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Topic: Do People Need To Be Loved To Feel Whole?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 09/19/09 10:59 AM
cool

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Sat 09/19/09 11:03 AM
yes,but especially self love.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 09/19/09 11:19 AM
yes,but especially self love.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 09/19/09 12:21 PM


s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sat 09/19/09 12:37 PM
you really make me wanna feel whole all of a sudden!

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Sat 09/19/09 12:57 PM Edited by Monier on Sat 09/19/09 01:02 PM
Do you think people need to be loved to feel whole? No, the need for extreme acceptance from other people can be self destructive. Getting a cat takes care of that need for some.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Sat 09/19/09 01:01 PM
I've been a fan of Maslow's Self-Actualization for some time now. It's refreshing to read about somebody that studied healthy people and built a model of mental health from it.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 09/19/09 06:26 PM
I do not feel that people need to be loved to feel whole. I am a complete person whether I am loved or not. there is nothing missing. My validating comes from within.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 09/19/09 07:25 PM
I'm whole whether anyone loves me or not... I have self-love and the Divine One's love is eternal...

kayarie Joined Tue 01/13/09 Posts: 331	Sat 09/19/09 07:33 PM
I think you need love, Love creates happiness, if there is no one to love in your life giving you love i think as long as you give out love it will make you happier more positive. And eventually you will attract love givelove to get love

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sat 09/19/09 07:41 PM
Do you think people need to be loved to feel whole? ...nope. I feel lotsa holes.

jimmij Joined Sat 09/19/09 Posts: 1	Sat 09/19/09 07:49 PM
sure is nice to know that your partner loves you,it stops the doubt,and fears ,and leads us to think its all our fault,why all of a sudden there seams to be a coldness,we think our relationship is dieing,we don't feel whole,somethings missing,being assured in hard times that we love each other,is the most wonderful thing,it makes us feel yummy again,without the pain.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Sat 09/19/09 07:49 PM
Do you think people need to be loved to feel whole? My past experiences made me feel less than a half, let alone a whole.

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Sat 09/19/09 08:58 PM
My daughter is the only one who can make me feel whole. Guys can kick my pale white tuchas. She is my flesh and blood. They are my tormentors and sperm donors.

southernangel7193 Joined Tue 05/06/08 Posts: 254	Sat 09/19/09 09:07 PM
yes

chrissy613 Joined Mon 09/14/09 Posts: 314	Sat 09/19/09 09:08 PM
yes, but not nessasarily by a mate, or lover. at least by God, imo. acceptance is essential. I agree. I think if you love God, than you are able to love a person.

johnboy072472 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 4874	Sat 09/19/09 09:09 PM
For sure

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 09/19/09 09:15 PM
Probably need it somewhere along the line but constantly nope. It does however serious improve the quality of life if you are.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 09/20/09 12:20 PM
you really make me wanna feel whole all of a sudden!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 09/20/09 04:18 PM
Do you think people need to be loved to feel whole? No, the need for extreme acceptance from other people can be self destructive. Getting a cat takes care of that need for some.