At my age --fat skinny big tall --as long as they can cook, clean and wash my feet---there good!!! Did I say wash my feet??? sorry Oh no!!

First and foremost, it's all in the attitude. Keep having a negative one and, you'll never find anybody.

Yep!my sediments exactly.And also listening to the ill advice given to him from Ms Newbie who has a whopping 5 days at this site.The majority of her posts reek w/ negativity so far including this thread.Look at her first comment which is a hasty assumption by telling him that most ppl. here are liars & fakes.She doesn't know zip/nada about this site or the fact that it is a deeply rooted social site w/ many splendid ppl.onboard.Furthormore the OP is buying into her rubbish. Have a bearific day sweetheart.Godspeed!Cy

Maybe because you have to post topics like this and overdramatize something everybody goes through? Get a hobby, have fun, the world won't end because you can't find a lady right now.

Pleas relax!!

Don't look to hard

Love will come

Welcome to the site. My only advice is to meet people in person if you like what they have to say. You can't assume anything from a one dimensional image. Physical attraction, believe it or not, really does come from respect and admiration. The physicality is a small slice...

I would hope you'd expect women to do the same for you. That they'd want you for who you are inside, yes?

ok in response to several peoples posts. First of all i am 6'0 220 which is alot smaller than I used to weigh which was 245. secondly if u read my post i cast off bbw but i also said i dont mind a little meat ie curves. I know I am not ugly I am a damn fine individual. if you even looked at my profile you will see on there that it says i EXCERCISE daily. So do your research on my profile before you make a statement. I run three miles a day. As far as the comments about women and other men being a$$HOLES yes some guys do ruin it. they break a woman down to where they find it hard to open up and try new relationships without having that little trust factor, or wondering when the next beating will happen. Yes I am a very confident individual. I appreciate the positive comments but I just wanted to see what kind of responses someone with low self esteem would get from a dating site and I have just seen. In a prvious post I made the comment you have to love yourself before you can ever love someone else. I love myself very much. Again I appreciate all the responses and hope everyone meets that special someone and lives a happy life.

maybe the BBW exercise every day too. and maybe they've lost some recent weight as well.

Your looks are immaterial as to whether you will find someone.

Be patient and don’t put your need to find someone as your paramount goal. Become active in different ways (sports, volunteering, schooling, etc) -- which will enhance yourself -- and someone will find their way to you when you least expect it! They will adore who you are based on what you are on the inside.

I’m sure they will be warm for your form too!

You just answered your own question; the girls you are interested in might not be attracted to you. You are not their cup of tea. No offense but you are not the peak of fitness yourself; however, we do not need to mirror the type of person that turns us on.

I am a fitness trainer and I tend to only date lean, tall guys -- but I've been attracted to many. Personality wins a lot in most cases.

Listen to MelodyGirl, she speaks truth.

If this is the case...you need to fire your trainer

Melody is smart. She gets it