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My 4:
1. Comittment 2. Comprimise 3. Comedy 4. Consoling |
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My 4: 1. Comittment 2. Comprimise 3. Comedy 4. Consoling |
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Maybe you're right. Maybe I don't understand. But, I'm a quick learner. Please, educate me. |
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for example:
compassion= tolerance, patience, understanding,empathy,sympathy(not pity) commitment=faithfulness,loyalty, integrity &perseverance communication= honesty,open mindedness,attentiveness compromise=fair mindedness,unselfishness, those are just a few, fill in the others that fit the right categories and see what you get...go ahead give it a try |
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crackers
cheese chilled wine condoms |
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most ppl have forgotten that its nice to be important but its more important to be nice, so where are all the nice guys ???????????? i feel like im totally alone in the search for committment and understanding im a compromising person but i dont want that to be a one sided thing most of the time its like that though lol
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i agree
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i agree |
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1- Cum
2- Caress 3- Cons 4- Creeping |
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others I have similiar 4 C's, but that's just because I'm me Creativity Civility Candor Coherence |
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and u need to be conscious too..
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# 5 Condiments.....
on a really good sandwich. |
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# 5 Condiments..... on a really good sandwich. |
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we got it!!
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Wed 09/23/09 09:32 PM
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you left out my favorite C
consummation |
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you left out my favorite C consummation |
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Edited by
Gypsy41
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Thu 09/24/09 11:00 AM
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Cranberry juice
cuddles campbells soup c * o * c * k fighting! |
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I feel the most important thing i a relationship is acceptance. You must accept your S/O for who they are. If you can do that one thing everything else is easy. I often find that people who say I must accept them as they are use that as an excuse to do exactly as they please wheater it is at the expense of others or me. That bully mentality doesn't make for a good relationship. In a healthy relationship sometimes you have to try to do things that are not exactly what you have in mind or who you are but doing it in an open spirit as a gift to your S/O. Often it can turn out to be fun and you can find out why they enjoy it so much afterall. If it is done in a poor spirit or half heartedly then it is a selfish insult to the S/O and breaks down the relationship. |
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I feel the most important thing i a relationship is acceptance. You must accept your S/O for who they are. If you can do that one thing everything else is easy. I often find that people who say I must accept them as they are use that as an excuse to do exactly as they please wheater it is at the expense of others or me. That bully mentality doesn't make for a good relationship. In a healthy relationship sometimes you have to try to do things that are not exactly what you have in mind or who you are but doing it in an open spirit as a gift to your S/O. Often it can turn out to be fun and you can find out why they enjoy it so much afterall. If it is done in a poor spirit or half heartedly then it is a selfish insult to the S/O and breaks down the relationship. |
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others I think I would add courtesy. It implys a lot but the core of it is that you treat the other with respect and kindness. I think many people will see any of the C's as being weak or making themself vunerable. To some extent that is true because it does require a certain level of a "C" that is not listed; Confidence;that the person you love actually finds you loveable and will not abuse your effort to be compassionate, communicate, compromise, and be committed to the relationship. |
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