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Topic: I dont understand.
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Mon 09/28/09 02:20 PM

So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny


For me:
I take it... if a person won't answer my message or email that means they are not interested, period...plain and simple..... Move on.

I am not offended if they don't follow up or pursue. It's just that I am not their type and everybody has preferences on who they want to be with or strike up a conversation with. That's just part of life. You are too young to learn this and I hope this is your valuable lesson to learn.... that it is the way it is out there or in this world. Good luck!

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Mon 09/28/09 02:21 PM
Well, in advertising they call it "segmenting the market." Your name - skinhead_punk chick - photos that are not overly inviting (no smiles?) - and references to tattoos...and you're 6 feet tall means you're pitching to a smaller audience. That's ok if that's you and that's the message you want to send. But x number will not respond after checking your profile because some or all of what you are doesn't fit them.
Hard not to take it personal but try not to. If you're pleased with how you are "marketing" yourself...stick with it...someone will see and want to know more. Still, I'd smile! :wink: Welcome and good luck.

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Mon 09/28/09 02:25 PM

Well, in advertising they call it "segmenting the market." Your name - skinhead_punk chick - photos that are not overly inviting (no smiles?) - and references to tattoos...and you're 6 feet tall means you're pitching to a smaller audience. That's ok if that's you and that's the message you want to send. But x number will not respond after checking your profile because some or all of what you are doesn't fit them.
Hard not to take it personal but try not to. If you're pleased with how you are "marketing" yourself...stick with it...someone will see and want to know more. Still, I'd smile! :wink: Welcome and good luck.


whats wrong with tats, I got some too.

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Mon 09/28/09 02:28 PM

So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny


Best Wishes.flowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 09/28/09 02:35 PM
You even got boobies in the pictures.I dont understand these guys

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Mon 09/28/09 02:36 PM

You even got boobies in the pictures.I dont understand these guys

Go for it man!
laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 05:10 PM


Well, in advertising they call it "segmenting the market." Your name - skinhead_punk chick - photos that are not overly inviting (no smiles?) - and references to tattoos...and you're 6 feet tall means you're pitching to a smaller audience. That's ok if that's you and that's the message you want to send. But x number will not respond after checking your profile because some or all of what you are doesn't fit them.
Hard not to take it personal but try not to. If you're pleased with how you are "marketing" yourself...stick with it...someone will see and want to know more. Still, I'd smile! :wink: Welcome and good luck.


whats wrong with tats, I got some too.


Read carefully, please and don't be too sensitive...there's nothing wrong with tattoos..didn't say that. It's just that anything you do...doesn't matter what...or express...categorizes you in minds of people. I'm not saying tattoos are bad...they're just tattoos...some like and some don't...so, you narrow your field. And this girl, with other behaviors, values, and her height, narrows that field.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 09/28/09 05:18 PM
Look on the bright side, you could be getting hundreds of looks and suggestive e-mails from old guys, nerds, and perverts.

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Mon 09/28/09 08:23 PM

So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny
:smile: r u really a skinhead?:smile:

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Tue 09/29/09 10:28 AM
Looking at someone wheather for a smile or just to look what do you really see ?,Alright it portrays a certain kind of image at times good way or others negativly but it's not always about features really is it ?,Its just easier to relate to a happy glowing smile upon anyones face .Then your not looking any farther that's all that you do see a face .Maybe as usuall there's more much more to that person than eye can really see .So I feel being ignored is rude it could be approached differently hi do you have any more photos can you give me one with your shining smile maybe .We may forget to selfishness of our own needs that others do have feelings aswell.So in which case honey if they don't respond to your mail then it could be your looking in wrong direction .

What we seek from life isn't that simple to find though when you do embrace it it'll pay you back really kind .

Wish you all best x ;-)

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Tue 09/29/09 10:34 AM

So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny


Nothing worse than the not knowing,, except perhaps blatant rudeness... I feel ya,, but chalk it up to a lesson learned and keep moving on girl. I think of it this way 'you just avoided a person who obviously isnt much of a communicator'. Communication is key in any relationship, so I guess you dodged a bullet there...:)

Good luck

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