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| Topic: Honestly, What Would You Do? | |
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What do I think?????
Birds of a feather flock together... |
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Whatever. Dont do anything less than what inspires you, and if someone has a problem with it, the good news is, you dont HAVE to do anything.
If its dramatic, and people are relying apon alcahol all the time.. maybe its time to to make new friends, and take a new direction. |
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yeah ...
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Edited by
TxsGal3333
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Fri 09/04/09 07:39 AM
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Friendship is about people who enjoy each others company not about how many times a week you see each other or who did what for who. Sooooooooooooooooo very true, I will admit the friends I have we get together once in a while not on a daily or weekly bases sometimes it will be weeks or months when we do. Why because some have a partner within their life that comes first, some due to distance and then sometimes life just gets in the way.... Friendships are about enjoying the time you have together not thinking you deserve more of that persons time.  They have other friends and family they want to be around.
When Friendship becomes a chore it is no longer one you enjoy being around and it is time to back off and let everyone have some breathing room in order to enjoy the friendship once more........... 
My point is .. its no tlike I even see her that often. I don't see any of my friends during the week. friday is date night for her. so that leaves saturday since I'm busy on sundays. Friendship isn't a chore to me. she makes it out like I'm around all the time when in fact ... I'm not. Hummm well hate to say it but it is beginning to sound like your the one that feels she should give you more of her time. Kind of needy sounding I don't mean that in a bad way but at time friends can't always be there when you want them to they have a life as well. I'm one that I feel you should be where you want to be. I have a best friend that is a guy sometimes I will see him on a daily bases sometimes it will be months in between. He recently started dating a lady that he is head over heels with it has been like 6 months now and within that time I think I have seen him twice down from seeing him every day almost... Are my feelings hurt that I don't get to see him? Hellllllllllllll nooooooooo I'm happy for him and wish him the best in life that is what friends do... they let the other one breath when they need too not end up a clingy vine that you have to brush off cause they are choking you.............. Give it some thought and step back for a while........ |
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Friendship is about people who enjoy each others company not about how many times a week you see each other or who did what for who. Sooooooooooooooooo very true, I will admit the friends I have we get together once in a while not on a daily or weekly bases sometimes it will be weeks or months when we do. Why because some have a partner within their life that comes first, some due to distance and then sometimes life just gets in the way.... Friendships are about enjoying the time you have together not thinking you deserve more of that persons time. They have other friends and family they want to be around.
When Friendship becomes a chore it is no longer one you enjoy being around and it is time to back off and let everyone have some breathing room in order to enjoy the friendship once more...........
My point is .. its no tlike I even see her that often. I don't see any of my friends during the week. friday is date night for her. so that leaves saturday since I'm busy on sundays. Friendship isn't a chore to me. she makes it out like I'm around all the time when in fact ... I'm not. Hummm well hate to say it but it is beginning to sound like your the one that feels she should give you more of her time. Kind of needy sounding I don't mean that in a bad way but at time friends can't always be there when you want them to they have a life as well. I'm one that I feel you should be where you want to be. I have a best friend that is a guy sometimes I will see him on a daily bases sometimes it will be months in between. He recently started dating a lady that he is head over heels with it has been like 6 months now and within that time I think I have seen him twice down from seeing him every day almost... Are my feelings hurt that I don't get to see him? Hellllllllllllll nooooooooo I'm happy for him and wish him the best in life that is what friends do... they let the other one breath when they need too not end up a clingy vine that you have to brush off cause they are choking you.............. Give it some thought and step back for a while........ Yeah, my best friend and I are like that now. But after I got used to the change in the routine ... i was fine with it. I know I have a problem with change. It's not even about being needy. I always had friendships where if you didn't see your friends at least once a week ... it didn't mean anything good. How can once a week suffocate someone? especially if that person is the one inviting you out .... |
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Whatever. Dont do anything less than what inspires you, and if someone has a problem with it, the good news is, you dont HAVE to do anything. If its dramatic, and people are relying apon alcahol all the time.. maybe its time to to make new friends, and take a new direction. someone else pointed out that we are at the age where our circle is beginning to drift apart ... |
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Friendships are kind of like stray cats; if you lose one another one is bound to come along eventually. People and friendships change over the years. Maybe it's time to make some new ones.
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Friendships are kind of like stray cats; if you lose one another one is bound to come along eventually. People and friendships change over the years. Maybe it's time to make some new ones. yeah .. i suppose you're right .. |
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