Topic: jus nsa is that too hard to do ladies?
lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:34 AM
Well, I wasn't the only one who was confused.

And just a bit of friendly advice, most women want to connect with a man intimately. Making love is an expression of inner emotions, and the intimacy is not based on sex. You will be hard pressed to find what you are looking for. You can try all you want, but it sounds as though what you are asking is too much.

What you are really telling us is that you want a woman to allow you to see her at her most vulnerable, but you don't want any feelings about that? If you want NSA, you get back alley action.

Winx's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:36 AM


Now ladies don't get me wrong. I'm replying to their posts and respecting their demands for a man not falling in love no drama etc. But you see here's where I believe the problem lies. I'm a guy who makes love even when I'm not making love. I don't ****, screw , have quickies and your probably thinkin I don't make sense.let me explain, when I'm havin sex no matter if she's my girl or just a fling the sex is all out. See its something about a womans body, smoothess of her skin ,smell of her hair, her private parts and I just happen to pay close attention to details and express it with a gentle yet strong display of erotic love making. every twitch of the body I notice,the heavier the breathing I'm there,the louder the moans I got this and not to mention my mouth sensually traveling all areas of her body softly licking and faintly kissing. Maybe I can show u sometime chow!


so, all you really want is a promiscuous slut?

try adult friend finder


I see. He's looking for somebody with no morals and possibly low self esteem.

no photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:42 AM
I don't think it really has anything to do with morality. But I think he's unrealistic in his expectations that women can separate sex from emotions. I think that most, but of course certainly not all, WANT the emotion and intimacy and may think they can **** with no emotion, but for the most part, I don't think that's realistic.

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:43 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Mon 09/14/09 06:44 AM
he just wants a piece of azz sho will allow him to use her for sex with no reciprocal affection or consideration

what he is decribing is a hooker for free

supasaucy's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:45 AM
Finally! I was waitin for that one... do you know that probably 80 to 85 percent of those women are unhappily married because the man who so called loves her has let their life become routine. People think relationships mellow out after time but its garbage. The dude jus has no creativity, no motivation to keep things new. Its in a womans nature to have creativity in their lives. Now aren't they constantly changin their styles of clothes , shades of eye shadow, types of lotion, various perfumes, color of their hair, and do you men notice it NO but you know what now their changing something else and you don't even notice think about it !

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:49 AM
What is your point? That women get bored with sex like they do the scent of their body lotion?

I'm not sure about you, but the longer I am with someone, the more they know what I like and vice versa. Strange is strange, like stranger danger. There is variety if there is open communication and mutual respect.

franshade's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:52 AM

Finally! I was waitin for that one... do you know that probably 80 to 85 percent of those women are unhappily married because the man who so called loves her has let their life become routine. People think relationships mellow out after time but its garbage. The dude jus has no creativity, no motivation to keep things new. Its in a womans nature to have creativity in their lives. Now aren't they constantly changin their styles of clothes , shades of eye shadow, types of lotion, various perfumes, color of their hair, and do you men notice it NO but you know what now their changing something else and you don't even notice think about it !


where do you get your statistics from? If you are so good as you self proclaim yourself to be, why are you having a difficult time in finding that NSA relationship?

no photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:55 AM

Finally! I was waitin for that one... do you know that probably 80 to 85 percent of those women are unhappily married because the man who so called loves her has let their life become routine. People think relationships mellow out after time but its garbage. The dude jus has no creativity, no motivation to keep things new. Its in a womans nature to have creativity in their lives. Now aren't they constantly changin their styles of clothes , shades of eye shadow, types of lotion, various perfumes, color of their hair, and do you men notice it NO but you know what now their changing something else and you don't even notice think about it !


I'm actually not even sure what this has to do with the subject at hand? Creativity, change, routine? They have nothing to do with why most women can't/don't want sex with no emotion.

supasaucy's photo
Mon 09/14/09 07:16 AM
Look the women I'm refererring to are the ones initiating the fun but I'm the one who is lowdown lol y'all crack me up

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 07:19 AM
Yeppers. Uh huh.

Glad to hear it.

What is your point though?

no photo
Mon 09/14/09 07:21 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 09/14/09 07:25 AM
It's 'ciao', not chow.

My bad, I see this has been corrected already.

Oh well.........

Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 09/14/09 07:25 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Mon 09/14/09 07:25 AM

It's 'ciao', not chow.


unless your hungry

metalwing's photo
Mon 09/14/09 07:37 AM
I'm creeped out.

Nyteflame's photo
Mon 09/14/09 08:57 AM
Women aren't built for NSA relationships. Studies show that when a woman has good sex with someone, her body releases the same chemicals that it does when she breastfeeds a baby. These chemicals cause her to feel a bond towards her partner.


Dragoness's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:01 AM


Hmmm, I would think it would be women whose profile say they are looking for an intimate encounter. I do believe that is what that option is for.
yeah, cause i never knew a guy who liked a one night stand, or a just hit it and quit it deal. If more girls went with that intimate encounter deal, there would be alot more happier guys, but many more fatherless children, not that im complaining, but i do feel bad for those kids.


You mean these men are doing hit and quit it without using a condom?slaphead scared shocked surprised spock

supasaucy's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:09 AM
My point is women choose to do this stuff and you are secretly infatuated with the thought ! Don't worry I know u saved my posts for later if I wasn't on my g1 id upload a pic to match that man in your fantasies

lilith401's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:12 AM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Oh my... the depths of your lack of knowledge is stunning.

supasaucy's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:12 AM
Dude ur kidding me rite speakin of kidding is that a lil kid u got in your ear

Winx's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:14 AM

Dude ur kidding me rite speakin of kidding is that a lil kid u got in your ear


She's not a dude.

Winx's photo
Mon 09/14/09 09:18 AM

Finally! I was waitin for that one... do you know that probably 80 to 85 percent of those women are unhappily married because the man who so called loves her has let their life become routine. People think relationships mellow out after time but its garbage. The dude jus has no creativity, no motivation to keep things new. Its in a womans nature to have creativity in their lives. Now aren't they constantly changin their styles of clothes , shades of eye shadow, types of lotion, various perfumes, color of their hair, and do you men notice it NO but you know what now their changing something else and you don't even notice think about it !


I think you have that wrong. It's probably more like 80-85% of the women that are married are happily married.

Just because a woman likes different kinds of perfumes and colors of hair doesn't mean that she wants a variety of men too. You can't even compare the two.laugh