Previous 1
Topic: I was ALONE
lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:00 AM
With my boyfriend's two teenaged sons yesterday. I was totally unprepared and terrified! It was only for about an hour and it went okay, but whewwwww!!!

I think the situation with older kids is so much different than younger kids. Not to mention his are very bright and ask me very direct questions. It's like passing an exam every time...laugh

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:02 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 09/28/09 08:03 AM
As long as you didnt fart in front of them, your ok. laugh


Theyd laugh, and talk about that for life.

Oh, and good job.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:05 AM
Yeah, he told me if they didn't like me I'd definitely know about it. Teenagers are terrifying.

nelnel6280's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:05 AM
Just don't answer any sex questions lol

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:07 AM
owww, that would be scary.

I have boys so I have always had a houseful of them at varied ages.

Yeah, teenagers these days are pretty sharp, not much gets by them.

I have found over the years that nothing is more entertaining than a room

full of teenage boys and me on the other side of the wall when they don't

know I'm there listening.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:07 AM

Yeah, he told me if they didn't like me I'd definitely know about it. Teenagers are terrifying.


Youre awesome. *pat on the back for you*

Now go do something nice for yourself, you deserve it.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:07 AM
The best was when they tried to apologize for getting ahold of their dad's phone and asking me sex questions via text. That was about a week ago.

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:08 AM


Yeah, he told me if they didn't like me I'd definitely know about it. Teenagers are terrifying.


Youre awesome. *pat on the back for you*

Now go do something nice for yourself, you deserve it.


Hey, thanks! flowerforyou flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:08 AM

owww, that would be scary.

I have boys so I have always had a houseful of them at varied ages.

Yeah, teenagers these days are pretty sharp, not much gets by them.

I have found over the years that nothing is more entertaining than a room

full of teenage boys and me on the other side of the wall when they don't

know I'm there listening.


Ohhh they ask me about religion and about my job....

nelnel6280's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:08 AM

The best was when they tried to apologize for getting ahold of their dad's phone and asking me sex questions via text. That was about a week ago.


shocked slaphead

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:09 AM
at least there wasn't any booty shots on the phone surprised :laughing: pitchfork

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:10 AM

at least there wasn't any booty shots on the phone surprised :laughing: pitchfork


Nope, no sexting for me.

And I figured out it wasn't Jeff with how the message was worded.... so I just ignored it. Then I get a message that said, "What did my kids just ask you?"

laugh I had to laugh. laugh

no photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:12 AM
Why terrified unless you have things to hide nothing to be afraid of.

Why would you need to be prepared just have to be yourself what else can you be.

Direct questions or not unless you have things to hide be honest and should be no problem.

You can't control what teens think just be yourself and let them make their mind on your true self not on a prepare terrified one.

In one sentence, be yourself that is all the another person teens or adults can ask and judge you on.

franshade's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:16 AM

With my boyfriend's two teenaged sons yesterday. I was totally unprepared and terrified! It was only for about an hour and it went okay, but whewwwww!!!

I think the situation with older kids is so much different than younger kids. Not to mention his are very bright and ask me very direct questions. It's like passing an exam every time...laugh


laugh laugh so Lilith can be scared laugh laugh

So I am thinking you passed with flying colors :wink: how could you not flowerforyou


lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:17 AM

Why terrified unless you have things to hide nothing to be afraid of.

Why would you need to be prepared just have to be yourself what else can you be.

Direct questions or not unless you have things to hide be honest and should be no problem.

You can't control what teens think just be yourself and let them make their mind on your true self not on a prepare terrified one.

In one sentence, be yourself that is all the another person teens or adults can ask and judge you on.


I see you don't have kids.

mssilverfox's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:18 AM
Good job Holly, I love teenagers..My gsons friends all call me grandma and think I'm cool because I ride a motorcycle !

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:25 AM

Good job Holly, I love teenagers..My gsons friends all call me grandma and think I'm cool because I ride a motorcycle !


That's because you ARE cool! You're so cool I bet people can see their breath when you enter a room!

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:26 AM


laugh laugh so Lilith can be scared laugh laugh

So I am thinking you passed with flying colors :wink: how could you not flowerforyou


They like me, thank goodness. I suppose at some point it will stop feeling like a congressional hearing!laugh

msharmony's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:26 AM
Congratulations,, u passed with the kids,, have you passed the best friend test yet?...lol

no photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:27 AM


Why terrified unless you have things to hide nothing to be afraid of.

Why would you need to be prepared just have to be yourself what else can you be.

Direct questions or not unless you have things to hide be honest and should be no problem.

You can't control what teens think just be yourself and let them make their mind on your true self not on a prepare terrified one.

In one sentence, be yourself that is all the another person teens or adults can ask and judge you on.


I see you don't have kids.


My thoughts, too.

Previous 1