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Topic: I just realized something...
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Wed 09/30/09 12:56 AM

I have spent SO much of my life wondering about what males find beautiful/pretty/cute/sexy about women and what kind of woman a man wants (as I'm sure a lot of women have). This weekend I finally realized that I already have everything that a true "man" (versus a boy) finds attractive.

Several times this weekend I had men stop me to tell me how beautiful/ sexy I am. Wow. I was speechless...which rarely happens. Turns out that there's a growing concensus that confidence is a really sexy thing to a man...and once you quit worrying about what they want "in" you and just be who you are- well, they love it!

Who knew...




I really like your post!!! So much pressure comes from the constant advertizing of clothes, make-up, hairspray, soap, deoderant etc etc you name it and they have a beautiful women displaying the product. The message for many women it that they need to look like the models UGH. The models have on camera perfect make-up, hair extensions, false eyelashes etc, The models do not look like the commericals in real life I am not sure anyone does. Anyway I think this is a good post :smile: :smile: flowerforyou

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Wed 09/30/09 01:34 AM

See? I KNEW that strutting around that nudist resort would do you good!

Darlin...looks got zero to do with it. Attitude and confidence are EVERYTHING! I do alright with the gals...it sure as hell ain't because of my looks....it is cause of the way I carry myself.

Really glad that you seen the light babydoll. Now the pressure is off and you can just be you...and be happier for it!


My Gawd...like I'd strut nekkid! blushing blushing You know what? I am happier now...and the pressure is off. I'm just me- love it or leave it. Shallow people still irk me rant but I know they ain't going away anytime soon.

And who told you I like being called babydoll?? HMMMM??? love

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Wed 09/30/09 01:35 AM


I have spent SO much of my life wondering about what males find beautiful/pretty/cute/sexy about women and what kind of woman a man wants (as I'm sure a lot of women have). This weekend I finally realized that I already have everything that a true "man" (versus a boy) finds attractive.

Several times this weekend I had men stop me to tell me how beautiful/ sexy I am. Wow. I was speechless...which rarely happens. Turns out that there's a growing concensus that confidence is a really sexy thing to a man...and once you quit worrying about what they want "in" you and just be who you are- well, they love it!

Who knew...




I really like your post!!! So much pressure comes from the constant advertizing of clothes, make-up, hairspray, soap, deoderant etc etc you name it and they have a beautiful women displaying the product. The message for many women it that they need to look like the models UGH. The models have on camera perfect make-up, hair extensions, false eyelashes etc, The models do not look like the commericals in real life I am not sure anyone does. Anyway I think this is a good post :smile: :smile: flowerforyou


Thanks Hon...

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Wed 09/30/09 04:28 PM
they say that beauty is skin deep....but ugly goes straight to the bone.

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Wed 09/30/09 07:43 PM

they say that beauty is skin deep....but ugly goes straight to the bone.


That's true. Ya know, for all the definitions of what qualifies as beauty...there are just as many definitions of ugly. To me, regardless of the outside apperance, ugly tends to be more a personality thing than anything else.

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