship i have been in i have done everything for the women and yet they always seem to cheat on me with someone that they wind up waiting on


No woman likes a doormat, which is dangerously how you sound.

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