Topic: No Nickname
earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 09/08/09 10:55 AM
I just basicly am content with forgetting them.

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 10:56 AM
I don't wanna give him a nickname though..... 'stomps feet'....

Hmm, what were some others... "Alan Powers" was one... ahh and then there was 'The Republican'....

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 10:57 AM

I just basicly am content with forgetting them.


I admit I give them more chances than I should and keep seeing them knowing it will doom to failure. Or, with the professor, I stayed for the sex.

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Tue 09/08/09 10:58 AM
I think it's funny that people keep trying to help you give him a nickname when you were saying it was a good thing that you haven't give him one. laugh

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Tue 09/08/09 10:58 AM


I just basicly am content with forgetting them.


I admit I give them more chances than I should and keep seeing them knowing it will doom to failure. Or, with the professor, I stayed for the sex.


I do the same thing...

SunnyMcleod's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:00 AM
I think it's great that you're seeing someone as HIM and not a silly nickname.

I know how I feel about a person when I give them a nickname and it's usually not romantic at all. For me it's like, if I nickname you its cuz I think your fun or weird or quirky or (sometimes) crazy as bat ****. If I like a man, I call him his name. It's a thing I do. He's him, not anything else. Because I like him.

Makes sense?

LewisW123's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:00 AM

I think it's funny that people keep trying to help you give him a nickname when you were saying it was a good thing that you haven't give him one. laugh


Oops. I just thought mine was being positive.

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:13 AM

I think it's great that you're seeing someone as HIM and not a silly nickname.

I know how I feel about a person when I give them a nickname and it's usually not romantic at all. For me it's like, if I nickname you its cuz I think your fun or weird or quirky or (sometimes) crazy as bat ****. If I like a man, I call him his name. It's a thing I do. He's him, not anything else. Because I like him.

Makes sense?


Yes, exactly. And I never really thought about it, I just did it. Even if I liked them I gave them nicknames... but it never lasted.

I mean this nickname thing was, in theory (EXCUSE) a way for family and friends to know who I was talking about... but I never called them that to their face.

Ohhh, there was OCD guy, who became naked guy. The one who answered the door naked on date four. Wearing only white socks, because he was "cold".

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Tue 09/08/09 11:17 AM


I think it's great that you're seeing someone as HIM and not a silly nickname.

I know how I feel about a person when I give them a nickname and it's usually not romantic at all. For me it's like, if I nickname you its cuz I think your fun or weird or quirky or (sometimes) crazy as bat ****. If I like a man, I call him his name. It's a thing I do. He's him, not anything else. Because I like him.

Makes sense?


Yes, exactly. And I never really thought about it, I just did it. Even if I liked them I gave them nicknames... but it never lasted.

I mean this nickname thing was, in theory (EXCUSE) a way for family and friends to know who I was talking about... but I never called them that to their face.

Ohhh, there was OCD guy, who became naked guy. The one who answered the door naked on date four. Wearing only white socks, because he was "cold".


Ewwwwwww ... noway

That would be G'bye guy for me!

Likely, and obviously, for you as well???

franshade's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:19 AM


I think it's great that you're seeing someone as HIM and not a silly nickname.

I know how I feel about a person when I give them a nickname and it's usually not romantic at all. For me it's like, if I nickname you its cuz I think your fun or weird or quirky or (sometimes) crazy as bat ****. If I like a man, I call him his name. It's a thing I do. He's him, not anything else. Because I like him.

Makes sense?


Yes, exactly. And I never really thought about it, I just did it. Even if I liked them I gave them nicknames... but it never lasted.

I mean this nickname thing was, in theory (EXCUSE) a way for family and friends to know who I was talking about... but I never called them that to their face.

Ohhh, there was OCD guy, who became naked guy. The one who answered the door naked on date four. Wearing only white socks, because he was "cold".


rofl what's wrong with this picture rofl Lilith leave it to you to give me a full visual rofl

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Tue 09/08/09 11:20 AM
I've never done that. I always like saying their real names too much.laugh

Seakolony's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:20 AM

Those of you that know me may (or may not) have noticed I usually give guys I date a nickname. Not sure if this was a distancing thing or what... but I am seeing a guy now that I just realized today I have no nickname for....

I'm taking that as a good sign.

Does anyone do anything like this? Anyone have any thoughts to share?


Good for you!! Glad you seem to be finally intrested in someone sane!!

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:20 AM
Yes, I never saw naked guy again. I even mourned the loss of my favorite tupperware and a new chip clip. I had stopped to see him after a cookout where I'd brought a dish... I put it in his kitchen and then walked into the living room, where I discovered his hairy back and lack of clothing. I wasn't willing to get it back if it meant seeing or talking to him again.

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:26 AM
Thank you April!! It's about time, too.



Fran.... his back was hairy and he had little moobs. He was cute, but no woman should FIND out about moobs and back hair so think you can comb it in full light. In the dark, being intimate... that's breaking it to me softly. After all, I'm hardly perfect either. But I don't show up nude and say, look at my stretch marks!!

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Tue 09/08/09 11:27 AM

Yes, I never saw naked guy again. I even mourned the loss of my favorite tupperware and a new chip clip. I had stopped to see him after a cookout where I'd brought a dish... I put it in his kitchen and then walked into the living room, where I discovered his hairy back and lack of clothing. I wasn't willing to get it back if it meant seeing or talking to him again.


You got off cheap and light,

... and early~on ... phew!!!



franshade's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:28 AM

Thank you April!! It's about time, too.



Fran.... his back was hairy and he had little moobs. He was cute, but no woman should FIND out about moobs and back hair so think you can comb it in full light. In the dark, being intimate... that's breaking it to me softly. After all, I'm hardly perfect either. But I don't show up nude and say, look at my stretch marks!!


rofl sure no one would mind if ya did rofl

I love the visuals

SunnyMcleod's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:29 AM

Thank you April!! It's about time, too.



Fran.... his back was hairy and he had little moobs. He was cute, but no woman should FIND out about moobs and back hair so think you can comb it in full light. In the dark, being intimate... that's breaking it to me softly. After all, I'm hardly perfect either. But I don't show up nude and say, look at my stretch marks!!

rofl That's so true!

I once nicknamed a guy I dated Gus Gus...he's get all excited and reminded me of that mouse from Cinderella...

Yea it didn't last more than a week after that...

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:29 AM
He told me I would be single forever as I was too picky. laugh laugh laugh

Ummmhmmm. The naked thing was added onto his excessive drinking (4-15 drinks a day of liquor), sports obsession (OBSESSION, bad, bad), OCD, arrogance, thinking only his musical tastes were good, all other music sucked, he talked smack about his sister, the B word and all, ohhh it goes on. He was lucky he had four dates.

tngxl65's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:30 AM
I don't think I give nicknames to the people but have been known to give a nickname to actual dates. There was "psycho marriage proposal" date and "fatal attraction" date and a "Friday the 13th" date.

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:33 AM
Oh yeah, I had the 43 minute date. I do that too... He told me I was stupid and wrong (for my opinion)... spittle was flying from his mouth.