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Edited by
robert1652
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. F@#king hell what next 
Ok, so I had to do it. I perved ya. You only have a few real pics on your profile but you're smiling and they appear recent. Didn't see any of you making faces, except popeye which is funny. And your profile is lovely. I'm with Giggles on this one............NEXT! The pictures may not all be me but they are all real products real places and real buildings. I have had to do it this way as I don't want to be immediately recognizable by business associates who know me for my serious side. I have no fear but I try to avoid silly remarks at work as I am the boss. |
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Nope, can not explain that, I have no idea what they are thinking..your not scary. Your hardly scary... Don't worry about it Bob, your a sweetheart! 
what makes people think that I guess distance makes people feel safe Your trying to figure out the mentality of these women...of women.. Good luck with that. 
Thanks Lady love you to bits
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. Some enjoy chatting with a scary man. They would not meet him, because he's scary, but he's just enough scary to chat with. It's like nobody would sign up to get their guts carved out by things that rise from the grave, but the same people would certainly go to the movies to watch the gore. Same thing. Robert, at least they chat with you. I haven't got a single reply to my enquiries, and the ones who write to me only write to insult me. I enjoy it in a way, because if I did not enjoy this, then there would be nothing to enjoy at all in my life. |
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I am a very confident person in general After a few disappointments on site dating I have decided to proactively look for a partner I spoke to this lady a few weeks and then when I thought she was comfortable I asked if she wanted to meet me. She said I was scary. Yet someone I wasn't even pursuing told me not to pursue her just to stay friends and I wasn't even thinking of pursuing her. Now I know I am eccentric Englishman, I know I fool around and joke around a lot to the point that may get on some people's nerves. I know I can be a pain with my bubblegum philosophy. But am I scary? Why is it that they talk very nice for months on end and the moment the word Starbucks or dinner comes into conversation they run away. Can someone explain what is it?
There are many reasons why... and for that person to understand, pursue or go further with the so called relationship. Be it deep friendship, dating etc... etc. In this person's case: Maybe something changes came up like family issues, losing their job/s and worried about what will happen next, plus dealing with emotional turmoil right now that they decided, now/today = is not the right time or it's a wrong timing to get involve with any relationship be it deep friendship, and to start a serious relationship/dating for anything or something that will complicate their life... Personally, I know I have a lot of things going with my life right now and I do not feel like mixing it with something that I think it will complicate his life and my life in general....I do not think it is fair for that person. I am not going to lie about it. I want to be honest and I expect honesty from the other party. So I guess, for some people here to say, move on or Next is your other option may work for you. Good luck! |
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Edited by
robert1652
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Sun 09/27/09 04:49 PM
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I am a very confident person in general After a few disappointments on site dating I have decided to proactively look for a partner I spoke to this lady a few weeks and then when I thought she was comfortable I asked if she wanted to meet me. She said I was scary. Yet someone I wasn't even pursuing told me not to pursue her just to stay friends and I wasn't even thinking of pursuing her. Now I know I am eccentric Englishman, I know I fool around and joke around a lot to the point that may get on some people's nerves. I know I can be a pain with my bubblegum philosophy. But am I scary? Why is it that they talk very nice for months on end and the moment the word Starbucks or dinner comes into conversation they run away. Can someone explain what is it?
There are many reasons why... and for that person to understand, pursue or go further with the so called relationship. Be it deep friendship, dating etc... etc. In this person's case: Maybe something changes came up like family issues, losing their job/s and worried about what will happen next, plus dealing with emotional turmoil right now that they decided, now/today = is not the right time or it's a wrong timing to get involve with any relationship be it deep friendship, and to start a serious relationship/dating for anything or something that will complicate their life... Personally, I know I have a lot of things going with my life right now and I do not feel like mixing it with something that I think it will complicate his life and my life in general....I do not think it is fair for that person. I am not going to lie about it. I want to be honest and I expect honesty from the other party. So I guess, for some people here to say, move on or Next is your other option may work for you. Good luck! I must be extremely unlucky that any one I have encountered in the past 2 years (almost) have been jinxed by my approach that is scary I tell you
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If I were you and had been chatting for weeks and she said that I think I would have to ask her what she meant. Apparently not too scary to be chatting with. On-line getting to know someone is difficult at best unless your personalities really mesh. Keep trying Robert. You will find her. Some enjoy chatting with a scary man. They would not meet him, because he's scary, but he's just enough scary to chat with. It's like nobody would sign up to get their guts carved out by things that rise from the grave, but the same people would certainly go to the movies to watch the gore. Same thing. Robert, at least they chat with you. I haven't got a single reply to my enquiries, and the ones who write to me only write to insult me. I enjoy it in a way, because if I did not enjoy this, then there would be nothing to enjoy at all in my life. My nature is friendly. When I first came on this site I remember there were 6 or seven of them they ganged up on me and I am not ashamed to say I was almost in tears because I had done nothing to these women.They know who they are . So I say be yourself. and I hear ya why write and insult |
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Huh? THATS what ive been doing wronggg! I actually SHOW UP for the dates!
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I think they're afraid of your big pipe. Maybe that too....
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Huh? THATS what ive been doing wronggg! I actually SHOW UP for the dates!
But scary ? I couldn't scare a t-i-t-t-y baby if I tried
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Ya got me swinging. I'd have a coffee with ya. If you bought,,,,,,and sat at another table.
Just messing with ya guy. You got a sense of humor. Not many folks like that around anymore. You'll find somebody who appreciates it I'm sure. |
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Edited by
mssilverfox
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Sun 09/27/09 05:08 PM
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Robert, I think you are a very lovely man, not scary at all.. I would not be afraid to meet up with you anytime if we were closer. But thats just the way some people are.. Recently on my cross country trip I met up with Longhairbiker, Elwoodsully and several other people from here that don't post and one from another site.. Everyone was super nice and we had a great time,,,
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I think they're afraid of your big pipe. Maybe that too....
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For a lot of people the "online" thing is so much easier
It seems the real world of meeting and dating is scary Cause then they have to show their "real" personas |
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Not every woman can face the real challenges of being connected to a celebrity
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Edited by
Englishrose2
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Sun 09/27/09 05:15 PM
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Sadly i cant afford the air fare and i cant swim the pond but you seem a nice funny guy plus i always wanted to meet popeye
just be you and you'll find a nice girl Anna x
See Madamgeek hit the nail on the head lol its because your a legend lol Anna x |
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Edited by
CyPoet
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Sun 09/27/09 05:42 PM
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Sadly i cant afford the air fare and i cant swim the pond but you seem a nice funny guy plus i always wanted to meet popeye just be you and you'll find a nice girl Anna x
See Madamegeek hit the nail on the head lol its because your a legend lol Anna x |
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Maybe she wasn't who she said she was.
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It sounds like she was making an excuse not to meet in person, apparently she wasn't ready, or never planned to meet at all. After talking to someone for a while, you get a pretty good idea of what kind of person they are- usually. So for her to say that after so much conversation just sounds like a line.
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You're not scary at all. I would smoke that pipe with you any ol' time.
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