-Well played!

I don't know if 28 qualifies as mid 20's anymore, but I just spent the last 7 years married to a woman who's idea of a monogamy was only having sex with 1 guy (not me) at a time, so I will need someone to draw me a diagram or explain what sex is before I can post a more precise answer to the question at hand.

I'm 26 and not completely obsessed with sex most of the time

Men are supposedly thinking about sex every 6 seconds, the other 5 is filled with the thought of them thinking about sex......

In answer to the question i'm not just looking for sex (I passed that phase in my teens), but I suppose 27 is past mid 20's...or at least it feels like it these days.

there aree tons of guys not lookin for just sex... including me but its hard with the way women act nowadays. they throw it too you the first time u meet em and well personaly i get dissapointed n move on if that happens or comes close too happening. sorry ladies if you do that for me no saying u havent done it for every other guy you have happend too glance across in the mall. i want too find a girl who can respect ehrself because if she cant even do that then there is no way in hell she can respect me... so if anyone knows a descent woman round the 410.... tell her im still lookin

so true - thats just freaky. how r u are you from portsmouth ? x

SURE IS

Yes there are! I'm one of them, but I don't think I'll ever find what I'm looking for.

I'm looking for a soulmate or partner, someone who I can share thoughts with. Not just for sex -_-.

too be honest, i am looking for sex... but not only that! I also want someone for companionship and being there for each other. A relationship without sex is quite unhealthy but it doesn't mean it must be frequent -- maybe just on those very special occasions that call for it.

all guys are looking for sex. they might not be looking for it yet, it might be gratifying just to have a girlfriend for some, but sooner or later it is going to lead to "i want sex". i personally think woman should just accept this fact and review the man on his other qualities, just because some one has a high libido drive, does not mean they can't be compassionate, and well adjusted.....but there are always outliers

ouch, mate.... see that ladies, you people can be just as bad.

I'd love to say that I'm not looking for sex, but I'm 26 and male! Seriously though, not all of us are really looking for sex, some of us might just want a new friend or maybe a girlfriend (or boyfriend depending on which way you swing). Personally, I'm not sure if I want a date or a friend. So far, I haven't met anyone that knows how to be honest, so my walls are still pretty high.

see this guy has the right idea, arghh i hear this bring brought up all the time and it is one of very few things that stirs me up quite good. if you don't want a mate and just a friend, it should not be limited by gender. if your looking for a mate of the opposite sex , there must be a reason....

yeh friendship!

yes rite here

That's interesting im 24 male here in philippines..

but i don't think foriegn girls like asian...

not quite mid, but companionship (I hate that word) means alot more to me than just sex.

There are lots of guys out there lookin for a Good relationship. I know what you mean about soo many people just wantin sex and if they don't get it. there not interested no more.. That's pathetic. Sex is a great deal in a relationship but you have to take the steppin stones up to that point and than go from there. :)

HEY GUYS ITS KAYLA IM SINGLE AND LOOKING ANY1 THATS 30 AND UNDER THATS INTRESTED SEND ME A MESSAGE !!!!!!