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Topic: You've Just Been Spanked...
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Sun 09/20/09 12:29 PM
So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin

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Sun 09/20/09 12:30 PM

So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


let's just say they won't do it againshades

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Sun 09/20/09 12:31 PM

So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


Depends on if it's warranted and what their motivation is. If they do it to purposely embarrass me, then I silently plot my revenge..devil

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Sun 09/20/09 12:32 PM
depends on the situation but when you gotta take it you bend over the barrel and take it gracefully tears tears

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Sun 09/20/09 12:33 PM


So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


Depends on if it's warranted and what their motivation is. If they do it to purposely embarrass me, then I silently plot my revenge..devil


now your talking:thumbsup:

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Sun 09/20/09 12:33 PM
depends on how they go about it. if i feel attacked i strike back. if its done in a respectful way i take it and improve myself by it.

:)


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Sun 09/20/09 12:33 PM
I always welcome "constructive" critism...I take it as room for improvement as a wholeglasses

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Sun 09/20/09 12:42 PM
Exactly.And providing it is given in a proper manner by someone whom is genuine w/ good intention.If it is given w/ negativity & thoughtlessness then it's ON.:smile: flowerforyou

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Sun 09/20/09 12:44 PM

So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


It totally depends on the delivery..........smokin

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Sun 09/20/09 12:46 PM
If it's someone who loves me enough to tell me I'm being an azz, I'll be open enough to listen..if it's someone that just likes to correct and criticize everything or everyone, I won't put much stock in it.

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Sun 09/20/09 12:46 PM


So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


It totally depends on the delivery..........smokin



Expound? *leans forward & listens intently*

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Sun 09/20/09 12:48 PM

I always welcome "constructive" critism...I take it as room for improvement as a wholeglasses



Me too, but not rudeness noway

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Sun 09/20/09 12:49 PM


So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


Depends on if it's warranted and what their motivation is. If they do it to purposely embarrass me, then I silently plot my revenge..devil


Ditto..........bigsmile

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Sun 09/20/09 12:53 PM
It depends on who it's coming from and how they present themselves with it. Most of the time it's from friends, and if it is. That means i needed a kick in the butt lol.

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Sun 09/20/09 12:57 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sun 09/20/09 12:58 PM
I typically spend time with people who dont criticize me often.

I do enjoy a friend who will call me on my crap, and not co-sign everything I say or do, but honestly, as a grown woman, i leave most of what my friends do their business, and hope for the same, and just try to encourage better decisions, and thinking..


The idea to uplift, and not bring someone down.

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Sun 09/20/09 12:59 PM
I think most of us here are in agreement that it's in the delivery and the intent. If that's a little vague, maybe one of us could role-play a scenario to illustrate. I totally understand what you're saying though.

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Sun 09/20/09 01:00 PM

So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


I accept it gracefully and also might even through in an occasional apology or two...but then I keep a watchful eye out for any mistake(s) that they might make in the future...and correct them on theirs. :banana:

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Sun 09/20/09 01:00 PM



So, how do you handle it when someone corrects or criticizes you? Do you accept it gracefully, ignore it, or fight about it? biggrin


It totally depends on the delivery..........smokin



Expound? *leans forward & listens intently*


Well... You can usually seperate the bullchit. If someone really cares about you it just comes across differently........smokin

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Sun 09/20/09 01:00 PM
It depends on the circumstances -if I've genuinely done wrong then - " my bad"!
I appreciate them telling me-but they better have a good point:smile:

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Sun 09/20/09 01:01 PM

I think most of us here are in agreement that it's in the delivery and the intent. If that's a little vague, maybe one of us could role-play a scenario to illustrate. I totally understand what you're saying though.



Hmmm...role-playing at the dinner table...with real rolls! bigsmile

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