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Hi, I'm curious ladies what are you looking for in a man and what is important... please rate in order of importance... 1). Height (Should the man be taller or same size ok?) As unfair as this seems; yes I am definitely going to be more attracted to a guy who is because I don't want to feel like the Mom and a bigger guy just makes me feel more feminine. Skinny guys usually make me think of my Grandpa or Uncles so kind of rains on the romantic feelings. 2). Looks Not high on my list. If he looks masculine and is well groomed then that about covers it. 3). Butt A cute one I can grab would be a definite plus but not essential at "our" stage of the game. As long as he doesn't set on it 24/7. I have been stuck at home way to long and would like to get out and do a little. 4). Personality This is essential. If you get on my nerves, or have a mean, downer personality you can have it all and I won't be interested. If you are calm, considerate, care about others, can live in your own skin then that will get you a pass on a lot. 5). Money Having enough to have a little freedom and manageing what you do have so it is not constantly and issue is very important. Having a lot of it won't necessarily impress me. Someone who is overly generous is pathetic but once you have what you need spreading it around would be compatiable to my values. Can't take it with you. 6). Stability This is pretty important to me. I don't want to deal with someone who crumbles under pressure. We all have knockdowns in life the people who impress me are the ones who get back up and keep on going. Someon who shows they can keep steadily employed, have a few long term friends or relationships, own a home make me feel like they have a direction and constancy that seems like a secure bet. 7). Something I Forgot? Character comes to mind. And tempo. If I can't feel like I trust a guys over all character or his tempo wears me out I don't think it would last. Trust in me is important. I refuse to have to pay for other peoples sins. Either get over your baggage or move out of my way. Thanks |
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Women dont know what the F they Want!! LOL Nor do guys!! EPIC!! Failure. 
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Monier you really think thats it? what u said is kinda like what i did.. but i honestly think women do know what they want. they just have seen what they want so many times unless what they want is a complete whole it isnt good enough. ya know? so it isnt one thing. you could check off the list from 2 thru 10 but if you arent the first thing on the list they will find someone who is. or you can have the 1st and 3 thru 10 and not 2. same difference. tell ya what? if i was 21? i could get any girl i wanted. at 27 i am lucky if i can handle a conversatiion for 21 minutes with a woman my age If I could send a message back in time to myself at 21, it would read 'Many women make decisions based on emotion so don't approach them logically. You'll live a much happier life'. Trying to please a women all of the time is as trying to fight back the waves in the ocean. What do women want? Frankly there are more interesting things to try to figure out in life. I'm not saying to be insensitive or uncaring, just don't become a part of anybody's drowning in my their helpless sorrow. Somebody should make some flowcharts regarding Indecisive Guys and Gals decision making process. It would be both hilarious and pathetic. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Sat 09/26/09 01:39 PM
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Women dont know what the F they Want!! LOL Nor do guys!! Oh that's a mature reply! 
There are plenty of men and women who know what they want in life. Usually, they are people who have experienced life and made smart choices with few regrets (if any regrets). I have a list of things that I prefer -- ON PAPER -- but I have no idea who will capture my heart. I like a specific "look" in a man, and education is paramount too. I want him to tingle my toes but also challenge my mind. My ultimate is Marilyn Manson. Yes, laugh if you will but he is edgy, talented, extremely intelligent and HOT AS HELL!!! He hits all the nerves in my body and brain.  HE is my type.
In reality, I would probably fall for a bald Kevin James!  I used him as an arbitrary example because he is pretty much the opposite of who I am attracted to in a man.
Every girl will have a different answer. Love is not tangible, and attraction cannot be explained. I wish you happiness in dating. At least have fun while you are looking! 
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Tight jeans....double d's....making me goo wooo wooo!!
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Monier you really think thats it? what u said is kinda like what i did.. but i honestly think women do know what they want. they just have seen what they want so many times unless what they want is a complete whole it isnt good enough. ya know? so it isnt one thing. you could check off the list from 2 thru 10 but if you arent the first thing on the list they will find someone who is. or you can have the 1st and 3 thru 10 and not 2. same difference. tell ya what? if i was 21? i could get any girl i wanted. at 27 i am lucky if i can handle a conversatiion for 21 minutes with a woman my age If I could send a message back in time to myself at 21, it would read 'Many women make decisions based on emotion so don't approach them logically. You'll live a much happier life'. Trying to please a women all of the time is as trying to fight back the waves in the ocean. What do women want? Frankly there are more interesting things to try to figure out in life. I'm not saying to be insensitive or uncaring, just don't become a part of anybody's drowning in my their helpless sorrow. Somebody should make some flowcharts regarding Indecisive Guys and Gals decision making process. It would be both hilarious and pathetic. if you sent yourself an email, or whatever, when you were 21 you probably wouldnt have listened to yourself because when we were 21 girls werent into what we have now its a twisted circle does it make any sense??? nope 21 year olds want one thing 27 year olds want another 35 year olds want this 42 year olds want that and any women above that? i am just not concerned with yet 
that is my stance on women so the way I look at it..........I go out there and be myself. If a woman doesn't want what I have? Then I guess I'm not the right guy for them....or maybe I should just stay single and remind myself that I was happier when I was 21 
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I found what I want!!
6'3 Bald Big Tats A heart as big as all outdoors!! Generous. Honest. Loyal. Funny. Sexy!! He's all mine I tell ya !!! 
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TAMMMMMYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY 
i dont care how off topic this is! 
i am so glad you are back!! |
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Thanks Billy!!!
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Edited by
BillySuvol
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Sat 09/26/09 03:22 PM
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and i am also happy you found someone too
sorry i got excited but that wasnt the topic, either
okay im done...moving on to some other thread.... 
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sat 09/26/09 03:23 PM
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Im looking for a best friend with similar goals and values, and roommate who can share life and put me in heaven when he holds me,,,,
Emphasis on best friend |
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Pats you need to find a new money picture.... 
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Women dont know what the F they Want!! I will tell you what they dont want, A Good Guy, They prefer and are more attracted to guys that treat them like crap. They say they want Honesty, Integrity, Passion, Great hands, Humor etc. etc. etc. Its all BS. They prefer getting abused verbally and ignored. Its not their fault guys. Its in their genes. They like the uncertain. With good guys they know where they stand and it makes them uneasy. They prefer mystery. So, when you feel the urge to be nice on a first second or third date DONT!!!! Keep them guessing and treat them shitty. Im not talking physical abuse but treat them like they dont matter. Tease them about their looks, keep them guessing. Trust me, it works!!! Women are more predicatable then you ever thought!!! Ditto Double Ditto.........if a man treats me like chit the first date I promise you he will not get a second date regardless who the heck he is........... matter of fact that goes if he breaks the first date and does not call then calls back later trying to get another one with no reason for missing the first one. Shsshsh and yes I would do that matter of fact just recently did and he keeps calling back sorry I have moved on..... I don't have time for games and bs in my life they are either up front or out the door........
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Women dont know what the F they Want!! I will tell you what they dont want, A Good Guy, They prefer and are more attracted to guys that treat them like crap. They say they want Honesty, Integrity, Passion, Great hands, Humor etc. etc. etc. Its all BS. They prefer getting abused verbally and ignored. Its not their fault guys. Its in their genes. They like the uncertain. With good guys they know where they stand and it makes them uneasy. They prefer mystery. So, when you feel the urge to be nice on a first second or third date DONT!!!! Keep them guessing and treat them shitty. Im not talking physical abuse but treat them like they dont matter. Tease them about their looks, keep them guessing. Trust me, it works!!! Women are more predicatable then you ever thought!!! Ditto Double Ditto.........if a man treats me like chit the first date I promise you he will not get a second date regardless who the heck he is........... matter of fact that goes if he breaks the first date and does not call then calls back later trying to get another one with no reason for missing the first one. Shsshsh and yes I would do that matter of fact just recently did and he keeps calling back sorry I have moved on..... I don't have time for games and bs in my life they are either up front or out the door........
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I totally agree with you. These are my priorities also.
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Hi, I'm curious ladies what are you looking for in a man and what is important... please rate in order of importance... 1). Height (Should the man be taller or same size ok?) 2). Looks 3). Butt 4). Personality 5). Money 6). Stability 7). Something I Forgot? Thanks how about 'social status'? |
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Hi, I'm curious ladies what are you looking for in a man and what is important... please rate in order of importance... 1). Height (Should the man be taller or same size ok?) 2). Looks 3). Butt 4). Personality 5). Money 6). Stability 7). Something I Forgot? Thanks how about 'social status'? order of importance 1.Height ( no shorter than me, I like to feel like the protected not the protector) 2.Values (you forgot) 3.Personality 4.Stablity 5.Looks 6.Money ( if it has to be included in the list, otherwise not considered) 7.Butt ( if it has to be included, otherwise not considered) |
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7). Something I Forgot?
how about penis size?
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Men are always looking for corrective actions and quick fixes,
Women like to stew in the Mud so they can Dis their man on the telephone with their friends. 
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