Topic: Why am I struggking to
Adam19892's photo
Tue 09/22/09 07:53 AM
Why am I struggling to find a boyfriend (Gay)

Riardo's photo
Tue 09/22/09 08:02 AM

Why am I struggling to find a boyfriend (Gay)
surprised

nelnel6280's photo
Tue 09/22/09 08:04 AM
You need more pics of yourself posted. Maybe one of you smiling

And add more info about yourself... Like some of your hobbies or things you like to do... Tell the lads about yourself. Got to make yourself look good to get noticed. Ya know.

Good Luck and Welcome to mingle

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/22/09 08:17 AM
Hon, your picture is not very flattering, and your profile is blank. You also have terrifically strict restrictions on your profile as to who can mail you.

Get some proper photos, write a profile, and lift those restrictions.

Good luck to you.

Paddyreus's photo
Tue 09/22/09 08:23 AM
Hmmmm

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Tue 09/22/09 08:44 AM
whoa Flame on! but seriously U need to follow the advice above.U can't expect your e-mail box to fill w/ what your bringing to the table so far.Effort=Results.G'luck!:smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 09/22/09 09:28 AM

Why am I struggling to find a boyfriend


I ask that question to myself often...

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 09/22/09 09:34 AM
Hmm, i'm at a loss for words herewhoa

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 09/22/09 10:14 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Tue 09/22/09 10:16 AM
cause you hardly put anything in your profile

you only have the one post in the forums

I would say you're prolly not putting much effort into it

everyone seems to think that putting a profile on a dating site is like a magic wand and the fairy godmother (no pun intended) will wave her wand and magically make a boyfriend/girlfriend appear

just because you get a cellphone doesn't mean that suddenly lots of potential boyfriend/girlfriends will magically start calling you. Its the same with a profile.

You have to work at it


and you need a better pic. that one makes you look like the mean old math teacher that whacks your wrist with a ruler

Redheadlover's photo
Tue 09/22/09 10:25 AM
where are all the good men.married i guess

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 09/22/09 10:45 AM

where are all the good men.married i guess


taken, gay, or too far away...drinker

Differentkindofwench's photo
Tue 09/22/09 11:06 AM
Yup, expand your profile a bit and starting this thread, good start! Hmmmm, what would attract you to a thread or a profile. What are you a student of? Participate in the forums and allow your interests to lead you.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Tue 09/22/09 11:56 AM
In a nutshell, you should have:

More pictures that have smiles in them! Also some pictures in other places (parties, school, vacations, etc)
More info on your interests, hobbies, your ideal first date, and future goals
No offense, but do your hair, look pretty for the camera

Hope this helps.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 09/22/09 12:09 PM
All I can say is quit struggling to find someone. Means your trying way to hard let things happen naturally instead. Look within and find yourself get to know what it is you want within a partner and don't settle. Get out more and do things you enjoy you never know who will be around the next corner you turn or behind the counter where you go. Learn to look others eye to eye life starts with a simple hello.....................bigsmile

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 09/22/09 12:24 PM

Hmm, i'm at a loss for words herewhoa




surprised noway



nelnel6280's photo
Tue 09/22/09 01:25 PM

Hmm, i'm at a loss for words herewhoa


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 09/22/09 01:26 PM


where are all the good men.married i guess


taken, gay, or too far away...drinker


or crazy, can't forget themlaugh laugh

GG2's photo
Tue 09/22/09 01:28 PM
I'm sure this site isn't the only place OP is looking, c'mon!

OP, welcome to MY world.

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Tue 09/22/09 01:44 PM
Finding a bf or gf shouldn't be a struggle, just get to know people and try to be friends first, otherwise you're setting yourself up for major disappointment.

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Tue 09/22/09 03:53 PM
McLovin!




laugh