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Topic: Choice
Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 09/11/09 11:48 AM
one....really? It's Friday!!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 09/11/09 11:49 AM
I've never been in love, so I wouldn't know.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 09/19/09 11:40 PM
I've never been in love, so I wouldn't know.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 09/20/09 01:39 PM


MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 09/21/09 12:34 AM
one....really? It's Friday!!! and now its monday

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/29/09 08:16 PM


msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 09/29/09 08:22 PM
Who we love, is not a choice except as far as we cant fall in love with those we dont associate with. So , I guess, we cant choose who we fall in love with inside of our own circle. We can choose whether to SEEK others though and what to do about the love we feel.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 09/29/09 08:26 PM
I definitely think I choose who I love and stop loving. I can't see me loving anyone who did not love me back.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Tue 09/29/09 08:30 PM
I definitely think I choose who I love and stop loving. I can't see me loving anyone who did not love me back.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Tue 09/29/09 08:40 PM
People don't know the difference when they love someone and when they are in love with someone Huge difference and confusion makes disasters

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/29/09 08:40 PM
Who we love, is not a choice except as far as we cant fall in love with those we dont associate with. So , I guess, we cant choose who we fall in love with inside of our own circle. We can choose whether to SEEK others though and what to do about the love we feel.

FisitMan Joined Fri 08/24/07 Posts: 254	Wed 09/30/09 06:11 PM
You can lead a heart to love, but you can't make it fall Yes.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 09/30/09 06:20 PM
HHHMMMM.I BELIEVE WE CHOOSE WHO WE DECIDE TO ASSOCIATE OURSELVES WITH.YOU CANNOT KNOW ANYONE WITHOUT ASSOCIATION OR WE WOULD ALL BE FALLING IN LOVE WITH TOTAL STRANGERS. SORRY IF THATS NOT UNDERSTANDABLE. BUT YOU CANT FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT SOME KIND OF PREVIOUS ASSOCIATION...LETS BE REALISTIC.THEN THERE IS THE PART ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE...THIS TAKES TIME.THERE ARE SO MANY LEVELS TO FALLING IN TRUE LOVE THAT ANYTHING OTHER IS PERSONAL GRATIFICATION,DESPERATION OR JUST PLAIN LUST...WHICH THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THE LATTER...JUST BE ABLE TO DISTINGUISH ONE FROM THE OTHER AND YOULL BE OKAY.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 09/30/09 06:32 PM
Pants down........party time, that's a choice

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Wed 09/30/09 06:33 PM
People don't know the difference when they love someone and when they are in love with someone Huge difference and confusion makes disasters

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Wed 09/30/09 08:24 PM
People don't know the difference when they love someone and when they are in love with someone Huge difference and confusion makes disasters

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Fri 10/02/09 03:40 PM
Its by chance you fall in love,by choice to stay in love

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 10/03/09 10:48 PM
Pants down........party time, that's a choice

HeyBeautiful88 Joined Wed 06/17/09 Posts: 1056	Sat 10/03/09 11:04 PM
Its by chance you fall in love, by choice to stay in love Yeah, What She Said... And furthermore... I have found that Once I love you... we are Both Screwed. I don't know exactly How to "Un-Love" someone, tho at times.... Man would life be easier if I could!!

myshell711 Joined Thu 06/25/09 Posts: 610	Sun 10/04/09 03:14 AM
I believe we choose who we want to be "in love" with..we all have choices on what we do or don't do...even with the rose colored glasses on, they just make you choice a little more colorful that's all....still a choice you make..