I have spent SO much of my life wondering about what males find beautiful/pretty/cute/sexy about women and what kind of woman a man wants (as I'm sure a lot of women have). This weekend I finally realized that I already have everything that a true "man" (versus a boy) finds attractive.

Several times this weekend I had men stop me to tell me how beautiful/ sexy I am. Wow. I was speechless...which rarely happens. Turns out that there's a growing concensus that confidence is a really sexy thing to a man...and once you quit worrying about what they want "in" you and just be who you are- well, they love it!

Who knew...

I knew. Glad you realized it though.

Welcome to the club

It happens when you don't think about it or try to manufactor what "they" want ...

You are now free to be you and exude you inner confidence. That will get you noticed far more than anything else.

My best friend once told me, "No one will love you until you love yourself." Once you love yourself, you find that confidence and just as you found out, people notice you!


Gotta love that {{Sandy}}!! She is one smart cookie!!

~ So happy for YOU !!!!~

Live Love Laugh

What's odd is that I've always known who I am...and I love myself much more than anyone other than my mom proabaly could. I just never realized that all my guy friends think I'm awesome because I am and never fully thought it through that my guy friends are, wel;...guys and the equation just should've been solved a long time ago.

Damn...really, I'm the shiznitobam...always known that, just glad it's finally being noticed.

See, I've never been that way...making up who I am to please someone else. I am who I am and that's it... I just don't think that I had convinced myself of the fact that I am phucking beautiful in my own right. Once I felt like I was beautiful...I guess the beauty just poured outta me for the rest of the world to see. I feel amazing...I look in the mirror and finally see me and nothing else. I no longer allow myself to say such nasty things to me. You know, if someone else said half of the things to me that I've said to myself...well, I'd punch them right in the mouth. So no more of that BS. I am smart. I am funny. I am beautiful...and I am worth loving.

Okay...WTF? I got called cocky today...cause I'm confident in myself? *RME* Jeeez, no wonder it took this long to figure out...

Yay for you (for your epiphany)! May you never forget it

We all come in different shapes, sizes, colors, and packaging. What makes you unique is the way you carry yourself, the way you act, and the way you treat others. That's how I look at it.


And you're not c0cky. Confidence is a good thing

Not gonna say nothing

I was hoping that it wasn't cocky..*L* I think I just scared him a little.

Gotta love my girls! We gotta stick together right???

Confidence ROCKS! So happy for you that you 'got it', what you always had you now are aware of. How awesome and freeing for you! A big congratulations!

Thanks hon...

Well I just want to be the world to 1 MaN, and BeautifuL In his EyEs LikE No Other can Or will ever compare..Then thats how I know He's the 1 for me..I do believe..

See...this could be good or bad...

See? I KNEW that strutting around that nudist resort would do you good!

Darlin...looks got zero to do with it. Attitude and confidence are EVERYTHING! I do alright with the gals...it sure as hell ain't because of my looks....it is cause of the way I carry myself.

Really glad that you seen the light babydoll. Now the pressure is off and you can just be you...and be happier for it!

I like strong, independent women...women with confidence and self-assurance. And good for you for finally noticing it in yourself. Congrats. That ole law of attraction is starting to work...you'll find the men you want around you more. Lucky them!

That's exactly right, beauty comes from within..